Adultery Help, Infidelity Therapy – Counselors in Durham

Discovering that your partner or spouse has been “playing away” or cheating on you is one of the worst things that can happen to you. The feelings and emotions brought up from such a betrayal cannot be overstated. Unfortunately, infidelity and adultery are everyday issues that affect thousands of couples and families every day, and counseling for infidelity is now something that more and more people are seeking in their bids to get their lives back on track again.

Myriad Impacts of Adultery

It’s not just the action of adultery itself that hurts, it’s the feeling of betrayal from someone that you love and who (you thought) loves you back. It’s that sense of knowing that something is broken somewhere and may never be the same again. When adultery hits a couple or a family there is always an underlying reason for it beyond the actual act itself. These can be:

  • Lack of communication
  • Not being there for each other any more
  • Letting the relationship get boring and stale
  • Feelings of neglect on both sides
  • Outside pressures (stress, work) that one partner can’t share with the other.

Whatever the reasons are, it’s important to know that it’s these which need working on. Adultery is not the disease itself, rather a symptom of an underlying deeper issue within the dynamics of the couple. Getting some counseling for adultery will help to find out the root cause of the issue and seek to try to repair that.

Counseling for infidelity or adultery will also help to make you understand some of the feelings that you’re experiencing as either the faithful partner or the adulterer. These feelings can be any or all of the following:

  • Anger
  • Guilt
  • Despair
  • Feelings of inadequacy/unattractiveness
  • Feelings of being totally lost and alone.

Time to Move Forward

These feelings are atypical of couples affected by infidelity and counseling will help to deal with them in a constructive way, as well as helping you to recognize the root causes of your issues and offering plans on how to forgive each other and move forward.

If you’re feeling lost and think that counseling for adultery might be something that could help you, please contact us by e-mail or phone and we’ll be happy to give you more information.

Leave Us a Review

We love to hear about how we’re doing!

Say "Hello" to a Better You

Schedule your first appointment today

Thriveworks Counseling

People Love Our Providers!

Overall Rating: 5★★★★★ based on 21
5 1 21
reviews. See all reviews
Thriveworks Counseling Durham

Dr. Lundy

★★★★★
Dr. Lundy proved to be everything I had heard about her abilities to connect, relate and counsel individuals w...Read more

ho had been broken during life's journey. She maintained her professionalism throughout our sessions even when I was a total wreck. She was a Godsend and I thank her for all she has done to help me.

Read less
Thriveworks Counseling Durham

Request Giles!

★★★★★
I am a Family Psychiatric Mental Health Nurse Practitioner and have had the pleasure of working alongside Gile...Read more

s Christman. Giles is an outstanding therapist, which his clients can attest to- but what I'd like to provide feedback on is what clients don't see. Giles goes above and beyond to identify resources for each client's need(s), including assisting the client in overcoming any barriers in accessing those resources. Giles exemplifies a holistic, compassionate therapist- I highly recommend him to assist you on your wellness journey.

Read less
Thriveworks Counseling Durham

Dulcie is kind and easy to relate to.

★★★★★
I have been speaking with Dulcie for a few months now and i have found her advice and coaching to be extremely...Read more

helpful. Since I have started working with Dulcie i have found myself to be able to identify situations and reasonably work through them in a better manner. I would recommend her services to anyone in need of life guidance.

Read less

Thriveworks Counseling

Schedule your first appointment with a Thriveworks Counselor or Life Coach!

  • 5826 Fayetteville Road Suite 211
    Durham , NC 27713​

  • Mon-Fri:7:30AM-9PM
    Sat-Sun:8AM-5PM