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70 licensed therapists & providers in New Jersey—10 in Paramus. Available as soon as today, in person and online

Therapy for every life stage

Our providers work with individuals, couples, families, & teens for anxiety, depression, grief, & more

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We accept UnitedHealthcare, Cigna, BCBS Plans, Humana, Aetna, & many more. Self-pay options available, no membership fees

Patients who get better

94% of patients feel truly understood by their provider. 3 out of 4 see improvement in depression & anxiety symptoms within 3 months

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1,786 people sought dialectical behavior therapy (DBT) help in New Jersey in the last year

Discover how starting dialectical behavior therapy (DBT) therapy can support your own journey toward a happier, more fulfilling life.

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What is your go-to approach for dialectical behavior therapy?

Dialectical behavioral therapy involves providing psychoeducation about multiple topics to help clients feel more in control of their emotions, have balanced thoughts, and improve relationships with others in their lives.

What tools do you teach in dialectical behavior therapy?

Dialectical behavioral therapy involves learning about the following topics:

  • Mindfulness: Learning about how to keep yourself focused in the moment, to avoid ruminating on unpleasant thoughts and feelings, and how to be more observant of your thoughts and feelings rather than getting lost in them.
  • Emotional regulation: Learning how to balance your emotional responses to take control of your emotions and not letting your emotions take control of you.
  • Interpersonal effectiveness: Learning how to improve your relationships with others and how to communicate effectively.
  • Distress tolerance: Learning about coping strategies to help ease unpleasant emotions and know how to manage these emotions effectively.

How do you know when a client is making meaningful progress in dialectical behavior therapy?

When clients report that they are feeling more in control of their emotions and thoughts, this is a good sign that they are making meaningful progress in their dialectical behavioral therapy!

What can clients do in their personal time to supplement dialectical behavior therapy?

Clients can supplement their time in dialectical behavioral therapy by practicing the skills discussed in sessions through the use of worksheets or journaling exercises provided to them by their therapist.

What should someone do to prepare for starting dialectical behavior therapy?

To prepare for your first dialectical behavioral therapy session, you can identify some of the main reasons that you want to come to therapy at this time. This can include a variety of reasons, but it would help the therapist to know what your motivation is for coming to therapy and what you'd like to see change. Also, keep in mind that your first session will likely involve being asked a lot of questions, but this is not the norm for every session! This is just for the therapist to get the background information that they need to help you move forward and make progress in therapy.

Dialectical behavior therapy (DBT) FAQs

What is dialectical behavior therapy (DBT)?

At Thriveworks, Dialectical behavior therapy (DBT) primarily concentrates on assisting individuals in emotion regulation, enhancing interpersonal relationships, and acquiring effective coping strategies for managing stress and emotional difficulties.

How does DBT work?

Dialectical behavior therapy (DBT) targets your personal challenges. You may work with your DBT therapist to maintain diary cards to monitor progress, emphasizing validation and support in the therapeutic relationship. DBT follows a stage-based approach, prioritizing crisis reduction initially and life satisfaction.

What is DBT best used for?

DBT was initially developed to address the needs of individuals with borderline personality disorder (BPD). However, its versatile approach has enabled its application to a wide range of mental health conditions, including but not limited to, anxiety, depression, stress, and anger issues.

What are the 4 pillars of DBT?

The 4 pillars of DBT are mindfulness, emotion regulation, interpersonal effectiveness, and distress tolerance.

Is DBT better than EMDR?

Dialectical behavior therapy (DBT) and eye movement desensitization and reprocessing (EMDR) have distinct purposes and aren’t inherently superior or inferior to one another. DBT is most effective for managing emotional regulation, personality disorders, and interpersonal challenges, while EMDR is specifically tailored for individuals with trauma-related conditions like post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD).

Is DBT conducted in person or online?

Dialectical behavior therapy (DBT) with therapists at Thriveworks in Paramus, NJ is conducted both in person and online by video. We encourage you to choose the option that works best for you.

