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Our counselors offer self-harm counseling in Chesterfield, VA

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Get in-person or online care, and cover the majority of the costs with your insurance. Scheduling is easy — call our team and they’ll help you find your perfect match.

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1,205 people sought self-harm counseling help in Virginia in the last year

Discover how starting self-harm counseling can support your own journey toward a happier, more fulfilling life.

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Aetna, Anthem Blue Cross and Blue Shield Virginia | BCBS HMO, Anthem Blue Cross and Blue Shield Virginia | BCBS PPO, +6 more
Chronic Illness, Medical / Health Issues, Self Harm, Anger, Behavioral Issues, +11 more

As a black, African American woman, I understand the pressures of anxiety and the hopelessness of grief, depression, and trauma that a person can expe... As a black, African American woman, I understand the pressures of anxiety and the hopelessness of grief, depression, and trauma that a person can experience within their lifespan. Read more

Aetna, Anthem Blue Cross and Blue Shield Virginia | BCBS HMO, Anthem Blue Cross and Blue Shield Virginia | BCBS PPO, +6 more
Military / Veteran, Chronic Illness, Medical / Health Issues, Self Harm, LGBTQIA+, +17 more

As a neurodiverse woman from the mountains of Appalachia, I approach each new challenge with curiosity, humility, and humor.

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Starting Self-harm counseling

What is self-harm counseling?

Self-harm counseling is aimed at helping individuals who struggle with harming themselves break this pattern by addressing the underlying emotional causes and working to develop new, healthier coping skills. Thriveworks self-harm therapists in Chesterfield, VA are experienced in treating those who self-harm with empathy, compassion, and unconditional regard in order to help them heal and recover, both physically and emotionally.

How does self-harm counseling work?

Self-harm counseling at Thriveworks often uses cognitive behavioral therapy and dialectical behavior therapy to help clients discover the connections between their thoughts and feelings and their behaviors. By assessing these areas, Thriveworks Chesterfield therapists can help clients find and address the true emotional roots of their patterns and, from there, effectively adjust unwanted behaviors.

Is self-harm counseling conducted in person or online?

Self-harm counseling at Thriveworks is conducted both in person and online by video. We encourage you to choose the option that works best for you.

How long does self-harm counseling last?

The duration of self-harm counseling will often depend on a variety of factors, such as the intensity of an individual’s symptoms or the current levels of stress present in their lives. Because of this, treatment can last a handful of months or on a continual basis over the course of years. In the end, it’s up to the client and their individual needs.

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Counseling for Self-Harm and Cutting—Therapists in Chesterfield, VA

Self-harm can take a variety of forms. Cutting is probably the most well-known, but other forms may include branding, burning, pinching, scratching, biting, or carving one’s skin to cause pain.

The form of self-harm can vary and so can the symptoms that people are using it to cope. If people are displaying the following behaviors, they may be cutting or utilizing another form of self-harm to handle life’s stress:

  • Doubting their identity and/or their purpose in life (“Who am I?”).
  • Displaying recent wounds: cuts, bruises, burns, or scratches.
  • Relational challenges with teachers, friends, bosses, family, and more.
  • Acting erratically and impulsively.
  • Having access to or possessing sharp objects or weapons they could use to injure themselves.
  • Feeling helpless, hopeless, and/or worthless.

Why Do People Turn to Self-Injury?

Through self-injury, people may be trying to…

  1. Understand what happened to them.
  2. Divert their attention from the pain.
  3. Feel in control of something—even physical pain.
  4. Experience an emotion—any emotion instead of feeling numb.

To find deeper healing, many people are working with a mental health professional. A skilled therapist or counselor can often work with people to identify and health the emotional wound that initially led them to self-harm. By working with a counselor, people may also be able to learn new coping skills that promote healing.

What If Someone You Love Is Cutting?

Friends and family can also provide needed support for people who self-harm. If you think a loved one is cutting, then know that often the most simple forms of encouragement are the best. For example,

  • Be a listening ear: If your loved one wants to talk, listen without interrupting, questioning, or trying to fix the situation. Simply being empathetic toward their struggles can help.
  • Voice your love and support: Let your loved one know how much you value their friendship or presence in your life. When appropriate, offer to support their recovery.

