Our therapists provide couples therapy in Durham, NC

My approach to couples/marriage counseling is to create a safe and supportive environment where both partners feel heard and understood. I use a variety of techniques to help couples identify and address underlying issues and patterns that contribute to relationship difficulties. My approach is collaborative, empathetic, and solution-focused, striving to empower couples to overcome challenges and build a fulfilling and resilient relationship.

I teach the following tools in couples/marriage counseling:

• Communication skills – building an understanding of how to accurately convey a message to your partner to improve mutual understanding.
• Conflict resolution – finding a way for two or more parties to reach a peaceful resolution.
• Emotional and physical intimacy – improving feelings of closeness, sharing personal feelings, and personal validation.
• Alignment – gaining clarity on mutual goals and aspirations.

I know when a couple is making progress when they are able to navigate challenges more effectively, strengthen their bond, and cultivate a more fulfilling and satisfying relationship.

To supplement their time in couples/marriage counseling, clients can create a weekly or monthly family meeting. During this meeting, they can discuss their feelings about their relationship, any patterns they've noticed in the previous weeks, upcoming events, and common goals they would like to achieve. This is a great way to keep the lines of communication open and work together towards a stronger and healthier relationship.

To prepare for your first couples or marriage counseling session, you can take the following steps:1. Reflect on goals and concerns: Take some time to reflect individually and as a couple on what you hope to achieve through counseling. 2. Clarify expectations: Have an open and honest discussion with your partner about what you both expect from counseling. Discuss your hopes, fears, and any reservations you may have. 3. Be open-minded: Approach counseling with an open mind and a willingness to explore new perspectives and strategies. 4. Commit to the process: Recognize that couples/marriage counseling requires time, effort, and commitment from both partners. 5. Practice empathy and communication: Make an effort to practice empathy and active listening in your interactions with your partner. 6. Manage expectations: Understand that counseling is not a quick fix and that progress may take time. Be patient with yourselves and each other as you work through challenges and setbacks.7. Consider individual therapy: In some cases, individual therapy alongside couples counseling can be beneficial, especially if there are underlying personal issues or traumas that need to be addressed.8. Take care of yourselves: Prioritize self-care and maintain a healthy balance in your life outside of counseling. By taking these steps to prepare for couples/marriage counseling, you can lay a strong foundation for a successful therapeutic journey and meaningful growth in your relationship.