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Our therapists offer domestic violence therapy in Virginia Beach, VA

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Get in-person or online care, and cover the majority of the costs with your insurance. Scheduling is easy — call our team and they’ll help you find your perfect match.

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1,235 people sought domestic violence therapy help in Virginia in the last year

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31  therapists available in  Virginia Beach

Lynchburg

I can't fix your problems, but I can help you develop the tools you need to find a solution that works for you....

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Reston

With 4 years of experience with mental health and substance abuse, as well as working with teens both in office and school setting...

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Lynchburg

am a female who understands the importance of being relatable and creating a safe place to explore feelings and emotions....

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Richmond

I am committed to offering a compassionate and nurturing space where clients feel safe to explore their feelings, heal from their ...

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Williamsburg

I understand the intersectionality of age, gender, race, religion, and the various cultural differences that make up our very dive...

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Lynchburg

Ruth Ware is a Licensed Professional Counselor in the states of Alabama, Mississippi, and Virginia. She is also Board Certified in...

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Woodbridge

I believe in a partnership approach to therapy and collaborate with my clients to find the most effective ways to improve quality ...

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Newport News

As a woman with varied life experience, I understand the need to have a listening ear....

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Roanoke

I'm a therapist in rural southwest Virginia known for my ability to establish strong connections with clients, especially children...

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Lynchburg

As a recent counseling graduate passionate about mental health, I understand the challenges of navigating life transitions and fin...

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Lynchburg

I’m passionate about helping others tap into their inner strength and find healing....

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Richmond

I know therapy takes real vulnerability, so I bring my full, authentic self to meet clients with connection and meaningful change ...

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Roanoke

I help children and teens and their families sort out issues and overcome challenges that arise from the effects of trauma on brai...

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Reston

As a survivor of domestic violence, cancer, and family members in active addiction, I understand the importance of having a safe s...

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Lynchburg

My goal as a counselor is to support my clients in developing practical skills to apply in their day-to-day lives so they can auth...

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Alexandria

I am a seasoned and experienced Licensed Professional Counselor who is passionate about wellness and providing a nonjudgmental and...

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Manassas

I have learned to value and embrace diversity without being judgmental....

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Lynchburg

As a married mother of two who works daily to manage chronic medical challenges, I can empathize with the unique level of support ...

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Midlothian

I believe self-understanding and empathy breeds healing and growth, and I'll walk alongside my clients through this journey of sel...

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Richmond

"For lack of guidance a nation falls, but victory is won through many advisers." –Proverbs 11:14...

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Fredericksburg

Life can present with unique challenges and unplanned events. Individuals may want a competent and caring person to talk about the...

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Charlottesville

Having been on the other side of the screen myself, wondering if I could truly open up to someone, I understand that this work req...

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Newport News

As a military spouse, mother, and first-generation college-educated individual, I understand what it is like to face unique challe...

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Alexandria

I am committed to providing effective and compassionate care....

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Richmond

As someone who has experienced the impact of mental health challenges, I provide a unique perspective, level of understanding, and...

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Blacksburg

As a young woman living in rural Appalachia, I understand the impact that social and cultural norms can have on our self-explorati...

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Alexandria

There is hope in every situation and when there is no open door you can always find a window....

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Chesapeake

As a compassionate counselor, I understand the unique impacts of trauma and grief and the daily challenges they can leave you expe...

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Midlothian

I know therapy can be intimidating, but I will walk this journey of personal growth with you at your own pace and on your own time...

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Midlothian

I am a culturally diverse counselor dedicated to creating a safe, supportive, and authentic environment for your healing journey b...

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Lynchburg

Your trauma is not your fault, but healing is your responsibility....

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Starting Domestic violence therapy in Virginia Beach

What is domestic violence therapy?

Domestic violence therapy is a specialized form of counseling that helps victims and their families heal from abusive relationships. It is a crucial component of the broader efforts to address and combat domestic violence, a pattern of abusive behaviors within intimate relationships that can encompass physical, emotional, psychological, sexual, or economic abuse.

How does domestic violence therapy work?

In domestic violence therapy, therapists create a safe and supportive environment. Domestic violence therapy is often part of a broader support network that includes legal assistance, shelters, and community resources. Its aim is to break the cycle of abuse, promote safety, and foster healthier relationships.

Is domestic violence therapy conducted in person or online?

Domestic violence therapy at Thriveworks is conducted both in person and via Online therapy. We encourage you to choose the option that works best for you.

How long does domestic violence therapy last?

Domestic violence therapy can last for a few weeks, months, or longer, depending on the individual’s exact needs and preferences.

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Domestic Violence: Counselors and Therapists in Virginia Beach, VA

Survivors of domestic violence can explain how appearances are sometimes just that—appearances. What happens privately in a relationship can look very different from the couple’s public presentation. Domestic violence can happen in any relationship, in any socio-economic class, in any education level, and in any race. Escaping the violence is also much harder than it appears.

The counselors at Thriveworks Virginia Beach know the dangers of domestic violence and understand how to support their clients who are in a harmful relationship. Reach out to us for help.

A Cycle of Violence

This victim’s experience is common and describes what therapist call the cycle of violence. The particular circumstances of each case of domestic violence are unique, but they all follow a general pattern. The cycle may take a few minutes, or it could take years. However, it almost always involves these stages:

The Honeymoon Phase: People are almost never violent all the time. Good behavior, romantic gestures, promises for the future, extravagant gifts, tearful apologies, and more can all be a part of domestic violence. These often confuse victims so that they never know which partner they are dealing with – the sweet one or the violent one.

