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2,056 people sought domestic violence therapy help in Virginia in the last year

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35  therapists available in Virginia Beach

Lynchburg

am a female who understands the importance of being relatable and creating a safe place to explore feelings and emotions....

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Virginia Beach

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Midlothian

As someone who has navigated trauma in my own life and military service, I bring a grounded, compassionate presence to therapy, me...

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Midlothian

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Richmond

"For lack of guidance a nation falls, but victory is won through many advisers." –Proverbs 11:14...

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Domestic violence therapy FAQs

What is domestic violence therapy?

Domestic violence therapy is a specialized form of counseling that helps victims and their families heal from abusive relationships. It is a crucial component of the broader efforts to address and combat domestic violence, a pattern of abusive behaviors within intimate relationships that can encompass physical, emotional, psychological, sexual, or economic abuse.

How does domestic violence therapy work?

In domestic violence therapy, therapists create a safe and supportive environment. Domestic violence therapy is often part of a broader support network that includes legal assistance, shelters, and community resources. Its aim is to break the cycle of abuse, promote safety, and foster healthier relationships.

Is domestic violence therapy conducted in person or online?

Domestic violence therapy at Thriveworks is conducted both in person and via Online therapy. We encourage you to choose the option that works best for you.

How long does domestic violence therapy last?

Domestic violence therapy can last for a few weeks, months, or longer, depending on the individual’s exact needs and preferences.

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Domestic Violence: Counselors and Therapists in Virginia Beach, VA

Survivors of domestic violence can explain how appearances are sometimes just that—appearances. What happens privately in a relationship can look very different from the couple’s public presentation. Domestic violence can happen in any relationship, in any socio-economic class, in any education level, and in any race. Escaping the violence is also much harder than it appears.

The counselors at Thriveworks Virginia Beach know the dangers of domestic violence and understand how to support their clients who are in a harmful relationship. Reach out to us for help.

A Cycle of Violence

This victim’s experience is common and describes what therapist call the cycle of violence. The particular circumstances of each case of domestic violence are unique, but they all follow a general pattern. The cycle may take a few minutes, or it could take years. However, it almost always involves these stages:

The Honeymoon Phase: People are almost never violent all the time. Good behavior, romantic gestures, promises for the future, extravagant gifts, tearful apologies, and more can all be a part of domestic violence. These often confuse victims so that they never know which partner they are dealing with – the sweet one or the violent one.

The Tension Building Phase: Inevitably, the violent partner may feel they have atoned for their violence so the niceties get dropped. As the tension builds, victims may do everything in their power to prevent the impending harm: give into ridiculous demands, appeasing their partner, shielding their partner from anything that could trigger the violence. Victims, however, cannot pacify their partners out of the abuse.

The Abusive Phase: Domestic violence is never deserved or the victim’s fault. It is a choice a violent partner makes and sole responsibility for that choice rests on the perpetrator’s shoulders. The abuse may be sexual, physical, emotional, or a combination of all three. Whatever form it takes, domestic violence is illegal.

Red Flags of an Abusive Relationship

Because domestic violence follows a fairly predictable pattern, there are also fairly reliable warning signs that a relationship is abusive or that it will become abusive. Seemingly out-of-place behaviors that could easily be minimized and ignored could be the signs of domestic violence. Many of the red flags for an abusive relationship relate to control: a partner may want to control the other—what they wear, think, say, feel, do, and more.

If you are in a relationship with someone who displays these behaviors, it may be time to get help:

  • Prohibiting (or showing agitation when) you spend time with family or friends
  • Subtly putting you down or feeling threatened by your talents/abilities
  • Using derogatory names (even in “jest”)
  • Threatening you and/or other people
  • Blaming/criticizing you and/or other people for their behavior
  • Harming you, your kids, or your pets
  • Prohibiting you or discouraging you from going to school or working
  • Compelling you into sex or sexual acts when you have said, “no,” or where you feel uncomfortable
  • Trying to minimize or take away agency, the ability to make decisions—such as what to wear, how to spend money, where to go, and more

Scheduling Counseling for Domestic Violence

Do you recognize any of the behaviors on the list of red flags? Has your partner behaved in those ways? If so, know that what you have experienced is not a normal or healthy relationship. The abuse is not your fault, but you are strong enough to make a change. And Thriveworks Virginia Beach can help you make those necessary changes to be safe.

When you call our office, we will prioritize your care. It’s why a person will help schedule your appointment. It’s why we offer weekend and evening sessions. It’s why we work with most insurance plans. It’s why we provide same-week appointments to new clients. We want to see our clients receive the care they need. Call today to get started.

Pricing & insurance

Our therapists accept most major insurance and we offer self-pay options too.
Learn more about pricing for therapy and counseling at Thriveworks.

Our therapists and counselors in Virginia Beach accept 30 insurance plans

  • Adventist Health Associates | Employee Health Plan

  • Adventist Health Associates | Non-Employee Health Plan

  • Aetna

  • Anthem Blue Cross and Blue Shield Virginia Medicare Advantage

  • Anthem Blue Cross and Blue Shield Virginia | BCBS HMO

  • Anthem Blue Cross and Blue Shield Virginia | BCBS PPO

  • Anthem Blue Cross and Blue Shield Virginia | Exchange

  • CareFirst Blue Cross and Blue Shield of Virginia | BCBS HMO

  • CareFirst Blue Cross and Blue Shield of Virginia | BCBS PPO

  • Carelon

  • Cigna | Evernorth

  • Compsych

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Self-pay costs at Virginia Beach
Talk therapy

Talk therapy

Includes individual, couples, child/ teen, & family therapy

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Psychiatry

Includes reducing symptoms with medication & management

First session

$1

Ongoing sessions

$1

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I am most appreciative of the trust and rapport that I have with my therapist.
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it's warm friendly honest encounter everytime.. I come away learning something about myself and how I can better interact with the world around me
Albert Sep 2025
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James always has a great attitude. He helps with suggestions. . Great to talk with.
Patrick Sep 2025
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I appreciate my providers high level of patience as well as providing me with a clear space to express with well elaborated feedback and responses.
Morris Sep 2025
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I love the experience
Sheldon Sep 2025
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Very compassionate . Able to do evening appointments . Always on time
Susan Sep 2025
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Abel Juarez is great! He is an excellent therapist who has helped me tremendously. I look forward to our weekly sessions and recommend him to anyone seeking counseling.
Michael Jun 2025
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Accessibility, genuine engagement and communication to assess current situations, goals and expectations to manage anxiety and depression and support to acknowledge progress in my journey. Thankful for the support from James Martin and Robby Trivette in helping care for my mental health and working through related medication management. One day at a time!
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Address

516 S Independence Blvd Suite 104
Virginia Beach, VA 23452

Getting here

Thriveworks Counseling & Psychiatry Virginia Beach is located near S Independence Blvd and Edwin Dr, off I-264. It is near Lake Trashmore and a short distance from the Virginia Beach Central Library.

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Phone number

(757) 520-0827
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Languages spoken by VA providers

  • English
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Hours

Thursday 8:00am - 9:30pm
Friday 8:00am - 9:30pm
Saturday 8:00am - 9:30pm
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Monday 8:00am - 9:30pm
Tuesday 8:00am - 9:30pm
Wednesday 8:00am - 9:30pm

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