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Our therapists offer Borderline Personality Disorder Counseling in Fredericksburg, VA

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167 licensed therapists & providers in Virginia—2 in Fredericksburg. Available as soon as today, in person and online

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Our providers work with individuals, couples, families, & teens for anxiety, depression, grief, & more

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We accept UnitedHealthcare, Cigna, BCBS Plans, Humana, Aetna, & many more. Self-pay options available, no membership fees

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94% of patients feel truly understood by their provider. 3 out of 4 see improvement in depression & anxiety symptoms within 3 months

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5,994 people sought borderline personality disorder counseling help in Virginia in the last year

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Borderline personality disorder counseling FAQs

What is borderline personality disorder counseling?

Borderline personality disorder counseling in Fredericksburg, VA is the main form of treatment for borderline personality disorder. It teaches individuals skills that enable them to better manage and cope with their symptoms.

How does borderline personality disorder counseling work?

Borderline personality disorder counseling at Thriveworks is personalized to each individual. Depending on your unique needs, it can help you learn to manage uncomfortable feelings, reduce impulsivity, and improve relationships (which might otherwise be negatively affected by your condition).

Is borderline personality disorder counseling conducted in person or online?

Borderline personality disorder counseling with our Thriveworks Fredericksburg therapists can be conducted both in person and online by video. We encourage you to choose the option that works best for you.

How long does borderline personality disorder counseling last?

The length of borderline personality disorder counseling sessions will vary from one person to the next, dependent on their specific needs. However, most treatments for borderline personality disorder last for 1-3 years.

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Borderline Personality Disorder – Therapists and Counselors in Fredericksburg, VA

Borderline personality disorder (BPD) is a mental health condition in which an individual has difficulty controlling their emotions. People with BPD feel intense emotions for extended periods of time and have difficulty finding balance within these periods of irregularity. The episodes are brought on by emotional triggers. These emotional episodes can lead to strained relationships, self-harm, low self-esteem, and impulsive actions and decisions.

In recent research, it was determined that over 75% of individuals diagnosed with borderline personality disorder are women. Men are also impacted but commonly misdiagnosed.

Symptoms

Borderline personality disorder experience instability and insecurity within their emotions. These signs and symptoms may include:

  • Frantic efforts to avoid real or imagined abandonment by friends and family.
  • Unstable personal relationships that alternate between idealization (“I’m so in love!”) and devaluation (“I hate her”). This is also sometimes known as “splitting.”
  • Distorted and unstable self-image, which affects moods, values, opinions, goals and relationships.
  • Impulsive behaviors that can have dangerous outcomes, such as excessive spending, unsafe sex, substance abuse or reckless driving.
  • Self-harming behavior including suicidal threats or attempts.
  • Periods of intense depressed mood, irritability or anxiety lasting a few hours to a few days.
  • Chronic feelings of boredom or emptiness.
  • Inappropriate, intense or uncontrollable anger—often followed by shame and guilt.
  • Dissociative feelings—disconnecting from your thoughts or sense of identity or “out of body” type of feelings—and stress-related paranoid thoughts. Severe cases of stress can also lead to brief psychotic episodes.

Causes

As with many mental health illnesses, the root cause of borderline personality disorder is not clear and is the source of many research projects. The factors that contribute to the onset of BPD can range from family history to brain imbalances. Here is a breakdown of a few factors:

  1. Genetics: Individuals who have family members who have been diagnosed with BPD are more likely to develop the disease. Scientists have yet to identify a genetic link but there may be one identified as research improves.
  2. Environment: Individuals who live in toxic environments or experience abuse such as abandonment, physical or sexual trauma, are more likely to develop an illness like BPD. Environmental impact can be difficult for the brain to overcome and therefore create emotional imbalance that reduce an individual’s ability to make sound decisions.

Diagnosis

Borderline personality disorder does not have a concrete testing, which can make it extremely difficult to diagnose. Mental health professionals use comprehensive testing and evaluations that help to determine if the symptoms are in fact indicative of BPD.

Treatment

BPD patients are treated using personalized plans that address their symptoms. Mental health professionals can use one or more techniques during therapy that includes medication, group therapy, or psychotherapy. Cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) is usual the first method of treatment mental health professionals uses to treat BPD patients.

These methods are adjusted as the plan progresses depending on how effective the treatment plan is in managing BPD symptoms. If a patient is suicidal, short-term hospitalization may be necessary to ensure their safety until their episode is stabilized.

Pricing & insurance

Our therapists accept most major insurance and we offer self-pay options too.
Learn more about pricing for therapy and counseling at Thriveworks.

Our therapists and counselors in Fredericksburg accept 30 insurance plans

  • Adventist Health Associates | Employee Health Plan

  • Adventist Health Associates | Non-Employee Health Plan

  • Aetna

  • Anthem Blue Cross and Blue Shield Virginia Medicare Advantage

  • Anthem Blue Cross and Blue Shield Virginia | BCBS HMO

  • Anthem Blue Cross and Blue Shield Virginia | BCBS PPO

  • Anthem Blue Cross and Blue Shield Virginia | Exchange

  • CareFirst Blue Cross and Blue Shield of Virginia | BCBS HMO

  • CareFirst Blue Cross and Blue Shield of Virginia | BCBS PPO

  • Carelon

  • Cigna | Evernorth

  • Compsych

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Hear from our clients

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Ann is just amazing. I’ve been in her support and guidance for awhile now (like 4 years… that’s how much we vibe and how much I appreciate her and finding such a knowledgeable, wonderful therapist.
Wrenne Mar 2026
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Kimberly is great! She makes me feel comfortable sharing. I will recommend Thriveworks to anyone seeking counseling.
Trevar Mar 2026
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I definitely felt comfortable seeing my therapist for the first time!
Zakiya Mar 2026
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I have come so far in the last two years since I’ve been seeing Kimberly. She has been a Godsend and I’m so thankful I have her for my therapist.
Jessi Mar 2026
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Everyone is so nice. They really seem to care. They make it easy and comfortable to tell your feelings. Very helpful. So far they have been life changing.
Brittani Sep 2025
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My therapist listened, and offered great advice and eventhough this was my first mtg I felt better after speaking with her
Leigh Sep 2025
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It was easy to find a provider and the person who helped me on the phone was super friendly and found a provider that fit what I was looking for. I love my provider and look forward to meeting with her weekly.
Primrose Sep 2025
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Thrive works is amazing counseling center I will recommend all family friends to go there
Julianna Jun 2025
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Where to find us

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Address

701 Kenmore Ave Suite 105
Fredericksburg, VA 22401

Getting here

Thriveworks Counseling & Psychiatry Fredericksburg is located near Kenmore Avenue and Mary Ball Street, off Route 1. It is near the Kenmore Historic Mansion and a short distance from the University of Mary Washington.

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Phone number

(540) 413-0358
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Languages spoken by VA providers

  • English
  • Spanish
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Hours

Friday 8:00am - 9:30pm
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Wednesday 8:00am - 9:30pm
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