Eating Disorders, Mental Health Topics Eating disorders: A guide to achieving a healthy relationship with food by Wistar Murray on May 17, 2022 Eating disorders can take many forms: the aspiring model who disappears to the bathroom after every meal; the college student who hoards junk food in his dorm room so he can binge in secret late at night; the gymnast who skips meals and time with her friends so she can…
Mental Health Topics, Relationships When friendships change: How to maintain friendships in adulthood by Taylor Bennett on May 16, 2022 As we get older, many things change: our appearance, our interests, our goals, our routines, and our relationships. I’ve found the latter to be especially true. Sure, my hair’s grown, I now enjoy camping, I’m no longer pressed to lose weight, and I actually go to bed at a decent…
Family, Mental Health Topics, Relationships Divorce: A handbook for couples and exes by Wistar Murray on May 16, 2022 The choice between getting divorced or staying together may be one of the hardest decisions you ever have to make. It’s a critical crossroads where you may see your life heading in two different directions. What kind of future do you want? How do you make an informed decision about…
Coping Skills, Mental Health Topics, Relationships Third-wheeling: Being single when your friends are in a relationship by Jason Crosby on May 13, 2022 The front door open for the last time that night, my friends standing on the front porch, arm in arm, waving goodbye, their silhouettes shimmering against the half-moon behind them. Just beyond, I see another set of friends (another couple) climb into their car, as the cabin light illuminates the…
Mental Health Topics, Relationships The pros and cons of a starter marriage by Wistar Murray on May 12, 2022 What is a starter marriage? Well, obviously it’s the beautiful union between a starter wife or a starter husband and their starter spouse. Gorgeous wedding, all the gifts, no children, and they’re divorced within five years. These kinds of marriages have also been called entry-level marriages, icebreaker marriages, warm-up marriages,…
Media Use, Mental Health Topics How social media affects women’s mental health: Negatives vs. positives by Jason Crosby on May 12, 2022 It seems like nearly everyone with a smartphone has at least one social app that they dedicate a little time to. Around 72% of us pick up our phones and tap on those familiar icons daily, but the effects of using social media don’t affect everyone with the same intensity….
Family, Mental Health Topics, Parenting Mother’s Day: Understanding the deep connection between mother and child by Jason Crosby on May 6, 2022 Mother’s Day is one of those special holidays that for so many of us, reminds us of the unparalleled closeness that can define a parent-child relationship. The bond between a mother and child is often life-long; forged by familial ties and tempered with years of both arguments and heart-to-hearts, and…
Beginning Therapy, Mental Health Topics, Race & Identity Diversity and representation in counseling: Improving access to mental health care with a diverse clinical team by Taylor Bennett on May 6, 2022 Think back to a time when you were “online shopping” for a new health care provider — be it a counselor, a primary care doctor, or a specialist. What did you look for? Who did you gravitate toward? Who did you trust? You likely perused their education, years of experience,…
Children, Teens, & Adolescents, Mental Health Topics, Parenting, Self-Care 5 simple foundations of self-care for kids by Gretchen Cohen on May 6, 2022 About one in six kids in the United States struggle with a treatable mental health disorder, and only half of them get the professional help they need. As a parent or caregiver, you provide consistent support for your child. You help teach them how to navigate life’s challenges. An important…
Disorders, Mental Health Topics Borderline personality disorder: Symptoms and perspectives by Wistar Murray on May 6, 2022 Experts estimate that less than 2% of the general U.S. population has borderline personality disorder (BPD), but roughly 25% of people claim to have experienced a symptom or two of the condition. For example, most of us have felt emotionally volatile at one point or another. We may have become…
Coping Skills, Feelings & Emotions, Mental Health Topics When you’re too much in your feelings: How to hack brooding rumination by Wistar Murray on May 3, 2022 Mental health advice on the Internet often boils down to a few general teachings about emotional regulation. We’re encouraged to learn coping skills and strategies for dealing with stress. We’re supposed to become more resilient in the face of adversity. We’re meant to manage our negative feelings in healthier ways….
Children, Teens, & Adolescents, Mental Health Topics, Trauma How can adverse childhood experiences and childhood trauma affect us in adulthood? by Jason Crosby on Apr 29, 2022 Childhood, if nothing else, is a memorable period of our lives. Hopefully, we can recall blissful memories: of holidays, old friends, family vacations, and time spent simply running around, doing all the things kids do. But not every childhood experience is so positive—some of us have adverse childhood experiences. In…