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Starting Dependent personality disorder therapy

What is Dependent personality disorder therapy?

Dependent personality disorder therapy from our therapists in Chesterfield, VA helps clients establish their individuality and self-reliance, as those with dependent personality disorder harshly criticize themselves and underestimate their abilities.

How does Dependent personality disorder therapy work?

Dependent personality disorder therapy often involves exploration into one's past — specifically, events or relationships that may have led to the development of their dependent personality disorder. These experiences and their subsequent behaviors are discussed to help one develop healthier behaviors moving forward.

Is Dependent personality disorder therapy conducted in person or online?

Dependent personality disorder therapy at Thriveworks is conducted both in person and online by video. We encourage you to choose the option that works best for you.

How long does Dependent personality disorder therapy last?

Dependent personality disorder with a provider at Thriveworks in Chesterfield, VA is a short-term therapy, as long-form treatment can lead to the development of a dependence on one's therapist.

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Maybe you have heard this story: a young girl who has lost both her mother and her father is left to live with her stepmother and two step sisters. Instead of caring for the young girl, the stepmother forces her to become the family’s servant. This young girl does all the cleaning and cooking—without fail and without thanks. As time passes, the young girl grows up and complies with their every wish. In the process, she loses her sense of self. Others eventually rescue her—her animals, fairy godmother, and prince charming. Most people are probably familiar with the story of Cinderella, but they may not be as familiar with the “Cinderella Complex.” When an individual is overly compliant, wants to be cared for, fears independence, they may have the “Cinderella Complex,” another term for Dependent Personality Disorder. Although Cinderella was a little girl, Dependent Personality Disorder can develop in men and women, rich and poor, old and young.

When people have Dependent Personality Disorder, they often have difficulty functioning in mutual relationships, display low-esteem, desire to please people in authority, and have a need to be cared for. Dependent Personality Disorder can cause many personal and professional difficulties, but treatment options are available. Skilled therapists often combine psychotherapy with appropriate medication as clients grow and their self-awareness and self-reliance.

The therapists at Thriveworks Chesterfield treat Dependent Personality Disorder, and we have appointments available. Many of our clients have worked with our staff to learn how resourceful and capable they are.

Dependent Personality Disorder’s Risk Factors

Diagnosing Dependent Personality Disorder can be tricky because certain developmental stages or cultural practices can look like the disorder. For example, children are dependent upon their parents in a way that is not disordered but developmentally appropriate. Similarly, certain cultures value deferential treatment toward elders and authority figures. Again, this displays of passivity or deference are not Dependent Personality Disorder.

Diagnosing a mental disorder should never be done lightly. The Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, Fifth Edition (DSM-5) gives a detailed outline on how to recognize Dependent Personality Disorder (301.6[F70.7]). The DSM-5 says that people with Dependent Personality Disorder generally begin to show symptoms as they transition into adulthood. They may be unable to establish an independent, adult life and function self-sufficiently. They are also at an increased risk for other adjustment disorders, personality disorders, depression, and anxiety.

Recognizing Dependent Personality Disorder

There are two thoughts that provide the foundation for Dependent Personality Disorder. First, Dependent Personality Disorder teaches people that they cannot provide for their own physical and psychological needs. Second, the disorder teachers people that others have to care for them to survive. Thus, people with the disorder are often needy and clingy. They may experience and display separation anxiety. They are often very compliant as well as denigrate themselves or accept criticism without question. Often, Dependent Personality Disorder turns people into their own worst critics and causes them to underestimate their own competence.

The diagnostics for Dependent Personality Disorder are outlined in the DSM-5. Individuals with the disorder display:

  1. A core need for someone to care for them.
  2. Behavior that is overly deferential.
  3. Anxiety when separated from care givers.

Additionally, a minimum of five of the following will be displayed:

  • Difficulty making daily decisions without extreme reassurance or advice from an authority figure.
  • Feeling uncomfortable with being by oneself—even going to extreme measure to be around other people.
  • Depending upon another individual to be able to function in one’s life. For example, if someone else pays the rent.
  • Sacrificing one’s own values, beliefs, and identity in order to obtain nurture and support from others.
  • An extreme fear of abandonment.
  • An extreme fear of having to care for oneself.
  • Conforming to what others think to secure approval.
  • When one care-giving relationship ends, quickly replacing it with another one.

