Mental Health Topics, Relationships, Self-Improvement Generational differences: Stepping outside of our personal experiences and tolerating opposing views by Jason Crosby on Apr 20, 2022 In the 1960s, “don’t trust anyone over the age of 30” was a common phrase among young people as they clashed with their elders. Social upheavals, gender role-bending, and even global violence were visceral themes that influenced politics, educational systems, fashion, music, film, and more. Every step toward the new…
Ask a Therapist, Mental Health Topics, Self-Improvement What is more important: following your heart or making others happy? by Emily Simonian, M.A., LMFT on Apr 18, 2022 Q: What is more important? Following your heart, mind, body, and soul, even if it means hurting others’ feelings and emotions, or continuing to live in denial to make your dying spouse, special needs child, and others happy? A: Thank you for reaching out. I really feel for you and…
Anxiety, Mental Health Topics Does life flash before our eyes when we die? Near-death experiences, strange brain activity, and death-related anxiety by Jason Crosby on Apr 15, 2022 Urban myths and popular fiction have nourished the idea that our final moments offer us a rapid-fire series of flashbacks, featuring each moment we’ve ever lived through. Whether life actually flashes before our eyes has never been confirmed, but many people who have survived near-death experiences have reported the phenomenon….
Disorders, Mental Health Topics Understanding dysgraphia: Handwriting issues in the digital age by Wistar Murray on Apr 15, 2022 You may wonder why handwriting still matters in an era when we’re all typing on smartphones and computer keyboards. Americans aren’t especially known for their great penmanship. In fact, in 1955 the Saturday Evening Post called the US a “nation of scrawlers.” But we do still write: at school, on…
Coping Skills, Loneliness, Mental Health Topics How loneliness affects the mind and body—plus 5 coping strategies by Jason Crosby on Apr 8, 2022 Spending time alone can be a blissful way to recharge our batteries when we feel our social energy levels starting to dip low. We all need some alone time every now and then—but when being alone becomes our daily default mode, the benefits of solitude disappear. And then loneliness sets…
Communication, Mental Health Topics, Religion & Spirituality Energy reading for beginners: What’s really happening when the vibes are off by Wistar Murray on Apr 8, 2022 Have you ever walked into a crowded room and sensed negative energy? Do you feel uncomfortable being around someone in a bad mood? Do you avoid certain people because they emit weird vibes? Do you ever cancel plans with friends because “the vibes are off”? What exactly are you picking…
Ask a Therapist, Feelings & Emotions, Mental Health Topics I am feeling super overwhelmed and alone: What are some things that I can do to calm down? by Emily Simonian, M.A., LMFT on Apr 7, 2022 Q: I am feeling super overwhelmed and alone. What are some things that I can do to calm down? A: We’re so sorry to hear that you’re feeling overwhelmed and alone. Those feelings are really difficult and we understand that it can be hard to find ways to calm and…
Mental Health Topics, Self-Improvement How to be more intentional with your time: Identifying time sucks and making downtime more restorative by Shannon Kersey, LPA on Apr 7, 2022 168 hours. That is how many hours are in each week. Did you know that? I certainly did not; I never thought to do the math. Someone recently recommended the book, “I Know How She Does It” by Laura Vanderkam. Truthfully, it is written for a specific group of people…
Children, Teens, & Adolescents, Grief & Loss, Mental Health Topics Grief camp for kids: Helping children find the sun after enormous loss by Wistar Murray on Apr 7, 2022 Child therapists know that children grieve differently from adults, and they also understand how a child’s unique grieving process might be overlooked in the midst of significant loss. Children who experience the death of someone close to them are often surrounded by adult suffering. They might not want to burden…
Mental Health Topics, Personality, Relationships Why are men and women with dark personality traits more likely to cheat on their partners? by Jason Crosby on Apr 7, 2022 Few scandals are able to hurt a romantic partner more than infidelity. In most relationships, monogamy is not only an unspoken rule, it’s a requirement; without it, monogamous relationships just couldn’t exist. For some, this means forgoing monogamy, while some remain faithfully committed to the sole person of their choice….
Grief & Loss, Mental Health Topics, Self-Care Grieving the loss of a pet: Self-care essentials and when to seek counseling by Taylor Bennett on Apr 5, 2022 In January of last year, my boyfriend and I jumped on the bandwagon and adopted a pandemic puppy. We named her Summer (thought it fitting for a golden retriever) and quickly fell in love. She’s like our child — we’ve watched her grow into the stick-loving, ball-chasing, somersaulting, silly, loving,…
Beginning Therapy, Mental Health Topics What is geek therapy? What are its benefits? by Wistar Murray on Apr 1, 2022 Geek therapy is a mental health intervention that incorporates so-called nerd culture into the therapeutic process. It’s a method that mental health professionals can utilize to reach clients who are interested in anime, gaming, comics, and other traditionally “nerdy” pursuits. Geek therapy operates on the principle of affinity, meaning that…