The Tension Building Phase: Inevitably, the violent partner may feel they have atoned for their violence so the niceties get dropped. As the tension builds, victims may do everything in their power to prevent the impending harm: give into ridiculous demands, appeasing their partner, shielding their partner from anything that could trigger the violence. Victims, however, cannot pacify their partners out of the abuse.

The Abusive Phase: Domestic violence is never deserved or the victim’s fault. It is a choice a violent partner makes and sole responsibility for that choice rests on the perpetrator’s shoulders. The abuse may be sexual, physical, emotional, or a combination of all three. Whatever form it takes, domestic violence is illegal.

Red Flags of an Abusive Relationship

Because domestic violence follows a fairly predictable pattern, there are also fairly reliable warning signs that a relationship is abusive or that it will become abusive. Seemingly out-of-place behaviors that could easily be minimized and ignored could be the signs of domestic violence. Many of the red flags for an abusive relationship relate to control: a partner may want to control the other—what they wear, think, say, feel, do, and more.

If you are in a relationship with someone who displays these behaviors, it may be time to get help:

  • Prohibiting (or showing agitation when) you spend time with family or friends
  • Subtly putting you down or feeling threatened by your talents/abilities
  • Using derogatory names (even in “jest”)
  • Threatening you and/or other people
  • Blaming/criticizing you and/or other people for their behavior
  • Harming you, your kids, or your pets
  • Prohibiting you or discouraging you from going to school or working
  • Compelling you into sex or sexual acts when you have said, “no,” or where you feel uncomfortable
  • Trying to minimize or take away agency, the ability to make decisions—such as what to wear, how to spend money, where to go, and more

Scheduling Counseling for Domestic Violence

Do you recognize any of the behaviors on the list of red flags? Has your partner behaved in those ways? If so, know that what you have experienced is not a normal or healthy relationship. The abuse is not your fault, but you are strong enough to make a change. And Thriveworks Virginia Beach can help you make those necessary changes to be safe.

When you call our office, we will prioritize your care. It’s why a person will help schedule your appointment. It’s why we offer weekend and evening sessions. It’s why we work with most insurance plans. It’s why we provide same-week appointments to new clients. We want to see our clients receive the care they need. Call today to get started.

Pricing & insurance

Our therapists accept most major insurances. We accept 360+ insurance plans, and offer self-pay options, too.
Learn more about pricing for therapy and counseling services at Thriveworks.

Our therapists and counselors in Virginia Beach accept 25 insurance plans

  • Aetna

  • Anthem Blue Cross and Blue Shield Virginia Medicare Advantage

  • Anthem Blue Cross and Blue Shield Virginia | BCBS HMO

  • Anthem Blue Cross and Blue Shield Virginia | BCBS PPO

  • Anthem Blue Cross and Blue Shield Virginia | Exchange

  • CareFirst Blue Cross and Blue Shield of Virginia | BCBS HMO

  • CareFirst Blue Cross and Blue Shield of Virginia | BCBS PPO

  • Carelon

  • Carelon | Medicare Advantage

  • Cigna | Evernorth

  • Cigna | Evernorth Medicare Advantage

  • Compsych

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Self-pay costs at Virginia Beach
Talk therapy

Talk therapy

Includes individual, couples, child/ teen, & family therapy

First session

$1

Ongoing sessions

$1

Talk therapy

Psychiatry

Includes reducing symptoms with medication & management

First session

$1

Ongoing sessions

$1

Hear from our clients

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It was straight forward and easy to apply. With insurance it almost costs nothing and the counseling has helped a lot.
Taylor Mar 2025
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Abel is an excellent therapist. He has helped me change my life!
Michael Mar 2025
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After, initial visit, I think I found Karen Todaro to be thoughtful and helpful
Lori Mar 2025
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I enjoy my time during my appointments and wish I would have done it sooner honestly.
Jason Mar 2025
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My provider, James Martin, is a mental health professional of the highest caliber. I've seen several mental health providers throughout the past 20 years and not a single one can hold a candle to his technical expertise and compassion.
Alexander Mar 2025
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★★★★★
Flexibility in scheduling. Pressure-free conversational atmosphere.
Dan Mar 2025
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Nicole has been a game changer for my mental health. I switched to try her after leaving another provider who left me feeling defeated and hopeless about my situation. Nicole has navigated me out and through that situation, and continues to help me heal things. I am so thankful and grateful and excited for what's to continue to come with working with her.
Read more Nicole has been a game changer for my mental health. I switched to try her after leaving another provider who left me feeling defeated and hopeless about my situation. Nicole has navigated me out and through that situation, and continues to help me heal things. I am so thankful and grateful and excited for what's to continue to come with working with her.
Melissa Mar 2025
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Abel is the best . He Has helped me delve deeper into who I am and how to get where I think I need to be:-)
Albert Mar 2025
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Where to find us

Getting here

Thriveworks Counseling & Psychiatry Virginia Beach is located off of S Independence Blvd, in a shopping center right by Lake Trashmore. As you enter this shopping center, you’ll pass Making a Difference Foundation, Inc. on your right. We currently share a building with Interm Healthcare of Virginia Beach, VA, and Bug-Masters.

Phone number

(757) 520-0827

Languages spoken by VA providers

  • English
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