Even a quick glance at these symptoms will show how much difficulty people can have with Dependent Personality Disorder. The disorder can severely handicap people’s ability to carry on a healthy personal and professional life. People with it often have very limited social circles—only people who are their caregivers. They often struggle to hold a job or advance in their career because of their lack of initiative and confidence.

Setting Up Counseling at Thriveworks Chesterfield for Dependent Personality Disorder

“You are constantly invited to be what you are.”
—Ralph Waldo Emerson

The mental health professionals at Thriveworks Chesterfield have worked with many clients who have Dependent Personality Disorder. We offer individualized and holistic treatment. Some people need cognitive behavior therapy. Others would benefit from psychodynamic therapy. Many need medication as they manage their symptoms and delve into emotional wounds. The mental health professionals at Thriveworks Chesterfield know that each client has unique needs, and we are committed to providing personalized care that addresses each individual’s needs and symptoms.

If you are fighting dependent behaviors and are considering reaching out for help, know that Thriveworks Chesterfield has appointments. When you call to schedule your session, a real person will answer and help you find an appointment time. Your first appointment may be within 24 hours of your first call. We accept many different forms of insurance, and weekend and evening appointments are offered. We do not keep a waitlist, so our clients are never put on one. Let’s fight Dependent Personality Disorder together. Call Thriveworks Chesterfield today.

Pricing & insurance

Our therapists accept most major insurances. We accept 585+ insurance plans, and offer self-pay options, too.
Learn more about pricing for therapy and counseling services at Thriveworks.

Our Chesterfield therapists and counselors accept 24 insurance plans

  • Aetna

  • Anthem Blue Cross and Blue Shield Virginia | BCBS

  • Anthem Blue Cross and Blue Shield Virginia Medicare Advantage

  • Blue Cross Blue Shield | Anthem (Blue Card)

  • CareFirst Blue Cross and Blue Shield of Virginia | BCBS PPO

  • Carelon

  • Cigna | Evernorth

  • Cigna | Evernorth EAP

  • Compsych

  • First Health Network

  • Humana Exchange

  • Humana HMO/POS

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Self-pay costs at Chesterfield
Talk therapy

