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Our counselors offer grief counseling in Durham, NC

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940 people sought grief & loss counseling help at Durham in the last year

Discover how starting grief & loss counseling can support your own journey toward a happier, more fulfilling life.

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As a systemically informed, non-binary, Latinx therapist, I have a personal understanding of the complex emotions associated with practicing self acce... As a systemically informed, non-binary, Latinx therapist, I have a personal understanding of the complex emotions associated with practicing self acceptance and processing relationship changes throughout the process. Read more

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Darryl McCarroll

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What is your go-to approach for grief & loss counseling?

My approach to grief and loss counseling is allowing the client to openly share what and how thery are feeling. The subject of loss requires the counselor to show and express empathy, encouragement, and guidance. I educate the client on the five stages of grief, review strategies to assist the client through each stage, and end with reminding the client of the strength they possess to manage the crises of loss and the ability to heal.

What tools do you teach in grief & loss counseling?

I use acceptance and commitment therapy (ACT) which requires focus on one's own values. ACT encourages clients to:

  • Commit to action and achieve goals
  • Accept difficult emotions without judging them or how they are experienced
  • Be more aware of and present in daily activities
  • Create space between themselves and their thoughts (cognitive defusion)
  • Develop the “observing self,” or self-as-context, to describe their thoughts and feelings dispassionately

How do you know when a client is making meaningful progress in grief & loss counseling?

I use EMDR as a tool and I take measurements of the disturbance level the client is experiencing due to their grief memories. As the disturbance levels of the memories decline, I know the client is establishing the cognitive ability to process and reprocess the grief or loss.

What can clients do in their personal time to supplement grief & loss counseling?

I encourage clients to join grief support groups online or in person, whichever is available. The main goal is to ensure the client is not left feeling alone managing their grief or loss.

What should someone do to prepare for starting grief & loss counseling?

The client is encouraged to prepare for their first grief and loss counseling session by listing the most important memory or feeling about the grief and loss, allowing them to identify the positive memories and confront the painful memories with integrity and understanding.

Starting Grief & loss counseling

What type of counseling is needed when a person cannot get over the grief of losing a loved one?

Grief and loss counseling helps people grieve difficult losses including the death of a loved one, the loss of a job, or the end of a relationship. It helps people navigate their grief process and eventually accept, understand, and move forward from their loss. Thriveworks grief therapists in Durham, NC have specific experience, training, and skills that enable them to best support grieving individuals.

How does grief and loss counseling work?

Grief and loss counseling isn’t one-size-fits-all, but it involves sharing about your loss and then working with your counselor to acknowledge and accept your new reality in its wake. Your provider at Thriveworks in Durham, NC will design your treatment plan around your unique needs and goals for therapy, applying the counseling techniques that best support them.

Signs I should seek grief counseling

If you have recently experienced an event like the death of a loved one, a breakup or divorce, the loss of a job, or another major life change, then you may want to seek grief and loss counseling. Grief can be caused by many experiences and events, so if you feel that you are having trouble moving on from a certain event or find that it is still impacting your life and functioning, grief and loss counseling can help you process it more effectively so that you can move on and once again find fulfillment and satisfaction in your life.

What counseling theory is best for grief?

There are many counseling theories for treating grief, one of the most frequently used being the dual process model of grief which helps people acknowledge who or what they’ve lost through rumination while also adjusting to the new roles and identities that this loss has now placed on them. There are also many commonly used therapy approaches used in grief and loss counseling, including Cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), Acceptance and commitment therapy (ACT), and traumatic grief therapy.

Is grief counseling conducted in person or online?

Grief & loss counseling at Thriveworks is conducted both in person and online by video. We encourage you to choose the option that works best for you.

How long does grief counseling last?

For many, grief and loss counseling lasts for about 6 months. For others, it may last shorter or longer, depending on the severity of their loss and their grief.

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Grief and Bereavement Counseling – Therapists and Counselors in Durham

Sometimes when we’ve suffered a loss, we struggle to get through it. We find ourselves struggling more and more each day, becoming more and more isolated and wondering if we’ll ever feel “normal” again. If that describes you, Durham Grief Counseling wants you to know there is help to heal.

Asking for help can be very hard especially when dealing with grief and loss. There is often an expectation that people will automatically reach out to help. Instead, when there has been a loss, friends and loved ones often back away, not knowing what to say or do. We may also fear being judged as weak because we can’t just “get over it.” The truth is, grieving is hard and sometimes we are just not equipped to deal with the struggle. This is when grief counseling can come in handy–if you’ve suffered from a difficult loss, consider scheduling a grief counseling appointment at Thriveworks Durham. We’re here to help.

