Life Transition, Mental Health Topics, Relationships Reconciliation after divorce: Was divorce a mistake? Does your relationship deserve another shot? by Taylor Bennett on Mar 15, 2019 Marriage can be beautiful. It can also be incredibly problematic and end in divorce. In fact, according to the American Psychological Association, just about 40 to 50% of couples divorce. And the divorce rate for second, third, and other subsequent marriages is even higher. The main causes for divorce? Here…
Children, Teens, & Adolescents, Family, Mental Health Topics How does divorce affect a child’s future relationships? How can it change their view of love? by Taylor Bennett on Mar 15, 2019 Children can be affected by their parents’ divorce in different capacities, depending on the nature of divorce as well as the parents’ relationship post-divorce. That said, there are often harmful effects on children of divorce, as well as struggles in coping and important lessons learned. Regardless of the cause for…
Life Transition, Mental Health Topics, Relationships What divorce taught me about marriage: 4 people share how their divorce helped them understand what a healthy relationship is by Taylor Bennett on Mar 15, 2019 None of us anticipate divorcing the person we vowed to spend the rest of our lives with. We make this promise because we want to stand next to this person—and don’t expect, can’t imagine, this will ever change. But, as we all know, this can and does sometimes change. What…
Health & Exercise, Mental Health Topics A nap a day could lower your blood pressure and, in turn, reduce your risk of cardiovascular problems like heart attack by Taylor Bennett on Mar 14, 2019 New research shows that midday napping could reduce blood pressure, just as significantly as other lifestyle changes. The research team reached these findings by analyzing 212 participants: half of whom napped during the day, and the other half of whom did not nap. After adjusting for factors known to affect…
Bullying Awareness & Prevention, Mental Health Topics, Parenting Parents can prevent sibling bullying by spending more time with their firstborn (Video) by Taylor Bennett on Mar 13, 2019 Older brothers and sisters push around their younger siblings. But parents can put an end to this sibling bullying by spending more quality time with their firstborn. A University of Warwick study found that giving the eldest child more attention will prevent them from feeling threatened by and bullying siblings….
Life Transition, Mental Health Topics, Relationships Will I be happier divorced? How do I know if it’s the right decision? by Taylor Bennett on Mar 13, 2019 Every now and then, you hear about couples who divorce and then get back together. My childhood friend’s parents were one of those couples. After nearly 15 years of marriage, Cara’s mother decided she wanted a divorce—she blamed her husband (Cara’s dad) for every bad thing in her life and…
Mental Health Topics, Relationships, Trauma Can divorce cause PTSD? Therapy can help you heal from harmful symptoms like night terrors, flashbacks, and intrusive thoughts by Taylor Bennett on Mar 13, 2019 PTSD is often painted a certain way: the result of war, car accidents, assault, and other violent events; however, deep-rooted emotional experiences can cause PTSD, too. Divorce can bring on PTSD, specifically symptoms like night terrors, flashbacks, and troubling thoughts about the divorce or marriage. These symptoms can become exacerbated…
Family, Mental Health Topics, Parenting How to help your kids adjust after a divorce by Taylor Bennett on Mar 12, 2019 When my parents decided to divorce, I was 19 years old and a sophomore in college. Fortunately, because I was 19, I was able to cope (mostly). I was able to understand and adjust accordingly. I also had distractions aplenty, being that I was away at college. My kid brother,…
Mental Health Topics, Relationships, Self-Care Divorce recovery: You can heal properly by surrendering to the pain, forgiving, and focusing on self-care by Taylor Bennett on Mar 11, 2019 Any breakup is hard, but divorce is especially difficult, as you have to say goodbye to the person you planned to spend forever with. Fortunately, you can take matters into your own hands and recover: the three keys are giving in to the pain, forgiving yourself, and practicing self-care. Additionally, it’s…
Children, Teens, & Adolescents, Family, Mental Health Topics How does divorce affect children? If parents aren’t careful, their child or teen might lose their sense of safety and security by Taylor Bennett on Mar 10, 2019 Kids and teens are more susceptible to mental health problems because their brains are still developing. It’s important that they’re shown continuous love and support as they change physically, mentally, and emotionally. When parents divorce, this balance of love and support can get thrown off and negatively impact the kids….
Mental Health Topics, Psychology What are the 5 thinking styles? Understanding different types of thinkers by Taylor Bennett on Mar 8, 2019 We employ different ways of thinking. Some of us take a creative approach, while others are more analytic; some are focused on the short-term, while others think about the long-term. While we all have unique minds, our tendencies have been summed up into five recognized thinking styles: synthesists, or the…
Mental Health Topics, Relationships When a commitment phobe is in love: Is their relationship doomed? by Taylor Bennett on Mar 8, 2019 Commitment issues can cause one to fear and even run away from the potential of love—but commitment-phobes can overcome their fear and let love in. That said, commitment issues can seriously hinder a relationship, especially if one partner is ready to move forward but the other is not. While it…