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108 licensed therapists & providers in North Carolina—6 in Durham. Available as soon as today, in person and online

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Our providers work with individuals, couples, families, & teens for anxiety, depression, grief, & more

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94% of patients feel truly understood by their provider. 3 out of 4 see improvement in depression & anxiety symptoms within 3 months

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1,181 people sought domestic violence therapy help in North Carolina in the last year

Discover how starting domestic violence therapy can support your own journey toward a happier, more fulfilling life.

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Domestic violence therapy FAQs

What is domestic violence therapy?

Domestic violence therapy is a specialized form of counseling that helps victims and their families heal from abusive relationships. It is a crucial component of the broader efforts to address and combat domestic violence, a pattern of abusive behaviors within intimate relationships that can encompass physical, emotional, psychological, sexual, or economic abuse.

How does domestic violence therapy work?

In domestic violence therapy, therapists create a safe and supportive environment. Domestic violence therapy is often part of a broader support network that includes legal assistance, shelters, and community resources. Its aim is to break the cycle of abuse, promote safety, and foster healthier relationships.

Is domestic violence therapy conducted in person or online?

Domestic violence therapy at Thriveworks is conducted both in person and via Online therapy. We encourage you to choose the option that works best for you.

How long does domestic violence therapy last?

Domestic violence therapy can last for a few weeks, months, or longer, depending on the individual’s exact needs and preferences.

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Domestic Violence Counseling—Therapists in Durham, NC

Are you in an abusive relationship? Or, maybe you recently got out of one? Perhaps it’s been years since you left, but those memories are looming. Regardless of where you are in the process, you’re likely wondering: When is the right time to get counseling the domestic abuse? The answer is now.

If you feel like you’re suffering from the effects of an abusive relationship, it is the right time to seek counseling. The skilled and caring domestic violence counselors at Thriveworks Counseling in Durham are awaiting your call—our trained professional domestic violence counselors know just how to help you and will work alongside you to collect all of the pieces of your life again. All you have to do is give them the chance.

Understanding Signs and Implications of Domestic Abuse

Oftentimes, an individual denies the need for counseling because their partner rarely or never acts violently. The sad truth is, however, that abusers work in many ways. In addition to physical abuse, an abuser may use emotional, mental, or sexual abuse. The following behaviors are common signifiers of domestic abuse:

  • Name-calling
  • Threatening
  • Criticizing or blaming
  • Putting you down
  • Coercing you into sexual acts
  • Talking you out of going to work or school
  • Outright harming you or your kids

In any form—physical, emotional, mental, and sexual—abuse is wrong, as well as harmful. And the implications are often devastating. Some of these effects include:

  • Post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD)
  • Anxiety
  • Panic disorders
  • Depression
  • Alcohol and drug abuse
  • Social isolation
  • Ongoing aches and pains

The above conditions and psychosomatic disorders can hinder your life in more ways than one. Fortunately, however, getting the help you need from a trained counselor at Thriveworks Counseling in Durham can help you handle these and other fallouts from the abuse you’ve lived through.

The Pattern and Repetition of Domestic Abuse

No two cases of domestic abuse are exactly the same, but a similar pattern proves to emerge: the couple enters and exits the honeymoon phase, tension builds, and then the abuse recurs. Take a look at the stages of this pattern below.

The Honeymoon: When a couple first enters a relationship, everything is new and exciting. Feelings are predominantly positive and they’re focused on making each other happy. This is why we refer to those first few weeks or months as the “honeymoon stage.” Unfortunately, however, these happy, peaceful times are what make domestic violence so inconceivable, so hurtful. When it comes to the honeymoon stage in the domestic abuse cycle, this is the time for apologies and reassurance. Violent partners say they’re sorry and promise it will never happen again. The couple then looks hopefully to the future.

The Tension: As the honeymoon stage comes to a close, the couple enters the tension-building stage. Here, tension returns and continues to build. The victim of the abuse often tries to ignore returning signs of abusive behavior, does their best to keep their partner calm, and even refuses to believe the tension could escalate further—into the abuse they’ve previously experienced.

