Feelings & Emotions, Mental Health Topics Mentally broken after a serious injury: 8 tips for repairing your mental and emotional state by Trevor McDonald on Oct 14, 2019 A serious injury can happen at any moment, and the impact on your life can be more than just physical. For example, motor vehicle accidents are a leading cause of traumatic brain injuries, and most of us, at some point, get in or drive a car to go to work,…
Mental Health Topics, Self-Improvement Why are we always complaining? Retrain your brain to stop complaining and live happier by Edie Weinstein, LSW on Oct 14, 2019 Do you have someone in your life who is always moaning and groaning about something? It seems like we all have that one person. They never seem to take responsibility for anything, including their own happiness. They blame others for their emotions and circumstances they’re in. Maybe this person you…
Ask a Therapist, Mental Health Topics, Relationships I’m in my 40s. How can I make new friends? by Anthony Centore, PhD on Oct 14, 2019 How can I make connections to make new friends? I do things like go to meetup group hikes, but I don’t know how to translate that into ongoing acquaintances, much less deepen it into friendships. I feel like people would be annoyed if I tried to insert myself into things….
Mental Health Topics, Self-Improvement Grit and self-control: two key factors in accomplishing your long-term goals and living happily by Dan Tamasulo, PhD on Oct 8, 2019 Grit is a term made prevalent by Angela Duckworth from the University of Pennsylvania. She’s initiated a discussion about the correlation between grit, the tendency to maintain interest and effort in long-term goals, and self-control – the ability it takes to focus in the face of temptation or change. Thanks…
Aging, Media Use, Mental Health Topics How connected are the elderly today? Technology use, social media habits, and effects on mental health by Nikola Djordjevic on Oct 7, 2019 Technology is developing at such a fast pace today that it can sometimes be hard even for Millennials to keep up. It’s difficult to imagine what it must be like for people aged 65 and over. In reality, though, research data paints a different picture altogether. With the elderly spending…
Mental Health Topics, Relationships Healthy relationships are the key to happiness: Quality matters more than quantity by Dan Tamasulo, PhD on Oct 7, 2019 For years, psychology has looked into the imperfections of the human race. Depression, anxiety and mental illness studies and management protocols have covered pages of journals. When working to discover causes and treatments of these mental illnesses, researchers persevered to find ways to ease suffering for all those who were…
Mental Health Topics, Self-Improvement 3 steps to recover from a bad first impression (Video) by Taylor Bennett on Oct 7, 2019 Let’s say you blew it on a first date. Or meeting your significant other’s parents didn’t go as planned. Whatever the case, a bad first impression has left you feeling hopeless. What now? Instead of ruminating over the uncomfortable encounter, follow these three steps to recover. One, calm down. You’re…
Mental Health Topics, Self-Care Dispositional mindfulness: an internal, non-judgmental practice that supports mental health by Dan Tamasulo, PhD on Oct 7, 2019 Numerous methods of therapy and spiritual practice discuss mindfulness. Dispositional mindfulness (also recognized as trait mindfulness) is a category of consciousness that has lately, been given more serious research attention. It is defined as a keen awareness and attention to our thoughts and feelings in the present moment, and the…
Mental Health Topics, Relationships Harmonious vs. obsessive passion: Harmonious passion supports a healthy relationship, while obsessive passion can destroy it by Dan Tamasulo, PhD on Oct 4, 2019 A study ran by a Canadian researcher found that passion can be divided into two types: harmonious and obsessive. Dr. Robert Vallerand states that harmonious passion is present when we partake in an activity that we adore and feel pleased both throughout the activity and once we complete it. When…
Mental Health Topics, Relationships How-to up your dating game: 4 tips (Video) by Taylor Bennett on Oct 3, 2019 Dating can be intimidating. But if you follow a few rules, you can up your dating game and actually find romance. Here are four tips: One, plan fun dates. This first tip is simple: structure your dates around activities you actually enjoy. For example, instead of going to dinner and…
Mental Health Topics, Stress Use humor to reduce stress: Here are 3 tips (Video) by Taylor Bennett on Oct 2, 2019 There are many practices for stress relief, like meditating, journaling, and deep breathing. But one underrated technique deserves our attention: humor! Humor helps with stress reduction by relaxing muscles, eliminating distressing emotions, and adding perspective. Here are 3 tips for using it to your benefit: One, access your favorite quick…
Communication, Mental Health Topics 8 tips for getting good at small talk: Ask questions, avoid sensitive topics, and more by Taylor Bennett on Oct 1, 2019 Small talk can exacerbate social anxiety or simply make us feel uncomfortable; however, doing it well can aid success in our personal and professional lives. Get good at small talk by first asking questions; have a few generic questions handy to ask new friends or colleagues and tune in to…