Ask a Therapist, Mental Health Topics, Relationships How can I better deal with conflict or issues with my wife that make me uncomfortable? by Emily Simonian, M.A., LMFT on Jun 28, 2022 Q: I’m looking for more information specifically strategies for dealing with avoidance with my wife when dealing with conflict, disagreements, or issues that make me uncomfortable. When in those moments I have a tendency to freeze up and we are expecting a child, our due date was Friday the 24th….
ADHD, Mental Health Topics Understanding ADHD symptoms, diagnosis, and treatment options by Jason Crosby on Jun 21, 2022 Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD) is one of the most common mental health conditions in the US. Despite having the capability to disrupt our daily life and ability to focus, ADHD doesn’t have to detract from our quality of life. In fact, finding a successful form of treatment can help…
Family, Mental Health Topics, Parenting Father’s Day: Understanding the chemical and psychological connection between father and child by Jason Crosby on Jun 17, 2022 Father’s Day is all about Dad—showing him just how special he is and how much of an impact he’s made on your life. Whether you connect with him by reminiscing about old family memories or taking the day to create new ones, Father’s Day is the perfect time to reflect…
Mental Health Topics, Race & Identity What is Juneteenth and why is it important? by Taylor Bennett on Jun 16, 2022 Juneteenth is the annual commemoration of the end of slavery in the United States. While it has been celebrated in various parts of the country since 1865, it became an official federal holiday in 2021. For many individuals outside of the Black community, the knowledge might stop there. Questions remain,…
Coping Skills, LGBTQIA+, Mental Health Topics What is queer imposter syndrome? Plus, how to cope by Jason Crosby on Jun 14, 2022 Imposter syndrome is a lingering feeling of uncertainty related to some part of our identity—the sense that we don’t belong. It can occur at work if we’re promoted, when relocating to a new community, or when meeting new people in our personal lives. But it can also happen to members…
Communication, Mental Health Topics, Work & Careers How to improve verbal and nonverbal communication at work by Jason Crosby on Jun 13, 2022 It’s probably safe to assume that everyone would like to be viewed as competent, confident, and engaged at work. When we’re writing an important email, we might draft and re-read it several times before pressing “send.” It’s also not uncommon for us to add an emoji in a chat message…
Communication, Men's Issues, Mental Health Topics Intimacy and affection in men: 5 way to communicate more effectively in romantic relationships by Taylor Bennett on Jun 9, 2022 Many men are expected to be strong—no matter what. They wear a suit of armor at all times to deflect difficult emotions and to avoid being labeled as sensitive or effeminate. If this armor “fails” though, they may resort to hiding what breaks through their defenses, often by keeping their…
Mental Health Topics, Race & Identity Group therapy with biased America: The psychology behind racial prejudice by Wistar Murray on Jun 6, 2022 Diversity can be celebrated all year round, not just on dedicated months, but it’s naive to celebrate diversity without also talking explicitly about racism and prejudice. Otherwise the evidence shows that our country’s deep social inequalities will just be perpetuated. A famous 2016 study revealed that majority-white high schools tended…
LGBTQIA+, Mental Health Topics How do you become an LGBTQ+ ally? by Taylor Bennett on Jun 3, 2022 LGBTQ+ Pride Month is celebrated annually throughout the month of June—its mission being to achieve equal justice and opportunity for the LGBTQ+ community, which is comprised of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer or questioning, intersex, asexual, and many more individuals. Today, Pride events include parades and parties, workshops, concerts, and…
LGBTQIA+, Mental Health Topics Trans euphoria: 30 inspirational transgender quotes by Wistar Murray on Jun 2, 2022 When you’re relentlessly defending your human rights, you don’t get adequate opportunities to just BE. Transgender people have to read more than enough scary headlines about threats to their very existence. So we want to take a moment to shine a proud, beaming spotlight on all the beautiful men and women…
Children, Teens, & Adolescents, Mental Health Topics, Parenting How to help a frightened child feel safe again by Wistar Murray on May 27, 2022 When a child is scared, it’s natural for a parent to feel helpless. Childhood fears and specific phobias aren’t always rational, so you can’t just reason them away by saying, for example, “Only seven Americans die from spider bites every year,” or “Sweetie, there are zero monsters under your bed.”…
Family, Mental Health Topics Is it okay to cut off family members with toxic traits? by Jason Crosby on May 27, 2022 Q: I love my sister, but sometimes we get into the worst arguments over her behavior. It’s not that I try to get into these debates, but she always seems so ungrateful anytime I do something nice for her, and when I point this out, she denies it. Whether it’s…