Men's Issues, Mental Health Topics How to be a supportive male ally in the workplace: 5 allyship strategies by Jason Crosby on Dec 9, 2021 Within the past several years, the term “allyship” has been commonly used in relation to movements such as BLM, or the LGBTQIA+ community—referring to a non-community member who goes out of their way to provide support socially and emotionally to those who experience higher instances of discrimination. With large social…
Depression, Mental Health Topics Is “post-Disney depression” worse than normal vacation withdrawal? by Wistar Murray on Dec 1, 2021 It’s day 2 after your arrival home from a fun, meaningful, and memorable vacation. You’re back at work and you feel down, almost disassociated from the business around you. Everyday reality feels drained of color and emotion. Unofficial diagnosis: You have the post-vacation blues. But what if you’ve just returned…
Mental Health Topics, Self-Improvement How do I start motivating myself to get organized? by Heidi Faust, LCSW on Dec 1, 2021 Q: How do I start motivating myself to get organized? A: Great question! The short, real answer is if you’re waiting to feel motivated or have a belief that motivation is necessary in order to get started with something, it’s just not true. You can choose to start getting organized…
Community, Mental Health Topics, Self-Improvement How to be generous without losing a kidney this holiday season by Wistar Murray on Nov 23, 2021 A California woman decided to donate one of her kidneys without specifying who would receive the transplant. A male stranger subsequently benefited from her healthy organ. The woman, who was a writer, was definitely not seeking anonymity. She chronicled her “nondirected donation” through a special Facebook group. Then she confronted…
Anxiety, Coping Skills, Mental Health Topics Black Friday shopping guide for smart consumers with anxiety by Wistar Murray on Nov 19, 2021 Some shoppers have nightmares about arriving at the big box store 5 minutes too late to snag the Black Friday doorbuster they came to buy. For other shoppers, a nightmare scenario is the Black Friday shopping itself. Consider this [Trigger Warning]: You walk through the automatic doors of a megamall…
Mental Health Topics, Power & Control, Self-Improvement How to outsmart neuromarketing tactics and manage your online shopping addiction on Black Friday by Jason Crosby on Nov 19, 2021 Every fall, Black Friday and Cyber Monday loom as the notorious twins of November, luring shoppers out in droves amid fierce competition. But beyond the viral videos of people fighting over TVs, these two consumer holidays are a big win for companies, with Americans spending nearly $20 billion on both…
Eating Disorders, Mental Health Topics, Self-Care Holiday eating rules that won’t suck the fun from Thanksgiving by Wistar Murray on Nov 16, 2021 A holiday feast should be a joyous occasion, where people clink glasses and indulge in deliciousness and reinforce their bonds of love. But all too often these banquets conclude with a substantial portion of the guests laid up on the couch, dealing with heartburn, hating themselves for their gluttony. (This…
Children, Teens, & Adolescents, Mental Health Topics, Parenting How to reconnect with your kids: 12 small ideas that can go a long way by Shannon Kersey, LPA on Nov 15, 2021 I was talking to my sister the other day (I grew up an only child, but luckily got step-sisters when I was older). We haven’t seen each other in a while and were catching up on life. During our conversation, she said something that caught my attention: “You know how…
Mental Health Topics, Relationships, Trauma What does trauma bonding look like in a relationship? by Jason Crosby on Nov 10, 2021 As social stigma and perceptions surrounding mental health conditions continue to change, popular usage of mental health terms is increasing as well. Of these terms, “trauma bonding” has been among the most used, researched, and debated. A form of psychological manipulation, trauma bonding occurs when someone experiences cyclical abuse from…
Mental Health Topics, Sleep Syncing your body with sunlight: How to undo chronodisruption this fall and winter by Wistar Murray on Nov 9, 2021 If a supervillain in a superhero movie declared that their ultimate evil plan was “global chronodisruption”, it would sound terrifying. The folks in tights would have to do everything in their power to stop the threat. But since the invention of the electric light, we humans (and some of our…
Mental Health Topics, Power & Control, Relationships Romance scammers: Who they are, what they do, and how you can protect your heart and wallet by Wistar Murray on Nov 4, 2021 The sweet, charming, handsome ex-Marine you’ve been emailing and texting with for eight months has a family emergency and can’t make his flight to meet you for the first time. You’re crushed. You’d let yourself fall hard for this guy, and now it might be another few months before you…
Mental Health Topics, Self-Improvement Does willpower exist? Ego depletion theory explained, plus ways to exercise better self-control by Jason Crosby on Nov 3, 2021 Willpower is often thought of as an “x” factor—an unquantifiable, but powerful force that, if only we could capture it, could allow us to conquer our vices and achieve our goals. Willpower is perhaps the most romanticized of all psychological traits, but rarely have we stopped to pose the question:…