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Our therapists offer Borderline Personality Disorder Counseling in Chesterfield, VA

Get in-person or online care, and cover the majority of the costs with your insurance.

Get in-person or online care, and cover the majority of the costs with your insurance. Scheduling is easy — call our team and they’ll help you find your perfect match.

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4,547 people sought borderline personality disorder counseling help in Virginia in the last year

Discover how starting borderline personality disorder counseling can support your own journey toward a happier, more fulfilling life.

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Our Chesterfield providers are currently booked, however we have 182 online providers available right now in Virginia.
Blacksburg
Anthem Blue Cross and Blue Shield Virginia | BCBS HMO, Anthem Blue Cross and Blue Shield Virginia | BCBS PPO, Anthem Blue Cross and Blue Shield Virginia | Exchange, +8 more
Chronic Illness, Medical / Health Issues, Self Harm, LGBTQIA+, Anger, +12 more

As a queer and trans-identified therapist, I know how vital it is to have someone who truly gets it and I'm here to offer a compassionate, affirming s... As a queer and trans-identified therapist, I know how vital it is to have someone who truly gets it and I'm here to offer a compassionate, affirming space for support. Read more

Newport News
Aetna, Anthem Blue Cross and Blue Shield Virginia | BCBS HMO, Anthem Blue Cross and Blue Shield Virginia | BCBS PPO, +6 more
Behavioral Issues, Coping Skills, Infidelity, Self Esteem, Stress, +11 more

I believe you are the expert on your story, and our collaborative partnership will find effective ways to improve your quality of life so that you can... I believe you are the expert on your story, and our collaborative partnership will find effective ways to improve your quality of life so that you can go from surviving to thriving. Read more

Alexandria
Aetna, CareFirst Blue Cross and Blue Shield of Virginia | BCBS HMO, CareFirst Blue Cross and Blue Shield of Virginia | BCBS PPO, +15 more
Coping Skills, Self Esteem, Stress, Women’s Issues, Bipolar Disorder, +6 more

As a human being, it's hard to navigate the ups and downs of life alone. I can understand how difficult this can be.

Lynchburg
Aetna, Anthem Blue Cross and Blue Shield Virginia | BCBS HMO, Anthem Blue Cross and Blue Shield Virginia | BCBS PPO, +6 more
Medical / Health Issues, Self Harm, Anger, Behavioral Issues, Coping Skills, +17 more

I firmly believe that the counseling process is a collaborative one, and I am excited to walk alongside you during this journey.

Richmond
Aetna, Anthem Blue Cross and Blue Shield Virginia | BCBS HMO, Anthem Blue Cross and Blue Shield Virginia | BCBS PPO, +21 more
Military / Veteran, Self Harm, Narcissism, LGBTQIA+, Anger, +22 more

As a survivor of many different life experiences, I am able to work with clients and understand the challenges that life can often bring them.

Starting Borderline personality disorder counseling

What is borderline personality disorder counseling?

Borderline personality disorder counseling in Chesterfield, VA is the main form of treatment for borderline personality disorder. It teaches individuals skills that enable them to better manage and cope with their symptoms.

How does borderline personality disorder counseling work?

Borderline personality disorder counseling at Thriveworks is personalized to each individual. Depending on your unique needs, it can help you learn to manage uncomfortable feelings, reduce impulsivity, and improve relationships (which might otherwise be negatively affected by your condition).

Is borderline personality disorder counseling conducted in person or online?

Borderline personality disorder counseling with our Thriveworks Chesterfield therapists can be conducted both in person and online by video. We encourage you to choose the option that works best for you.

How long does borderline personality disorder counseling last?

The length of borderline personality disorder counseling sessions will vary from one person to the next, dependent on their specific needs. However, most treatments for borderline personality disorder last for 1-3 years.

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Borderline Personality Disorder Therapy in Chesterfield, VA—Counselors

Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) can harm the way an individual thinks about themselves and how they relate to others. However, many people who go to therapy for Borderline Personality Disorder are able to manage their symptoms and live a healthy, happy life.

The therapists at Thriveworks Chesterfield have worked with many clients, helping them find treatment for Borderline Personality Disorder. We have seen the difference a holistic and personalized treatment plan can make when an individual has BPD. Reach out today for help.

Symptoms of Borderline Personality Disorder

The symptoms of BPD can begin as people are in the late-teens to early adulthood years. Such symptoms include…

  • A deep-seated fear of being forsaken, abandoned, left behind, and going to great lengths to avoid any kind of separation.
  • A pattern of intense, rocky relationships. BPD can cause people to idealize others and then sink into deep disappointment when those unrealistic expectations are not met.
  • Shifting easily and often between different goals, identities, values, and perceptions.
  • Living with times of paranoia that may last for minutes to hours wherein people lose touch with reality.
  • A sensitivity to being criticized, even to healthy, constructive criticism.
  • Putting oneself in danger unnecessarily through impulsive and risky actions like daredevil driving, unsafe sex, spending sprees, gambling, drug use, self-sabotage, binge eating, and more.
  • Attempting or threatening to attempt suicide or self-injury as a way to cope with criticism, fear, or rejection.
  • Fluctuating between extreme emotions: euphoria and irritation, happiness and anger, desperation and delight.
  • An on-going feeling of emptiness.
  • Belligerence—outburst of anger, sarcasm, and bitterness.