Talk therapy

Includes individual, couples, child/ teen, & family therapy

First session

$1

Ongoing sessions

$1

Talk therapy

Psychiatry

Includes reducing symptoms with medication & management

First session

$1

Ongoing sessions

$1

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I have not felt great after two days on the medication prescribed for me on Saturday. But, my psychologist is amazing she listens and is friendly. Had amazing experience and advice to give out to me.
Read more I have not felt great after two days on the medication prescribed for me on Saturday. But, my psychologist is amazing she listens and is friendly. Had amazing experience and advice to give out to me.
Hannah Jan 2024
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★★★★★
I was so nervous about going to therapy being that I’ve never foresaw a reason or need to go… I had encountered a very traumatic accident at work and it left me confused and depressed about my career path! I can honestly say if it weren’t for Ariane I’d still be left battling confusion and and depression from my accident. I’ve suffered anxiety and panic attacks from the incident but Ari has given me helpful tips to get through my tough times when I’m experiencing those attacks. I’m just so grateful to have encountered a very experienced and understanding counselor who genuinely has my best interest at a full recovery at heart!
Read more I was so nervous about going to therapy being that I’ve never foresaw a reason or need to go… I had encountered a very traumatic accident at work and it left me confused and depressed about my career path! I can honestly say if it weren’t for Ariane I’d still be left battling confusion and and depression from my accident. I’ve suffered anxiety and panic attacks from the incident but Ari has given me helpful tips to get through my tough times when I’m experiencing those attacks. I’m just so grateful to have encountered a very experienced and understanding counselor who genuinely has my best interest at a full recovery at heart!
Chesterfield Nov 2021
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★★★★★
This was my first therapy experience. I was in desperate need for help. Jenee was my therapist for a year and I can’t overstate how incredibly helpful she has been. She met me where I was mentally and helped me to find myself and healthy/productive ways of dealing with my everyday struggles. I’m a completely different and happier person thanks to her hard work.
Read more This was my first therapy experience. I was in desperate need for help. Jenee was my therapist for a year and I can’t overstate how incredibly helpful she has been. She met me where I was mentally and helped me to find myself and healthy/productive ways of dealing with my everyday struggles. I’m a completely different and happier person thanks to her hard work.
Chesterfield Feb 2021
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★★★★★
Ramona Peters at Thriveworks is the most empathetic person and amazing social worker. She is prompt, considerate, compassionate and so insightful. Her love for people and her ability to connect truly shine through in my encounters with her. She has real life experience and such a truthful yet kind and humanitarian way of helping people look at and solve dilemas and overcome day to day obstacles in life. Would highly recommend!
Read more Ramona Peters at Thriveworks is the most empathetic person and amazing social worker. She is prompt, considerate, compassionate and so insightful. Her love for people and her ability to connect truly shine through in my encounters with her. She has real life experience and such a truthful yet kind and humanitarian way of helping people look at and solve dilemas and overcome day to day obstacles in life. Would highly recommend!
Chesterfield Oct 2020
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★★★★★
Dr. Lottie Ampy is an excellent therapist and psychologist, who has served in the counseling and psychology field for many years. I have had the opportunity to work with her in the community and have seen her skills in action first hand, whether for crisis situations or generalized therapy for individuals or families. She has many talents and skills, but especially excels helping others to reach their personalized goals when in midst of going through difficult times. She is an excellent clinician and is also aware of local and regional resources. She delivers caring, compassionate services and is a clinician/psychologist who can work with you, right where you are. She is an asset to the Thriveworks team. Dr. Ampy renders 5*+ services to all she encounters.
Read more Dr. Lottie Ampy is an excellent therapist and psychologist, who has served in the counseling and psychology field for many years. I have had the opportunity to work with her in the community and have seen her skills in action first hand, whether for crisis situations or generalized therapy for individuals or families. She has many talents and skills, but especially excels helping others to reach their personalized goals when in midst of going through difficult times. She is an excellent clinician and is also aware of local and regional resources. She delivers caring, compassionate services and is a clinician/psychologist who can work with you, right where you are. She is an asset to the Thriveworks team. Dr. Ampy renders 5*+ services to all she encounters.
Chesterfield Sep 2020
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★★★★★
Ramona is a wonderful social worker with a calming presence. She makes you feel heard and respected, while also helping you reflect and move forward.
Read more Ramona is a wonderful social worker with a calming presence. She makes you feel heard and respected, while also helping you reflect and move forward.
Chesterfield Sep 2020
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★★★★★
Ms. Stefanie is an absolute therapy guru! She helped me tremendously with communicating more effectively in my relationships. She is unbiased, a great listener, and was very thorough in explaining the different techniques that I could use to maximize my efforts in communicating better. The guidance I received from Ms. Stefanie truly influenced a major part of my personal growth.
Read more Ms. Stefanie is an absolute therapy guru! She helped me tremendously with communicating more effectively in my relationships. She is unbiased, a great listener, and was very thorough in explaining the different techniques that I could use to maximize my efforts in communicating better. The guidance I received from Ms. Stefanie truly influenced a major part of my personal growth.
Chesterfield Jun 2020
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★★★★★
Dr. Allison Jackson is a compassionate and highly-skilled professional. Her education and vast experience allow her to meet the needs of her clients in a cooperative and dynamic manner. Specializing in trauma and in transforming lives, Dr. Jackson listens to your needs and supports you in finding a better future. Couples and families will find she listens to all perspectives in reaching healthy, unified goals. When engaging with her for therapy, you will receive outstanding service.
Read more Dr. Allison Jackson is a compassionate and highly-skilled professional. Her education and vast experience allow her to meet the needs of her clients in a cooperative and dynamic manner. Specializing in trauma and in transforming lives, Dr. Jackson listens to your needs and supports you in finding a better future. Couples and families will find she listens to all perspectives in reaching healthy, unified goals. When engaging with her for therapy, you will receive outstanding service.
Chesterfield Jun 2020
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Getting here

Across the street is Simple Intervention and Huff Poole & Mahoney PC legal services. Next door is Branches of Life and the office of dentist Sasala Albert. There is also a Starbucks in the parking lot, as well as First Watch restaurant and TowneBank.

Phone number

(804) 375-5195

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