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163 licensed therapists & providers in Virginia—11 in Chesapeake. Available as soon as today, in person and online

Therapy for every life stage

Our providers work with individuals, couples, families, & teens for anxiety, depression, grief, & more

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We accept UnitedHealthcare, Cigna, BCBS Plans, Humana, Aetna, & many more. Self-pay options available, no membership fees

Patients who get better

94% of patients feel truly understood by their provider. 3 out of 4 see improvement in depression & anxiety symptoms within 3 months

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7,995 people sought dialectical behavior therapy (DBT) help in Virginia in the last year

Discover how starting dialectical behavior therapy (DBT) therapy can support your own journey toward a happier, more fulfilling life.

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Sarah Kate Hawkins

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What is your go-to approach for dialectical behavior therapy?

My go-to approach for helping people in dialectical behavior therapy is for them to balance their efforts to accept and change whatever is causing them anxiety and/or depression. I find the best benefit in explaining and teaching mindfulness and distress tolerance skills because with understanding comes action and change.

What tools do you teach in dialectical behavior therapy?

I teach the following tools in dialectical behavior therapy:

  • Mindfulness skills: Paying attention to your experiences in the here and now, resulting in living in the moment.
  • Emotion regulation skills: Better understanding your emotions, reducing vulnerability to negative emotions, and learning strategies to manage, accept, and/or change them.
  • Interpersonal effectiveness skills: Identifying and setting goals, needs, and wants within relationships.
  • Distress tolerance skills: Learning to tolerate and manage overwhelming emotions, thoughts, and situations and using coping/calming methods to accept yourself, your situation, and your experiences.

How do you know when a client is making meaningful progress in dialectical behavior therapy?

I know a client is making meaningful progress in dialectical behavior therapy when they are using the skills taught in therapy in their life. For example, accepting you are anxious and using your self-talk, self-love, and so forth to experience your feelings rather than getting busy to avoid them.

What can clients do in their personal time to supplement dialectical behavior therapy?

Clients can supplement their time in dialectical behavior therapy by practicing mindfulness through apps like Calm, taking a walk in nature to be in the moment, and hugging themselves.

What should someone do to prepare for starting dialectical behavior therapy?

To prepare for their first dialectical behavior therapy session, an individual can be open to sharing themselves.

Dialectical behavior therapy (DBT) FAQs

What is dialectical behavior therapy (DBT)?

At Thriveworks, Dialectical behavior therapy (DBT) primarily concentrates on assisting individuals in emotion regulation, enhancing interpersonal relationships, and acquiring effective coping strategies for managing stress and emotional difficulties.

How does DBT work?

Dialectical behavior therapy (DBT) targets your personal challenges. You may work with your DBT therapist to maintain diary cards to monitor progress, emphasizing validation and support in the therapeutic relationship. DBT follows a stage-based approach, prioritizing crisis reduction initially and life satisfaction.

What is DBT best used for?

DBT was initially developed to address the needs of individuals with borderline personality disorder (BPD). However, its versatile approach has enabled its application to a wide range of mental health conditions, including but not limited to, anxiety, depression, stress, and anger issues.

What are the 4 pillars of DBT?

The 4 pillars of DBT are mindfulness, emotion regulation, interpersonal effectiveness, and distress tolerance.

Is DBT better than EMDR?

Dialectical behavior therapy (DBT) and eye movement desensitization and reprocessing (EMDR) have distinct purposes and aren’t inherently superior or inferior to one another. DBT is most effective for managing emotional regulation, personality disorders, and interpersonal challenges, while EMDR is specifically tailored for individuals with trauma-related conditions like post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD).

Is DBT conducted in person or online?

Dialectical behavior therapy (DBT) with therapists at Thriveworks in Chesapeake, VA is conducted both in person and online by video. We encourage you to choose the option that works best for you.

How many months is DBT?

The duration of a standard DBT program is typically around 24 weeks, which is roughly six months. The actual number of sessions will vary depending on the issues you wish to address.

Pricing & insurance

Our therapists accept most major insurance and we offer self-pay options too.
Learn more about pricing for therapy and counseling at Thriveworks.

Our therapists and counselors in Chesapeake accept 30 insurance plans

  • Adventist Health Associates | Employee Health Plan

  • Adventist Health Associates | Non-Employee Health Plan

  • Aetna

  • Anthem Blue Cross and Blue Shield Virginia Medicare Advantage

  • Anthem Blue Cross and Blue Shield Virginia | BCBS HMO

  • Anthem Blue Cross and Blue Shield Virginia | BCBS PPO

  • Anthem Blue Cross and Blue Shield Virginia | Exchange

  • CareFirst Blue Cross and Blue Shield of Virginia | BCBS HMO

  • CareFirst Blue Cross and Blue Shield of Virginia | BCBS PPO

  • Carelon

  • Cigna | Evernorth

  • Compsych

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Self-pay costs at Chesapeake
Talk therapy

Talk therapy

Includes individual, couples, child/ teen, & family therapy

First session

$1

Ongoing sessions

$1

Talk therapy

Psychiatry

Includes reducing symptoms with medication & management

First session

$1

Ongoing sessions

$1

Hear from our clients

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She cares , understands and listens . She suggests ways to help me move forward .
Franklin Mar 2026
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My therapist has a positive attitude when we meet. Always upbeat and good natured. We speak on a variety of things that by the end soothes may anxiety. I'm open and to the point but not as often as I think I should be to maximize the support.
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Avva Mar 2026
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★★★★★
My therapist is easy for me to talk to. We have developed a good relationship. I value her opinion and she has helped by giving me the tools to navigate my emotions. Something I was lacking in. I have learned so much that it affects my other relationships in such positive ways. My whole life is better because of what she has taught, with how she listens and responds.
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Aubrey Mar 2026
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Tammy has been amazing! I have enjoyed our conversations.
Doug Mar 2026
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I really appreciate that Enid will send me helpful resources or exercises that tie in to whatever we discussed in session. It's an added measure that no other therapist has done, which shows that she's really listening and working with me to resolve issues.
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Seirra Mar 2026
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Very professional and respectful. Listen and give feedback and walks you through the process of whatever you are feeling.
Jade Dec 2025
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Her ability to understand, and her professionalism was refreshing to have experienced.
Presley Dec 2025
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Love having one provider she listened and I felt heard
Chet Dec 2025
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Where to find us

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Address

3804 Poplar Hill Rd Suite D
Chesapeake, VA 23321

Getting here

Thriveworks Counseling & Psychiatry Chesapeake is located near Poplar Hill Road and Taylor Road, off Western Branch Boulevard. It is just a short distance from Ebony Heights Park and the Virginia Department of Motor Vehicles.

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Phone number

(757) 210-9381
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Languages spoken by VA providers

  • English
  • Spanish
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Hours

Wednesday 8:00am - 9:30pm
Thursday 8:00am - 9:30pm
Friday 8:00am - 9:30pm
Saturday 8:00am - 9:30pm
Sunday 8:00am - 9:30pm
Monday 8:00am - 9:30pm
Tuesday 8:00am - 9:30pm

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Wednesday 8:00am - 11:00pm
Thursday 8:00am - 11:00pm
Friday 8:00am - 11:00pm
Saturday 8:00am - 6:00pm
Sunday 8:00am - 6:00pm
Monday 8:00am - 11:00pm
Tuesday 8:00am - 11:00pm

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