Mental Health Topics, Self-Improvement Negativity is readily available, but positivity is more beneficial by Dan Tamasulo, PhD on Oct 22, 2019 Not too long ago, I was in a New York City restaurant when I heard two young women chatting. One of the women was confiding in her friend, telling her about some anxiety she felt about school and her job. She told her that she worries about not doing well…
Communication, Mental Health Topics, Relationships How-to ask for forgiveness: 5 tips (Video) by Taylor Bennett on Oct 22, 2019 Apologies are important. They help us to express remorse and repair relationships when we’ve made a mistake—that is, if we go about them the right way. Here are 5 tips that will help you ask for forgiveness. One, say you’re sorry. A genuine apology shows remorse and makes an impact….
Mental Health Topics, Self-Improvement Give without expecting anything in return, and experience a new way of being in the world by Dan Tamasulo, PhD on Oct 22, 2019 Adam Grant, author of the book Give and Take, focuses on the simplicity of the act of giving. He states that there are three types of people: givers, takers, and matchers: The Givers: The best givers give in ways that are thoughtful and courteous and they aren’t worried about receiving…
Feelings & Emotions, Mental Health Topics Would owning more things make me happier? The scientific answer is no by Dan Tamasulo, PhD on Oct 21, 2019 A materialist is someone whose life is centered around acquiring more goods. Materialists correlate their happiness with their possessions. They claim that these products are the key source of their life fulfillment and a representation of their success in life. The question, “Would owning more things make me happier?” is…
Children, Teens, & Adolescents, Mental Health Topics, Parenting Set your child up for success: Learn how to say no, help develop their self-control, and share praise in the right way by Dan Tamasulo, PhD on Oct 21, 2019 Nowadays, a child will spend over six hours a day in front of a screen. That’s around 45 hours a week! Let me put this into perspective for you: you probably work a 40-hour week. The average child spends more time looking at a screen then you spend at work…
Mental Health Topics, Relationships, Work & Careers Tips for befriending coworkers at a new job: Remember names, look for opportunities to connect, ask questions, and more by Taylor Bennett on Oct 18, 2019 Everything that comes with a new job can be intimidating, as you are entering an unfamiliar place with unfamiliar people! Many of us struggle to get to know and befriend our new coworkers; the good news, though, is that we can implement a few tips to make the process easier….
Beginning Therapy, Mental Health Topics What is my therapist thinking? Here’s what goes on inside your therapist’s head prior to your session by Dan Tamasulo, PhD on Oct 18, 2019 Prior to your sessions, do you ever wonder: “What is my therapist thinking?” Are they focused on what techniques they are going to try with you? Or, maybe they’re looking over your previous sessions to see what notes they had. And perhaps the most important question of all: “Are sessions…
Alcohol & Drugs, Mental Health Topics, Self-Improvement Handgun purchasers with a previous DUI conviction are more likely to be violent and commit crimes than handgun purchasers without a DUI record by Taylor Bennett on Oct 18, 2019 New research suggests that handgun purchasers with a previous DUI conviction are more likely to commit violence crimes than handgun purchasers without a DUI record. Researchers identified every individual between 21 and 49 years old who legally purchased a handgun in California in 2001; researchers then identified any violent crime…
Mental Health Topics, Self-Care The self-care commitment: Easy instructions for taking care of your physical, emotional, spiritual, professional, and social self by Lillyana Morales on Oct 17, 2019 Physical health has always been emphasized and encouraged. Habits like maintaining a healthy diet, going to the gym, brushing your teeth, are just a few familiar examples. But how about maintaining your mental health? While physical wellness is definitely important, one’s emotional and mental state also need attention on a…
Beginning Therapy, Mental Health Topics Fun twists can help people make progress in therapy: Here are 3 examples by Edie Weinstein, LSW on Oct 16, 2019 For the last 40 years, I have been a therapist devoted to serving and assisting many different types of people, from children to adults, individuals, families. Due to my many years of experience, people are constantly asking me for my outlook on different theories. As flattered as that makes me…
Mental Health Topics, Self-Improvement Am I a good person? Willingness to improve, social conscience, and positive action by Edie Weinstein, LSW on Oct 15, 2019 Today, social conscience is an extremely valued asset. How we act is typically dependent on the people we interact with in personal and professional settings. Some struggle evaluating situations and utilizing social conscience, and it shows when mishaps and faux pas occur. How we react to our oops moments places…
Mental Health Topics, Self-Improvement How-to defeat intense food cravings: 4 tips (Video) by Taylor Bennett on Oct 15, 2019 We all have intense cravings for indulgent foods, like pizza and ice cream. And there’s nothing wrong with indulging every now and then. But if you’re trying to eat healthier or you’re following a strict diet, you’re met with the challenge of defeating these food cravings. Here are four tips…