Overcoming an Affair – Infidelity Therapists in Columbia, MD

Instead of marriages and relationships breaking up, it’s becoming more common for affected couples to try counseling for adultery or infidelity instead. If a couple loves each other and thinks that it’s worthwhile to fight for their relationship, especially if there are children included, then trying to understand the cause of the problems that led to the infidelity through professional counseling is often the best way to go.

Roots of Infidelity

There are many base issues that can lead to one partner or the other in a relationship taking the decision to cheat and be unfaithful. But the vast majority of these issues are rooted in one real cause—unhappiness. The unfaithful partner for the most part will not choose infidelity and all the problems that it brings if they are completely happy in their relationship. Typical causes for unhappiness can be:

  • Boredom
  • Feeling neglected
  • Feeling misunderstood
  • Feeling unwanted and unattractive.

Any of the above causes can plant a seed that can lead into unfaithfulness that many require counseling for infidelity.

What Infidelity Does

Those who attend counseling for infidelity know that the damage done from adultery is vast. For most people, finding out that their partner has been unfaithful to them is the biggest betrayal that they will experience, causing the following effects:

  • Feelings of inadequacy and self-doubt
  • Lack of trust in anyone ever again
  • Humiliation
  • Rage.

These effects can cause true hatred that will damage both parties and the families of both parties and can lead to destructive home breakups and separations.

Counseling for Infidelity

For couples affected by infidelity, it can seem that the world has come to an end. But that needn’t be the case and it’s possible, with professional help, to put infidelity in the past and rebuild relationships. The two tasks of a marriage/relationship counselor working with infidelity are:

  • To bring the couple to terms with the infidelity and the causes that led to it
  • To help the couple heal, forgive and move forward with their lives.

Through both individual and couple’s counseling, the professional can bring the damaged relationship into the sunlight and work to make it complete again. It can take time and it can be tough, but if both parties in a relationship want it enough, counseling for infidelity can definitely work. If you are thinking that counseling for adultery or infidelity could be beneficial for your relationship, please contact us for more info and we will be happy to help.

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