Mental Health Topics, Relationships How long is too long to stay in a relationship? Follow these 3 steps to determine the viability of your relationship by Dan Tamasulo, PhD on Dec 13, 2019 Personally, I’ve contributed to a daily blog called “Ask the Therapist” for nearly 10 years. Each month, around 2,500 questions are submitted by people all across the world. The problems submitted deal with a wide variety of issues, some extremely heartbreaking. I’ve had questions from a young woman in the…
Mental Health Topics, Self-Improvement Acknowledge, accept, and embody change—Follow these three rules and watch your life transform by Dan Tamasulo, PhD on Dec 12, 2019 Positive psychology is centered around research on intentional activities. People are becoming more and more successful at transforming their lives for the better thanks to deliberate positive interventions. Focused, mindful acts—for example practicing acts of kindness, expressing gratitude, and reviewing the good things that happened in your life today—have an…
Mental Health Topics, Self-Care Journaling is the ultimate self-help tool: Learn how it helps us cope, accomplish our goals, and get started on your own journal by Dan Tamasulo, PhD on Dec 10, 2019 Many people keep a diary or journal as a way to store their thoughts. Actually, a recent study found that 83% of girls, ages 16-19 say they keep a diary—mostly as a means of personal reflection. If you keep a diary or journal, you are in good company. Past United…
Feelings & Emotions, Mental Health Topics How-to recover from an embarrassing moment: 3 tips (Video) by Taylor Bennett on Dec 2, 2019 You trip and fall at the office. There’s toilet paper stuck to your shoe. You forget your entire presentation in front of hundreds of people. Embarrassing moments can be small or large in impact. One thing’s for sure, though: we’ve all been there. We have an embarrassing moment and feel…
Addiction, Coping Skills, Mental Health Topics Getting through the holidays in early addiction recovery: Be patient, talk to someone you trust, and set yourself up for success by Daniel Wittler on Nov 26, 2019 This time of year is exciting and special for many, as families come together to celebrate the holidays. However, it isn’t exciting for all. In fact, it can be a very difficult time for people in addiction recovery. Here are a few common issues for those in recovery during the…
Ask a Therapist, Mental Health Topics, Relationships My parents don’t approve of my boyfriend, or want him around for Christmas by Anthony Centore, PhD on Nov 22, 2019 My parents do not approve of my relationship. I am 23 years old and I have lived with my boyfriend (who I plan to marry) since February 2019. Since then, I am constantly getting told that this was a bad decision and I am constantly being asked by my parents…
Addiction, Disorders, Mental Health Topics, Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD) Substance use disorder and obsessive-compulsive disorder often coincide: Understand the relationship and get the right treatment by Kailey Fitzgerald on Nov 21, 2019 According to the National Survey on Drug Abuse and Health, 9.2 million adults in the United States struggled with substance use disorder and another mental illness (such as an anxiety or mood disorder) in 2018. These statistics show that substance use disorder and other forms of mental illness tend to…
Mental Health Topics, Sexuality Embracing and expressing sexuality: Follow these 3 tips by Taylor Bennett on Nov 14, 2019 Many of us shiver or clam up at the mention of sex (we’ll get into why later) but talking about sex (when and where appropriate) is vital to our health and wellbeing—these conversations allow us to understand safe sex practices, explore our personal feelings about sex, and ultimately maintain a…
Aging, Life Transition, Mental Health Topics, Sexuality Sex can change with age: Maintain a satisfying sex life by understanding changes in sexual function, communicating with your partner, and practicing safe sex by Taylor Bennett on Nov 13, 2019 A common misconception is that as we age, we stop having sex or lose interest in sex altogether. This simply isn’t true, as supported by a recent University of Michigan/AARP poll of 1,000 older adults, or those between 65 and 80 years old. This poll found that nearly two-thirds of…
Addiction, Mental Health Topics, Sexuality Recovering sex addicts struggle to know what healthy sexuality feels like: Here are 6 characteristics of a healthy sexual relationship by Taylor Bennett on Nov 12, 2019 Sex addiction is characterized by a compulsive need to engage in sexual acts. Symptoms include obsessive sexual thoughts, preoccupation with having sex—even when it interferes with day to day responsibilities—and an inability to control their sexual behavior. Fortunately, over time, sex addicts can recover and heal from their addiction. This…
Feelings & Emotions, Mental Health Topics, Self-Care Write your heart out: Put pen to paper to express and understand your feelings by Edie Weinstein, LSW on Nov 7, 2019 One of the most powerful ways to express oneself involves taking pen to paper or fingers to keyboard as emotions spill out. For people seeking mental health treatment, journaling their thoughts is often a lifeline. I was spending time with a client not too long ago, and I felt myself…
Feelings & Emotions, Mental Health Topics FOMO, or the fear of missing out, keeps us from living life to the fullest by Edie Weinstein, LSW on Nov 6, 2019 When I was a kid, I went 100 mph non-stop. It was very seldom that I would take a break to catch my breath. Personally, I think some of that had to do with my asthma diagnosis—I would not let that slow me down; I wanted to prove that I…