Family, Grief & Loss, Mental Health Topics When a family member dies—how to adjust to a new normal by Christy Monson on Nov 13, 2018 There are many different types of loss and a plethora of different reactions to loss; loss might mean a loved one’s death, divorce, or moving, while common reactions to loss include depressive or anxious feelings. The way we react to such a loss has much to do with two systems:…
Abuse & Neglect, Mental Health Topics, Parenting, Relationships How do you leave an abusive relationship when a child is involved? by Taylor Bennett on Nov 9, 2018 By this point, Morgan’s used to being pushed around—literally and figuratively. Her boyfriend, Jon, who used to treat her with the utmost love and respect, became abusive about 2 years into their relationship. It started with words: demeaning, condescending, cruel words. Then it turned into a little nudge here and…
Abuse & Neglect, Mental Health Topics, Relationships Do I like abusive relationships? Why do I attract abusers? by Taylor Bennett on Nov 8, 2018 Statistics show that people who have been abused in the past are more likely to be abused in the future. This begs an important question: Do certain people attract abusers or abusive relationships? It’s important to note that abuse is never the victim’s fault. In fact, more often than not,…
Abuse & Neglect, Mental Health Topics Can a friendship be abusive? How to spot the abuse and when to sever ties by Libby Kiszner on Nov 8, 2018 We can spot an abusive friendship when we practice listening to ourselves. Your inner self will let you know what’s going on inside. Your mind constantly oversees your needs, wishes, and dislikes, and communicates to you through the language of bodily sensations. If you take the time to slow down…
Abuse & Neglect, Mental Health Topics, Relationships Can a violent relationship get better? Understanding the difference between characterological and situational violence by Taylor Bennett on Nov 6, 2018 When I think about violence, I shudder. Whether it’s two MMA fighters battling it out on TV, a kid lashing out at his mother, or an argument that has escalated into a physical altercation between partners. I find the latter case particularly disturbing. The first example is obviously an organized…
Bullying Awareness & Prevention, Mental Health Topics Are bullying and harassment the same thing? by Taylor Bennett on Nov 2, 2018 Bullying and harassment are similar in that the perpetrator hurts or harms their victims and typically without remorse. That said, there are differences between the two such as why the perpetrators engage in the abusive behaviors. Bullies typically seek a feeling of power or control, which they get from demeaning,…
Bullying Awareness & Prevention, Mental Health Topics Are my friends bullying me? How do I get them to stop? by Taylor Bennett on Nov 1, 2018 Our friends are some of the last people we’d expect to bully us or mistreat us in anyway, but it happens and it’s important to know what that looks like. While disagreeing and hurting each other’s feelings every now and then is normal, it is not normal nor okay for…
Bullying Awareness & Prevention, Mental Health Topics Why does bullying happen? Who is at risk of being bullied? by Taylor Bennett on Nov 1, 2018 Every single day, people are bullied by their peers: in school, at work, and elsewhere. An important question to ask when it comes to bullying is why: why do bullies bully? A few factors are involved, including whether or not actions are taken by a community to prevent bullying. Additionally,…
College, Mental Health Awareness, Mental Health Topics College students are facing significant mental health challenges: Here are 7 conditions to keep an eye out for by Freddie Tubbs on Oct 31, 2018 College students face severe mental health challenges, which threaten to wreak havoc on their studies as well as their overall wellbeing. It’s important to keep a watchful eye on the college goers in your life, specifically if they exhibit harmful symptoms of a mental illness like anxiety or depression. In…
Bullying Awareness & Prevention, Mental Health Topics Sibling bullying: Know the signs and stop the cycle (Updated) by Taylor Bennett on Oct 29, 2018 It’s important you understand it yourself before educating your kids on bullying: for instance, bullying doesn’t just occur at school but in the household. Oftentimes, bullies are created in the household after they are bullied themselves by family members, like parents and siblings. You can spot sibling bullying by keeping…
Bullying Awareness & Prevention, Mental Health Topics How do I talk to my kid about bullying? (Updated) by Taylor Bennett on Oct 29, 2018 It can be hard to navigate a conversation about bullying with your child, but there are a few professional tips that can help you do so successfully. First, you should help your child feel comfortable talking to you; this can be accomplished by encouraging and maintaining open communication on multiple…
Coping Skills, Mental Health Topics Feeling flustered? Regain control by challenging your inner critic and finding your calm by Taylor Bennett on Oct 26, 2018 Oftentimes, we feel flustered after messing up and ruminate over the self-perceived embarrassment or mistake. However, more likely than not, those who witnessed the blunder either didn’t notice or don’t care about the blunder. We need to remember that we’re our own worst critics and put things into perspective: whatever…