Self-Harm at Thriveworks Chesterfield—Counseling Appointments

If you are ready to learn a new way to handle the trauma and stress of life, Thriveworks Chesterfield is ready to support your journey. Our therapists and counselors have helped many people walk away from cutting and find true healing.

When you contact our office, know that you may be meeting with your therapist the following day. We also accept many types of insurance, and we offer evening and weekend appointments.

Let’s work together for healing. Call Thriveworks Chesterfield today or schedule an appointment online to get started.

Pricing & insurance

Our therapists accept most major insurances. We accept 585+ insurance plans, and offer self-pay options, too.
Learn more about pricing for therapy and counseling services at Thriveworks.

Our Chesterfield therapists and counselors accept 24 insurance plans

  • Aetna

  • Anthem Blue Cross and Blue Shield Virginia Medicare Advantage

  • Anthem Blue Cross and Blue Shield Virginia | BCBS HMO

  • Anthem Blue Cross and Blue Shield Virginia | BCBS PPO

  • Anthem Blue Cross and Blue Shield Virginia | Exchange

  • CareFirst Blue Cross and Blue Shield of Virginia | BCBS HMO

  • CareFirst Blue Cross and Blue Shield of Virginia | BCBS PPO

  • Carelon

  • Carelon | Medicare Advantage

  • Cigna | Evernorth

  • Cigna | Evernorth Medicare Advantage

  • Compsych

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Self-pay costs at Chesterfield
Talk therapy

Talk therapy

Includes individual, couples, child/ teen, & family therapy

First session

$1

Ongoing sessions

$1

Talk therapy

Psychiatry

Includes reducing symptoms with medication & management

First session

$1

Ongoing sessions

$1

Hear from our clients

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Dr. Ashely is wonderful, knowledgeable, and so so helpful. I'm very thankful to be connected with her! Thank you.
Crysta Mar 2025
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My therapist is very insightful and helpful. She expressed understanding and helped me with finding solutions to issues I was having problems with. I am very pleased with the help I am receiving from Thrive. I also like the videos on the website. They are also very helpful. I appreciate that I can have my sessions over Zoom. It's very convenient and I'm in the comfort of my own home. I'm extremely happy with Thrive. I thank you.
Read more My therapist is very insightful and helpful. She expressed understanding and helped me with finding solutions to issues I was having problems with. I am very pleased with the help I am receiving from Thrive. I also like the videos on the website. They are also very helpful. I appreciate that I can have my sessions over Zoom. It's very convenient and I'm in the comfort of my own home. I'm extremely happy with Thrive. I thank you.
Robin Mar 2025
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I like that I feel like it's a safe space for me to just spill everything that's been on my mind and built up inside of me. Nessalyn is a good listener and validates my emotions. I would like to get into receiving feedback or actual techniques for coping from my therapist.
Read more I like that I feel like it's a safe space for me to just spill everything that's been on my mind and built up inside of me. Nessalyn is a good listener and validates my emotions. I would like to get into receiving feedback or actual techniques for coping from my therapist.
Courtney Mar 2025
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Ashley seems like a good fit for me and was very thorough. She asked the right questions and was a good listener. Looking forward to more time with her.
Daniel Mar 2025
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Cheryl Colt is wonderful. She listens and she provides good feedback. She is very wise and I am so thankful for our sessions. The therapy helps me with managing my anxiety. I look forward to meeting with her each week and I feel better after our appointments.
Read more Cheryl Colt is wonderful. She listens and she provides good feedback. She is very wise and I am so thankful for our sessions. The therapy helps me with managing my anxiety. I look forward to meeting with her each week and I feel better after our appointments.
Kasey Mar 2025
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Wish my sessions were more than once a week.
Kevin Mar 2025
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Cheryl has very thoughtful questions for me to think about between each session
Holly Mar 2025
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I appreciated that my therapist was professional, interested in what I wanted to talk about, was a good listener, and asked questions.
Brenda Mar 2025
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Where to find us

Getting here

Across the street is Simple Intervention and Huff Poole & Mahoney PC legal services. Next door is Branches of Life and the office of dentist Sasala Albert. There is also a Starbucks in the parking lot, as well as First Watch restaurant and TowneBank.

Phone number

(804) 375-5195

Languages spoken by VA providers

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