Treatment Options for BPD

When people are diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder, there are a number of treatment options available to them, including different types of therapies and medications. It is often best to work with a therapist to find the right an individualized treatment plan, but often, those plans focus upon coping and emotional skills like…

  • Emotional regulation is the ability to know what one is feeling, process it, and respond accordingly.
  • Mindfulness is growing one’s awareness of their body, feelings, thoughts, and more. Its focus is to pay attention to oneself without judging what one finds.
  • Distress tolerance is similar to resiliency. Life is full of disappointments, frustrations, and setbacks. Distress tolerance allows people to respond to the ups and downs of life in a healthy way.
  • Interpersonal effectiveness increases an individual’s ability to function well in a wide variety of relationships. It gives people the skills they need to pursue professional connections, family harmony, deep friendships, acquaintances, romantic partners, and more.

Setting Up an Appointment for Borderline Personality Disorder at Thriveworks Chesterfield

If you recognized any of the symptoms of BPD that you read about, it may be time to reach out. Help is available, and many who work with a therapist are often able to manage the symptoms and live the life they want—not the unstable life that BPD often tries to dictate. Thriveworks Chesterfield has appointments available, and when you call our office, you may be meeting with a counselor within the week. We offer evening and weekend sessions, but we do not put our clients on a waitlist. Instead, we want them to have to support they need when they need it. Many different insurance plans are also accepted. Call today.

Pricing & insurance

Our therapists accept most major insurances. We accept 585+ insurance plans, and offer self-pay options, too.
Learn more about pricing for therapy and counseling services at Thriveworks.

Our Chesterfield therapists and counselors accept 24 insurance plans

  • Aetna

  • Anthem Blue Cross and Blue Shield Virginia Medicare Advantage

  • Anthem Blue Cross and Blue Shield Virginia | BCBS HMO

  • Anthem Blue Cross and Blue Shield Virginia | BCBS PPO

  • Anthem Blue Cross and Blue Shield Virginia | Exchange

  • CareFirst Blue Cross and Blue Shield of Virginia | BCBS HMO

  • CareFirst Blue Cross and Blue Shield of Virginia | BCBS PPO

  • Carelon

  • Carelon | Medicare Advantage

  • Cigna | Evernorth

  • Cigna | Evernorth Medicare Advantage

  • Compsych

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Self-pay costs at Chesterfield
Talk therapy

Talk therapy

Includes individual, couples, child/ teen, & family therapy

First session

$1

Ongoing sessions

$1

Talk therapy

Psychiatry

Includes reducing symptoms with medication & management

First session

$1

Ongoing sessions

$1

Hear from our clients

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Dr. Ashely is wonderful, knowledgeable, and so so helpful. I'm very thankful to be connected with her! Thank you.
Crysta Mar 2025
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My therapist is very insightful and helpful. She expressed understanding and helped me with finding solutions to issues I was having problems with. I am very pleased with the help I am receiving from Thrive. I also like the videos on the website. They are also very helpful. I appreciate that I can have my sessions over Zoom. It's very convenient and I'm in the comfort of my own home. I'm extremely happy with Thrive. I thank you.
Read more My therapist is very insightful and helpful. She expressed understanding and helped me with finding solutions to issues I was having problems with. I am very pleased with the help I am receiving from Thrive. I also like the videos on the website. They are also very helpful. I appreciate that I can have my sessions over Zoom. It's very convenient and I'm in the comfort of my own home. I'm extremely happy with Thrive. I thank you.
Robin Mar 2025
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★★★★★
I like that I feel like it's a safe space for me to just spill everything that's been on my mind and built up inside of me. Nessalyn is a good listener and validates my emotions. I would like to get into receiving feedback or actual techniques for coping from my therapist.
Read more I like that I feel like it's a safe space for me to just spill everything that's been on my mind and built up inside of me. Nessalyn is a good listener and validates my emotions. I would like to get into receiving feedback or actual techniques for coping from my therapist.
Courtney Mar 2025
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★★★★★
Ashley seems like a good fit for me and was very thorough. She asked the right questions and was a good listener. Looking forward to more time with her.
Daniel Mar 2025
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★★★★★
Cheryl Colt is wonderful. She listens and she provides good feedback. She is very wise and I am so thankful for our sessions. The therapy helps me with managing my anxiety. I look forward to meeting with her each week and I feel better after our appointments.
Read more Cheryl Colt is wonderful. She listens and she provides good feedback. She is very wise and I am so thankful for our sessions. The therapy helps me with managing my anxiety. I look forward to meeting with her each week and I feel better after our appointments.
Kasey Mar 2025
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Wish my sessions were more than once a week.
Kevin Mar 2025
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★★★★★
Cheryl has very thoughtful questions for me to think about between each session
Holly Mar 2025
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★★★★★
I appreciated that my therapist was professional, interested in what I wanted to talk about, was a good listener, and asked questions.
Brenda Mar 2025
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Where to find us

Getting here

Across the street is Simple Intervention and Huff Poole & Mahoney PC legal services. Next door is Branches of Life and the office of dentist Sasala Albert. There is also a Starbucks in the parking lot, as well as First Watch restaurant and TowneBank.

Phone number

(804) 375-5195

Languages spoken by VA providers

  • English
  • Spanish
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