Ask a Therapist, Mental Health Topics, Relationships Why does no one like me romantically? What’s really going on by Andi Yates, LMFT on Dec 29, 2025 Society is built for couples. So when months of dates, swiping, and small talk with strangers lead nowhere, it’s easy to land on one conclusion: Something must be wrong with me. Unsuccessful dates don’t mean you’re the problem. Dating is full of moving parts—undisclosed expectations, lingering trauma, timing, circumstance—and most…
Feelings & Emotions, Mental Health Topics What that feeling of impending doom might mean—and how to stop it by Angela Myers on Dec 23, 2025 You’re lying in bed when an unexplainable wave of dread hits. Or maybe an irrational fear that something bad is about to happen ambushes you during your morning commute. These scenarios highlight how impending doom is like a party crasher: It doesn’t knock, but barges in, takes up the whole…
Mental Health Topics, Relationships How to fix anxious attachment style: A practical guide to becoming more secure by Rachael Schultz on Dec 19, 2025 Your partner didn’t text back for two hours and you’ve convinced yourself they’re losing interest. Or you apologized three times for a minor scheduling mix-up, certain it revealed some fundamental flaw that would make them leave. You know, logically, that these reactions don’t match reality. But logic doesn’t stop the…
Family, Mental Health Topics Why adult children cut off their parents, and how to reconnect if you want by Jessica Migala on Dec 16, 2025 Sometimes, a relationship with a parent reaches a breaking point. Maybe your mom just doesn’t seem to hear you, no matter how many times you try to explain. Maybe your dad’s constant political remarks leave you feeling frustrated or unheard every time you talk. Or perhaps you’ve tried to open…
Beginning Therapy, Mental Health Topics, Paying for Therapy Yes, you can use your FSA for therapy. Here’s how to make it work by Angela Myers on Dec 15, 2025 Therapy usually comes with some out-of-pocket costs, regardless of your insurance status. These can range from a $20 copay to paying the entire session cost yourself if you don’t have insurance. No matter where you fall on that continuum, you’re probably want to make therapy as affordable as possible, and…
Mental Health Topics, Women's Issues Why menopause makes you snap at your partner–and what actually helps by Angela Myers on Dec 12, 2025 The barista forgets the almond milk and it feels like a personal attack. Your partner chews too loudly and you immediately want to leave the room. These flashes of irritation aren’t like you, but lately, they’re constant. This often comes down to hormonal changes from a life transition no one…
Anxiety, Mental Health Topics How to manage anxiety: Quick relief and long-term strategies by Hannah DeWitt on Dec 8, 2025 You probably know what anxiety feels like. The racing thoughts, the tightness in your chest, the way your brain replays worst-case scenarios on a loop. But knowing how to actually deal with it—and understanding the difference between everyday stress and something more clinical—is where things get murky. Below, we break…
Feelings & Emotions, Mental Health Topics, Relationships Can I be in love but not sexually attracted to someone? by Hannah DeWitt on Dec 6, 2025 Sexual attraction in relationships is often treated like a taboo subject. Many people feel judged for admitting they’re not physically attracted to their partner, or for worrying about the role of physical chemistry in a relationship. But the truth is, it’s entirely possible to deeply care for—or even love—someone without…
Mental Health Topics, Narcissism Narcissist traits checklist: 12 warning signs to identify a narcissist by Kate Hanselman, PMHNP-BC on Dec 5, 2025 People with narcissistic tendencies can be incredibly charming when you first meet them. But over time, interactions start to feel off: You’re second-guessing yourself, tiptoeing around their reactions, or wondering why you always end up being the problem. Whether it’s a partner, parent, boss, or friend, that shift from “wow,…
Mental Health Topics, Relationships How to detach from someone and reclaim your peace by Jessica Migala on Dec 1, 2025 You check your phone and your stomach drops. Another text from them. You know engaging will leave you drained, anxious, or second-guessing yourself for hours, but ignoring it feels impossible. You’re stuck in this loop: caring about someone who consistently leaves you feeling worse, not better. Detachment isn’t about becoming…
Coping Skills, Mental Health Topics Coping skills not working? Therapists explain what to do by Hannah DeWitt on Nov 25, 2025 You’ve tried the deep breathing. You’ve gone for walks. You’ve journaled until your hand cramped. And you still feel just as anxious, angry, or overwhelmed as before. When the coping skills that used to work suddenly don’t, it’s easy to feel like you’re failing. But you’re not doing it wrong….
Ask a Therapist, Communication, Mental Health Topics, Relationships I’m a people pleaser. How do I set boundaries without feeling guilty? by Theresa Lupcho, LPC on Nov 24, 2025 Boundaries are a popular topic right now, especially on social media. But if you consider yourself a people pleaser, you might find it stressful—if not impossible—to set them. I’m here to convince you that setting healthy boundaries is worth the effort, both for your own well-being and your ability to…