The Abuse: The aforementioned tension escalates and escalates until the violent partner chooses to abuse again—physically, emotionally, mentally, or sexually. It’s important to note that it is never the victim’s fault; the responsibility is solely the abuser’s. Another significant note is that domestic violence is illegal. Nobody deserves to be abused and left with the detrimental effects that follow.

Start Domestic Abuse Counseling at Thriveworks Counseling in Durham Today

As you read through the warning signs, the implications, and the cycle of domestic violence, did anything strike a chord? We know just how hard it can be to admit, even recognize, when a relationship is unhealthy. But doing so is crucial to your well-being and starting on the road to recovery.

Many people have incorrect beliefs about what exactly it means to get domestic violence counseling. Some suspect it’ll help them come to terms with what they’ve gone through, but they often fail to understand all of the different ways it can help. This is because they often don’t realize the extent of the impact of their abuse.

You can trust that the counselors at Thriveworks are willing, able, and eager to help you. They’ll help you in more ways than you can count, you just have to give them the chance. Give Thriveworks Counseling in Durham a call at (919) 629-3854 to schedule an appointment today.

Pricing & insurance

Our therapists accept most major insurance and we offer self-pay options too.
Learn more about pricing for therapy and counseling at Thriveworks.

Our therapists and counselors in Durham accept 28 insurance plans

  • Adventist Health Associates | Employee Health Plan

  • Adventist Health Associates | Non-Employee Health Plan

  • Aetna

  • Blue Cross Blue Shield | Anthem (Blue Card)

  • Blue Cross and Blue Shield of North Carolina | BCBS

  • Blue Cross and Blue Shield of North Carolina | BCBS Medicare Advantage

  • Carelon

  • Cigna | Evernorth

  • Compsych

  • Devoted Health | Medicare Advantage

  • Firefly Health Plan | Cigna PPO Network

  • First Health Network

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Self-pay costs at Durham
Talk therapy

Talk therapy

Includes individual, couples, child/ teen, & family therapy

First session

$1

Ongoing sessions

$1

Talk therapy

Psychiatry

Includes reducing symptoms with medication & management

First session

$1

Ongoing sessions

$1

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I have a great counselor. She is kind, supportive and patient.
Chelsi Mar 2026
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Tomeka Bridges is the absolute BEST!!! She has helped in ways and with things that I never thought were possible. Please give her a RAISE!!!
Fernanda Mar 2026
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I really appreciate how comfortable and safe I feel during my sessions. It's easy to open up, and I fell truly heard and understood. I also like how things are explained in a way that makes sense to me. I don’t have any suggestions at this time—I'm looking forward to continuing.
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Chloee Mar 2026
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I appreciate how easy my clinician makes it to talk about difficult issues and work through my thoughts and feelings. This allows me to come out of the session with the feeling of self-confidence to handle these issues in the day-to-day.
Brandy Mar 2026
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Rebecca is so easy to talk to. She's incredible and truly seems to love what she does. She's the best therapist I've ever had the privilege to work with
Mollie Dec 2025
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I have been thoroughly pleased with my provider since day 1 , she is easy to talk to , provides positive feedback and is encouraging.
Nayomi Dec 2025
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Darryl McCarrol is a highly professional therapist who is helping me through two very traumatic life events happening at the same time. A very thoughtful and caring therapist.
Divya Dec 2025
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Ease of finding a provider quickly and matching your needs with the provider.
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Where to find us

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Address

5826 Fayetteville Rd Suite 211
Durham, NC 27713​

Getting here

Thriveworks Counseling & Psychiatry Durham is located in the Sutton Station near Fayetteville Road and Woodcroft Parkway, off NC-54. It is located near Woodlake Reserve and Woodlake’s Lake.

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Phone number

(919) 642-4903
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  • English
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Hours

Tuesday 8:00am - 9:30pm
Wednesday 8:00am - 9:30pm
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