How many months is DBT?

The duration of a standard DBT program is typically around 24 weeks, which is roughly six months. The actual number of sessions will vary depending on the issues you wish to address.

Pricing & insurance

Our therapists accept most major insurance and we offer self-pay options too.
Learn more about pricing for therapy and counseling at Thriveworks.

Our therapists and counselors in Paramus accept 31 insurance plans

  • Aetna

  • Aetna Medicare Advantage

  • AmeriHealth Administrators

  • AmeriHealth Medicare Advantage

  • AmeriHealth New Jersey

  • Blue Cross Blue Shield | Anthem (Blue Card)

  • Carelon

  • Cigna | Evernorth

  • Cigna | Open Access Plus New Jersey

  • Clover Health Medicare Advantage

  • Compsych

  • Firefly Health Plan | Cigna PPO Network

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Self-pay costs at Paramus
Talk therapy

Talk therapy

Includes individual, couples, child/ teen, & family therapy

First session

$1

Ongoing sessions

$1

Talk therapy

Psychiatry

Includes reducing symptoms with medication & management

First session

$1

Ongoing sessions

$1

Hear from our clients

4.9 Learn about verified reviews
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Daniel is knowledgeable in so many facets of mental health. I feel confident that I can discuss any issue with him and he will work with me to find a solution.
Waverlee Mar 2026
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I really appreciated how comfortable and safe my therapist made me feel during our sessions. They listened without judgment, were patient, and helped me see things from new perspectives. I also liked how they offered practical tools and coping strategies that I could actually use in my daily life. Overall, it was a very positive experience, and I’m grateful for the support I received.
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Arielle Mar 2026
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Brie has truly helped me navigate my life in a healthier and more positive way. She has supported me in working through things I’ve been battling for a long time, and I’m so grateful for that. She is an excellent listener and creates a safe, supportive space where I feel comfortable opening up. After every session, I leave feeling heard, understood, and valued. I highly recommend her to anyone looking for a compassionate and effective therapist
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Leonard Mar 2026
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The most welcoming, supportive, emotionally corrective experience i've ever had.
Charlote Mar 2026
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I am extremely happy with my therapist, Brianna I feel she really understands and helps guide me in the right direction. I like the ability to use the dashboard and reschedule appointments if needed
Stefany Dec 2025
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I like how convenient it is. Since sessions can be help online it makes things a lot easier to accommodate my schedule. The provide that has been helping me over the years is very nice and caring. She makes me feel comfortable to talk about the personal issues that I am dealing with and working through.
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Madyson Dec 2025
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Elizabeth is the best! She listens well, has great advice, tells you like it is, and works well with both me individually and with my family.
Ivi Dec 2025
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My provider Daniel is incredible, not just as a therapist but as a human being!
Mikayla Sep 2025
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Where to find us

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Address

11-13 Sunflower Avenue Suite 1020
Paramus, NJ 07652

Getting here

Thriveworks Counseling & Psychiatry Paramus is located near Sunflower Ave and Century Rd, off NJ-17. It is near the Bergen Community College campus and close to The Valley Hospital.

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Phone number

(973) 529-8913
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Languages spoken by NJ providers

  • Hindi
  • English
  • Spanish
  • Korean
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Hours

Sunday 8:00am - 9:30pm
Monday 8:00am - 9:30pm
Tuesday 8:00am - 9:30pm
Wednesday 8:00am - 9:30pm
Thursday 8:00am - 9:30pm
Friday 8:00am - 9:30pm
Saturday 8:00am - 9:30pm

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Sunday 8:00am - 6:00pm
Monday 8:00am - 11:00pm
Tuesday 8:00am - 11:00pm
Wednesday 8:00am - 11:00pm
Thursday 8:00am - 11:00pm
Friday 8:00am - 11:00pm
Saturday 8:00am - 6:00pm

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