Mental Health Topics, Relationships How long-term couples can establish new relationship boundaries by Wistar Murray on Jul 21, 2022 Most guides to defining healthy relationship boundaries focus on new couples. How do you set your personal rules of engagement from the beginning so both partners feel safe and respected? But people in long-term relationships know that love is dynamic. Humans continually grow and change both as individuals and as…
Anxiety, Ask a Therapist, Mental Health Topics I’m experiencing a lot of anxiety — how can I manage it effectively? by Emily Simonian, M.A., LMFT on Jul 20, 2022 Q: I’m experiencing a lot of anxiety and I want to manage it effectively. It’s weighing very heavy on me. A: Hi there, Thank you for reaching out! We’re so sorry to hear that you’re struggling with anxiety. While experiencing anxiety is common, we know how hard it can be…
Feelings & Emotions, Mental Health Topics, Work & Careers Why do I feel guilty taking time off work? How can I fix this? by Taylor Bennett on Jul 20, 2022 “I’m going to take Monday off,” you tell your partner with confidence. “I’m overdue for a mental health day.” The next morning, you walk into the office and open your inbox to draft an email to your manager: Good morning! I’m writing to let you know that I’ll be taking…
Health & Exercise, Mental Health Topics How can I cope with gym anxiety and feeling self-conscious at the gym? by Jason Crosby on Jul 19, 2022 Q: I make a point to go to the gym at least 3 times a week. It’s been one of my New Year’s resolutions, and so far it’s going great. It’s just that I get pretty bad gym anxiety when I’m there. There are a few things that set it…
Mental Health Topics, Work & Careers How can I actually relax on the weekends? by Jason Crosby on Jul 15, 2022 Q: I’m happy to have my job and I don’t really have anything bad to say about my coworkers or my position. But still, there are people and situations at work that can be really draining on me. As an introvert, by the time Friday rolls around, I can’t wait…
ADHD, Mental Health Topics ADHD is my superpower: A personal essay by Hampton Lintorn-Catlin on Jul 15, 2022 A Story About a Kid In 1989, I was 7 years old and just starting first grade. Early in the school year, my teacher arranged a meeting with my parents and stated that she thought that I might be “slow” because I wasn’t performing in class to the same level…
Depression, Disorders, Mental Health Topics A blueprint for understanding major depressive disorder (MDD) by Wistar Murray on Jul 14, 2022 Major depression disorder (MDD) is a mental health condition that impacts emotional well-being and can cause severe functional consequences in daily life. MDD is also called clinical depression, major depression, and unipolar depression (to distinguish it from bipolar depression caused by bipolar disorder). In Ancient Greece, depression was called melancholia,…
Mental Health Topics, Sexuality What are gender roles? And how do they shape our sexuality? by Jason Crosby on Jul 8, 2022 Our personal relationships with sexual desire are deeply complex. From the pangs and angst of our awkward teenage years to the difficulties of navigating healthy intimacy in adult relationships, understanding just how we feel about sex can be a lifelong journey. But as personal as sex is to all of…
Mental Health Topics, PTSD, Trauma A reliable roadmap for healing from sexual assault and sexual trauma by Wistar Murray on Jul 8, 2022 Your abuser does not get to define the rest of your life. You can know this intellectually, but it’s a whole different beast to know it in your body. People who experience sexual assault might internalize their fear and trauma so they continue to feel unsafe in their skin. They…
Mental Health Topics, Sexuality What is pansexuality? by Taylor Bennett on Jun 28, 2022 In college, I had a friend who I found incredibly unique and inspiring. Not only was Margaret relaxed in the most stressful of circumstances, but she was kind, accepting, and loving—all of which rubbed off on those around her. She kept her cool during exam week, calming everybody else’s nerves;…
Ask a Therapist, Mental Health Topics, Relationships How can I better deal with conflict or issues with my wife that make me uncomfortable? by Emily Simonian, M.A., LMFT on Jun 28, 2022 Q: I’m looking for more information specifically strategies for dealing with avoidance with my wife when dealing with conflict, disagreements, or issues that make me uncomfortable. When in those moments I have a tendency to freeze up and we are expecting a child, our due date was Friday the 24th….
ADHD, Mental Health Topics Understanding ADHD symptoms, diagnosis, and treatment options by Jason Crosby on Jun 21, 2022 Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD) is one of the most common mental health conditions in the US. Despite having the capability to disrupt our daily life and ability to focus, ADHD doesn’t have to detract from our quality of life. In fact, finding a successful form of treatment can help…