Mental Health Topics, Relationships, Trauma What does trauma bonding look like in a relationship? by Jason Crosby on Nov 10, 2021 As social stigma and perceptions surrounding mental health conditions continue to change, popular usage of mental health terms is increasing as well. Of these terms, “trauma bonding” has been among the most used, researched, and debated. A form of psychological manipulation, trauma bonding occurs when someone experiences cyclical abuse from…
Mental Health Topics, Sleep Syncing your body with sunlight: How to undo chronodisruption this fall and winter by Wistar Murray on Nov 9, 2021 If a supervillain in a superhero movie declared that their ultimate evil plan was “global chronodisruption”, it would sound terrifying. The folks in tights would have to do everything in their power to stop the threat. But since the invention of the electric light, we humans (and some of our…
Mental Health Topics, Power & Control, Relationships Romance scammers: Who they are, what they do, and how you can protect your heart and wallet by Wistar Murray on Nov 4, 2021 The sweet, charming, handsome ex-Marine you’ve been emailing and texting with for eight months has a family emergency and can’t make his flight to meet you for the first time. You’re crushed. You’d let yourself fall hard for this guy, and now it might be another few months before you…
Mental Health Topics, Self-Improvement Does willpower exist? Ego depletion theory explained, plus ways to exercise better self-control by Jason Crosby on Nov 3, 2021 Willpower is often thought of as an “x” factor—an unquantifiable, but powerful force that, if only we could capture it, could allow us to conquer our vices and achieve our goals. Willpower is perhaps the most romanticized of all psychological traits, but rarely have we stopped to pose the question:…
Feelings & Emotions, Mental Health Topics, Work & Careers Avoiding toxic positivity in the workplace: Why faking happiness is bad for company culture by Jason Crosby on Oct 29, 2021 As the belief that one should remain positive even in the worst of situations, toxic positivity has secretly pervaded most people’s attitudes at work—revealing a lot about the lengths to which we’ll go to avoid addressing negative emotional states. The rise and recent fall of toxic positivity in the workplace…
Mental Health Topics, Relationships Do meat, sex, and money count as irreconcilable differences? Workarounds for 3 heated lifestyle clashes in couples by Wistar Murray on Oct 29, 2021 One thing that we’ve all learned from romantic comedies is that significant others can live in harmony even when their lifestyles are radically different. For example, one SO might prefer reading on the couch to running triathlons. One SO might spring out of bed at 5am to get a headstart…
Communication, Mental Health Topics, Work & Careers How to combat Zoom fatigue symptoms: Learn to improve your body language and nonverbal communication skills by Jason Crosby on Oct 28, 2021 Platforms like Zoom, Google Meet, and even FaceTime have streamlined our ability to communicate both personally and professionally. However, the best virtual meetings always seem to be short, sweet, and efficient. In these dream scenarios, everyone wins: There are no awkward pauses, people talking over one another or trying to…
Infidelity, Mental Health Topics, Relationships What is micro-cheating? How to recognize the signs, plus tips on how to save your relationship after infidelity by Jason Crosby on Oct 28, 2021 As the name implies, micro-cheating occurs when partners use small gestures or actions to engage with someone outside of their relationship in a flirtatious manner. Micro-cheating can happen when we cross the line with coworkers or friends, spend too much time secretly scrolling through our ex’s social media, or even…
ADHD, Mental Health Topics Managing ADHD in adulthood: The best sports for ADHD symptoms by Jason Crosby on Oct 27, 2021 Every fall, college and professional football games command center stage in living rooms across the country. Sitting down to watch sports can be relaxing, entertaining, and may even increase our self-confidence (unless our team loses). The benefits of watching sports have been apparent to psychologists for some time; but for…
Disorders, Mental Health Topics Rare mental disorders that could inspire blockbuster Halloween movies by Wistar Murray on Oct 25, 2021 First, let’s clear up one thing: There’s nothing inherently spooky or dangerous about mental health conditions like dissociative identity disorder (split personality) and schizophrenia. But that hasn’t stopped filmmakers from exploiting these conditions again and again in their horror movies. Cinematic depictions of people with mental health disorders can range…
Feelings & Emotions, Mental Health Topics Damaged beyond repair? The shame that keeps us up at night by Shannon Kersey, LPA on Oct 22, 2021 Shame: There is something wrong with me as a person. Guilt: I’m a person who may have done something wrong. What is the thing that causes you to lay awake at night; the thing that causes you shame? I promise that you’re not damaged beyond repair. You’re not unlovable. You’re…
Mental Health Topics, Power & Control, Work & Careers Dealing with workplace manipulation: Identify the signs, spot dark personality traits, and communicate more effectively by Jason Crosby on Oct 21, 2021 It’s like a bad nightmare: Imagine having a supervisor that’s hellbent on making your life miserable, playing with your emotions and your sanity. Perhaps this is already a tempting fantasy to believe on our worst workdays, when we’re rushing to meet deadlines or sitting through tedious meetings. Despite the frustration…