Mental Health Topics, Relationships How to Break Up When You Live Together: 3 Simple Tips by Taylor Bennett on Apr 18, 2018 Lena and Martin’s relationship has been on the rocks. And after 12 years of marriage, they’ve decided to call it quits. As with any other big split, a few questions and concerns arise… the most important being: Who gets the house? And what about the kids? Now, instead of determining…
Mental Health Topics, Relationships How to End a Long-Distance Relationship by Taylor Bennett on Apr 18, 2018 Long-distance relationships can work… but sometimes, couples realize that they just can’t conquer the unique challenges that come with this` distance. “As there are many factors that individuals consider when choosing to stay connected across the miles, there are also valid reasons why others choose to call it quits,” Dr….
Communication, Mental Health Topics, Relationships How to Break Up With Someone You Love by Taylor Bennett on Apr 17, 2018 Breakups suck. I don’t care if you’re the dumper or the dumpee—regardless, you’re in a sucky position. However, there is one key difference between the two: as the dumper, you decide how this breakup unfolds. Or at least how this breakup begins to unfold. While there is no textbook equation…
Beginning Therapy, Mental Health Topics Here are 4 common fears about counseling and how to overcome them by Taylor Bennett on Apr 17, 2018 When I was in college, one of my best friends announced out of the blue that she was going to start therapy. She said it nonchalantly, with a bright smile and hopeful eyes. Her first appointment was in just a few days, she told me. I was amazed, to say…
Mental Health Topics, Stress How to use your 5 senses to reduce stress and anxiety by Taylor Bennett on Apr 17, 2018 The stress and anxiety many of us experience on a day-to-day basis can be exhausting. Fortunately, however, there are a ton of grounding techniques and calming exercises that help to bring us back to our center again. And one of those practices requires nothing other than your five senses, simply…
Beginning Therapy, Mental Health Topics Tips for Being Open and Honest With Your Counselor by Taylor Bennett on Apr 13, 2018 Congratulations! You’ve decided to prioritize your mental health and see what therapy has to offer—that’s great. You should be proud of yourself… even if you’re feeling a little uncertain about this unfamiliar territory. First and foremost, it’s okay to be nervous. “Taking the steps to look for and then contact…
Coping Skills, Mental Health Topics 3 Fundamental Approaches to Healing from Painful Experiences by Taylor Bennett on Apr 12, 2018 We all suffer from our fair share of heartache—whether it’s rooted in a breakup, the loss of a loved one, abandonment, the death of a pet, or any number of things. And in any such circumstance, it’s important that we confront the painful feelings that accompany the painful experience. But…
Aging, Mental Health Topics Serious Conflicts and Crises Accelerate Brain Aging in Middle-Aged Men, Study Says by Taylor Bennett on Apr 11, 2018 New research suggests middle-aged men may suffer from ill-fated or unfortunate events in a way that others don’t. According to this neuro study “Effects of lesions in different nuclei of the amygdala on conditioned taste aversion,” serious conflicts and crises—such as divorce, death of a loved one, or financial hardship—appear…
Aging, Mental Health Topics Ballet Is a Positive Influence on Physical and Mental Health in Older Adults by Taylor Bennett on Apr 10, 2018 New research from Queensland University of Technology says that ballet improves the overall wellbeing of older adults and has a tremendously positive influence on several health categories. More specifically, the report “Ballet Moves for Adult Creative Health” showed that seniors involved in a three-month ballet project had higher energy levels,…
Mental Health Awareness, Mental Health Topics Promoting Body Positivity: Embolden Yourself and Those Around You by Taylor Bennett on Apr 10, 2018 Our bodies are temples—but we don’t typically treat them as such. Instead, we hate them, we shame them, and we neglect them. And in turn, we hate, shame, and neglect ourselves. I say it’s time to change that narrative. It’s time we start loving and appreciating ourselves. And it’s time…
Mental Health Topics, Relationships When Is Bickering in a Relationship Too Much? by Taylor Bennett on Apr 10, 2018 You bicker. I bicker. We all bicker. With our parents, our siblings, our friends… but especially our significant others. This is a common issue in relationships, but that’s not to say it isn’t harmful. In fact, it’s actually pretty destructive. It all comes down to avoiding or settling petty arguments…
Mental Health Topics, Relationships Are Your People Pleasing Habits Destroying Your Relationship? by Taylor Bennett on Apr 10, 2018 I am the ultimate people pleaser. I put others’ needs before my own; I do everything in my power to make others happy; and only then do I think about me. In my humble opinion, this makes me a loyal, dependable friend… but it doesn’t come without its weaknesses. At…