When to Ask for Help

People seek grief counseling for lots of reasons. For some, counseling offers a safe place to talk about their feelings. For others, counseling can help them develop skills they may need to better cope with the loss. Some reasons to seek grief counseling might be:

  • Your depression is persistent and prevents you from carrying out day-to-day activities such as going to work or school, bathing, routine chores
  • You are using alcohol or medications more often to cope with your feelings
  • You are not eating or sleeping well
  • You are isolating yourself and avoiding social contacts more frequently
  • You have experienced multiple losses in a short period of time
  • You have thoughts of death or dying
  • You feel “stuck” and often wonder whether you’ll ever feel “normal” again
  • You have intrusive thoughts of your lost loved one that are distressing

Scheduling Grief Counseling at Thriveworks Durham

Whether you just need a little extra support or you are struggling to get through the day, the counselors at Thriveworks Counseling in Durham, NC can help. Our experienced counselors and psychologists understand how difficult a loss can be and are ready to assist you in your journey to healing. Plus, we offer many benefits to our clients, including same-week appointments, evening and weekend options, in-person and online care, most major insurances accepted, and more.

If you have questions about how counseling can help or to schedule your confidential appointment, please call Thriveworks in Durham today.

Pricing & insurance

Our therapists accept most major insurances. We accept 585+ insurance plans, and offer self-pay options, too.
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Our Durham therapists and counselors accept 23 insurance plans

  • Aetna

  • Blue Cross Blue Shield | Anthem (Blue Card)

  • Blue Cross and Blue Shield of North Carolina | BCBS

  • Blue Cross and Blue Shield of North Carolina | BCBS Medicare Advantage

  • Carelon

  • Caresource

  • Carolina Behavioral Health Alliance (CBHA)

  • Cigna | Evernorth

  • Cigna | Evernorth Medicare Advantage

  • Compsych

  • Devoted Health | Medicare Advantage

  • Firefly Health Plan | Cigna PPO Network

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Self-pay costs at Durham
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Talk therapy

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Hear from our clients

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The ease of setting up appointments are great and my therapist really listens to me, makes me feel comfortable and offers good advice.
Amber Apr 2025
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My therapist is very supportive. Working with her has been a great experience.
Erin Apr 2025
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I think for the future, allowing clients to put their preferred name and pronouns in their profiles would be more affirming. What I enjoy the most is that my provider is really good at fostering a safe therapeutic environment and they respect my queerness. During each session, I have become enlightened and motivated to work towards my goals. My provider is reliable, punctual, and understanding. They are amazing!!
Read more I think for the future, allowing clients to put their preferred name and pronouns in their profiles would be more affirming. What I enjoy the most is that my provider is really good at fostering a safe therapeutic environment and they respect my queerness. During each session, I have become enlightened and motivated to work towards my goals. My provider is reliable, punctual, and understanding. They are amazing!!
Donella Apr 2025
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It's nice to have in person therapy available most days, but virtual if it's ever required. The office is conveniently located & clean. . I'm SO appreciative of Kierra. She is a positive and reassuring person. The exercises she has done with me have stuck in my mind. I'm thankful she's willing to meet with me in the morning before I go to work.
Read more It's nice to have in person therapy available most days, but virtual if it's ever required. The office is conveniently located & clean. . I'm SO appreciative of Kierra. She is a positive and reassuring person. The exercises she has done with me have stuck in my mind. I'm thankful she's willing to meet with me in the morning before I go to work.
Alyx Apr 2025
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I've had a very positive experience working with Darryl McCarroll. He has been incredibly supportive, insightful, and compassionate during a challenging time in my life. His guidance and approach have made a meaningful difference, and I'm very appreciative of the help he's provided.
Read more I've had a very positive experience working with Darryl McCarroll. He has been incredibly supportive, insightful, and compassionate during a challenging time in my life. His guidance and approach have made a meaningful difference, and I'm very appreciative of the help he's provided.
Kayla Apr 2025
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She created a very welcoming and understanding environment that helped to ease my nerves about going in.
Alexander Mar 2025
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Darryl has been great to keep me moving forward with my therapy and progress. I am learning a lot about myself and thankful that I feel safe in moving forward.
Emily Mar 2025
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I liked the fact I was heard, and the hope for healing.
Gary Mar 2025
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Where to find us

Getting here

Thriveworks Counseling & Psychiatry Durham is located off Fayetteville Road, in the Sutton Station shopping center, next to Regional Pediatrics. We currently share a building with Nantucket Grill and Bela Trio Day Spa. Parking is located in front of the building and around the complex.

Phone number

(919) 642-4903

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