Children, Teens, & Adolescents, Mental Health Topics Is it normal teenage behavior or warning signs of a mental illness? Keep an eye out for these 5 red flags by Taylor Bennett on Oct 1, 2018 Teenagers are at an increased risk for experiencing mental health issues, as their brains continue to develop and change throughout this delicate time in life. This means it’s incredibly important for their loved ones to keep a watchful eye on them and understand red flags that might signify a serious…
Mental Health Topics, Power & Control, Relationships Are my friends gaslighting me? by Taylor Bennett on Sep 28, 2018 They say that friends are the family you choose. You don’t have to spend any ounce of your time with them, but you want to: You enjoy each other’s company; you support each other through the triumphs and the losses; you really get each other. Or at least that’s what…
Abuse & Neglect, Mental Health Topics, Power & Control Gaslighting: Is it the ultimate form of betrayal? How does it affect the victims in the short and long-term? by Debi Silber on Sep 28, 2018 There’s a collection of symptoms so common to betrayal it’s become known as Post Betrayal Syndrome. When it comes to gaslighting, it often goes hand in hand with betrayal because the gaslighter is intentionally weakening the self-esteem and resolve of their victim so that they maintain a sense of control,…
Abuse & Neglect, Mental Health Topics, Power & Control Is gaslighting emotional or mental abuse? Is it dangerous? by Yocheved Golani on Sep 27, 2018 Gaslighting: As Emotional Abuse Emotional abuse sabotages someone’s feelings. It leaves the victim confused, unhappy, fearful, and incapable of ending the problem unless they can escape or outsmart the emotional abuser. Gaslighting sabotages the victim’s self-confidence. It leaves them fearful and unable to correct the lies being told to and…
Abuse & Neglect, Mental Health Topics, Power & Control, Relationships What does gaslighting look like in a relationship? by Taylor Bennett on Sep 27, 2018 Gaslighting is a form of manipulation and emotional abuse whereby the perpetrator leads one to question their reality, their logic, their intuition—everything they know to be true. This manipulative behavior is observed among friends, family, colleagues… and, of course, romantic couples. So, what does gaslighting look like in a relationship?…
Abuse & Neglect, Mental Health Topics, Power & Control What are gaslighting techniques? These master manipulators undermine, contradict, and disorient their victims by Taylor Bennett on Sep 26, 2018 A Comprehensive Look at Gaslighting For a complete and extensive understanding of gaslighting—a dangerous and frightening form of manipulation—pull up a seat and get ready for a lesson from Licensed Clinical Social Worker Sheri Heller. She explains exactly what gaslighting is and how these manipulators pull it off: “Gaslighting is…
Mental Health Topics, Power & Control, Work & Careers Gaslighting at work: Is my boss gaslighting me? Are my coworkers gaslighting me? by Taylor Bennett on Sep 25, 2018 Gaslighting is a form of manipulation that makes the victim(s) question their reality. It is employed by master manipulators (who are often abusers or narcissists) to gain more power over the victim. This is often seen in close relationships, such as those between partners, friends, even brother and sister—but gaslighting…
Mental Health Topics, Power & Control How to defend yourself against gaslighting: A form of manipulation that can make you question everything you know to be true by Taylor Bennett on Sep 25, 2018 Our favorite television shows just aren’t complete without a beloved couple: there was Corey and Topanga from Boy Meets World; Chandler and Monica from Friends; and, of course, we can’t go without mentioning Jim and Pam from The Office. We often place these couples on a pedestal. We look up…
Mental Health Topics, Power & Control Gaslighting: How to identify and heal from the manipulation (Updated) by Taylor Bennett on Sep 24, 2018 I know—what the heck is “gaslighting”? It may sound funny but it’s actually a really scary form of manipulation, which got its name from a popular 1940’s film titled Gas Light. In this movie, a husband methodically manipulates his wife into thinking she’s crazy, hence referring to this form of…
Beginning Therapy, Mental Health Topics Externalization narrative therapy: Separate yourself from your problems by Taylor Bennett on Sep 21, 2018 Getting to the Root of the Problem Whether or not we like to admit it, most of us blow our problems out of proportion. Instead of recognizing them as fleeting moments, mishaps, or complications, we let them define and control us. And we quickly enter a negative tailspin. Matt Smith,…
Beginning Therapy, Mental Health Topics What is a working alliance in counseling? What does a healthy therapeutic relationship look like? by Giulia Suro on Sep 20, 2018 A working alliance in therapy, otherwise known as the therapeutic relationship, is simply the relationship that exists between the client and his or her therapist. In this alliance, both parties have the same goal: for the client to make improvements and benefit from great change throughout the therapeutic process. It’s…
Beginning Therapy, Mental Health Topics Is it important to trust your counselor? How do counselors make their clients feel comfortable enough to open up? by Taylor Bennett on Sep 19, 2018 A key to finding success in therapy is building a positive relationship with your therapist and feeling comfortable enough to open up to them. Counselors use different techniques to help their clients feel more comfortable in therapy, and in turn, make for a successful therapy journey. First, it helps to…