2,810 people sought borderline personality disorder counseling help in North Carolina in the last year

Discover how starting therapy with a borderline personality disorder counseling can support your own journey toward a happier, more fulfilling life.

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What is borderline personality disorder counseling?

Borderline personality disorder counseling in Cary, NC is the main form of treatment for borderline personality disorder. It teaches individuals skills that enable them to better manage and cope with their symptoms.

How does borderline personality disorder counseling work?

Borderline personality disorder counseling at Thriveworks is personalized to each individual. Depending on your unique needs, it can help you learn to manage uncomfortable feelings, reduce impulsivity, and improve relationships (which might otherwise be negatively affected by your condition).

Is borderline personality disorder counseling conducted in person or online?

Borderline personality disorder counseling with our Thriveworks Cary therapists can be conducted both in person and online by video. We encourage you to choose the option that works best for you.

How long does borderline personality disorder counseling last?

The length of borderline personality disorder counseling sessions will vary from one person to the next, dependent on their specific needs. However, most treatments for borderline personality disorder last for 1-3 years.

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Borderline Personality Disorder Therapy in Cary, NC—Therapy and Counseling

BPD is a serious mental illness that can significantly impact an individual’s life. At Thriveworks Counseling in Cary, we offer specialized therapy for BPD to help individuals achieve stability and improve their quality of life.

Our experienced therapists are here to guide you through your journey to recovery. Call us at (919) 822-8286 to schedule your appointment.

Symptoms of Borderline Personality Disorder

  • Profound fear of separation and abandonment
  • Feeling of emptiness
  • Quarrelsome personality with sarcasm, anger, and antagonism
  • Fractured relationships due to glorifying and then vilifying others
  • Regularly switching values, identities, goals, and perceptions
  • Rapid emotional changes from euphoria to anger to anxiety
  • Periods of paranoia and difficulty distinguishing reality
  • Difficulty receiving criticism or feedback
  • Suicidal ideation, self-harm, and threats of self-harm or suicide
  • Taking unnecessary and reckless risks, such as substance abuse, reckless driving, and unsafe sex

These symptoms can also increase the risk of other mental health challenges, such as addiction, depression, and eating disorders.

Risk Factors and Development of BPD

The exact causes of BPD are not known, but several risk factors can increase its likelihood:

  • Family history of mental health problems, especially BPD
  • Childhood neglect or abuse (emotional, physical, and/or sexual)
  • Smaller than normal hippocampus size (part of the brain that regulates stress response and emotions)
  • Death or abandonment by a parent or caregiver during childhood

Mitigating BPD: Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)

DBT is a specialized therapy developed for individuals with BPD. DBT focuses on teaching practical coping skills to manage the instability introduced by BPD, including:

  1. Mindfulness: Paying attention to what you are sensing, feeling, and thinking without judgment.
  2. Emotional Regulation: Feeling your emotions while staying in control of your actions.
  3. Distress Tolerance: Responding to life’s setbacks with resilience.
  4. Interpersonal Effectiveness: Building healthy relationships in various contexts, such as home, work, community, and school.

Borderline Personality Disorder Therapy at Thriveworks Cary

Thriveworks Counseling in Cary offers specialized therapy for BPD, providing the support you need to achieve stability and improve your life. Our office is ready to take your call, and new clients often see their provider within 7 business days of their first call.

We accept many different insurance plans and offer weekend and evening sessions for your convenience. Let’s get started—call us today at (919) 822-8286.

Pricing & insurance

Our therapists accept most major insurances. We accept 585+ insurance plans, and offer self-pay options, too.
Learn more about pricing for therapy and counseling services at Thriveworks.

Our Cary therapists and counselors accept 26 insurance plans

  • Aetna

  • Blue Cross Blue Shield | Anthem (Blue Card)

  • Blue Cross and Blue Shield of North Carolina | BCBS

  • Blue Cross and Blue Shield of North Carolina | BCBS Medicare Advantage

  • Carelon

  • Caresource

  • Carolina Behavioral Health Alliance (CBHA)

  • Cigna | Evernorth

  • Cigna | Evernorth EAP

  • Cigna | Evernorth Medicare Advantage

  • Compsych

  • First Health Network

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Self-pay costs at Cary
Talk therapy

Talk therapy

Includes individual, couples, child/ teen, & family therapy

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$1

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Talk therapy

Psychiatry

Includes reducing symptoms with medication & management

First session

$1

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I highly recommend Dr. Deborah Bell if you need an empathetic and experienced therapist for trauma and/or bereavement issues.
Read more I highly recommend Dr. Deborah Bell if you need an empathetic and experienced therapist for trauma and/or bereavement issues.
Jeanne Jan 2024
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My husband and I saw Dr. Bell for marital counseling. She helped us work through things that I thought were impossible! Her style and methods of communicating helped us to examine ourselves and reestablish our relationship. Truly a God-send!
Read more My husband and I saw Dr. Bell for marital counseling. She helped us work through things that I thought were impossible! Her style and methods of communicating helped us to examine ourselves and reestablish our relationship. Truly a God-send!
Cary Mar 2022
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I have worked with Brittney Peiffer and cannot recommend her enough! She is attentive and and knowledgable, and genuinely cares for people and their well-being. She is able to provide guidance without judgement - and she has a special talent for building rapport with her clients. I would recommend Brittney to family and friends without hesitation.  She is an incredible asset to the Thriveworks Team!
Read more I have worked with Brittney Peiffer and cannot recommend her enough! She is attentive and and knowledgable, and genuinely cares for people and their well-being. She is able to provide guidance without judgement - and she has a special talent for building rapport with her clients. I would recommend Brittney to family and friends without hesitation.  She is an incredible asset to the Thriveworks Team!
Cary Mar 2021
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Nicole Kilpatrick is a veryy warm straight fowarded person who has a heart to help others. She is very passionate about the services she provides. She is warm, friendly, private and loyalty is outstanding. She is a giver in many ways and it comes from her heart.
Read more Nicole Kilpatrick is a veryy warm straight fowarded person who has a heart to help others. She is very passionate about the services she provides. She is warm, friendly, private and loyalty is outstanding. She is a giver in many ways and it comes from her heart.
Cary Jan 2021
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Nicole Kilpatrick is amazing! She actually listens to what you say and helps YOU figure out what steps need to be taken. A good counselor does not judge or makes you feel less than....this is Nicole
Read more Nicole Kilpatrick is amazing! She actually listens to what you say and helps YOU figure out what steps need to be taken. A good counselor does not judge or makes you feel less than....this is Nicole
Cary Jan 2021
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Nicole Kilpatrick is a phenomenal therapist that is all about making sure her clients needs are met. She is very personable, professional and just a great listener. She wants to know you as a "whole" person and challenges you to be your best person. She is all about staying motivated while moving through the healing process. Anyone can benefit from her expertise and her stellar tips and strategies!!! She is so intuitive and knowledgeable. I give her the highest rating!!
Read more Nicole Kilpatrick is a phenomenal therapist that is all about making sure her clients needs are met. She is very personable, professional and just a great listener. She wants to know you as a "whole" person and challenges you to be your best person. She is all about staying motivated while moving through the healing process. Anyone can benefit from her expertise and her stellar tips and strategies!!! She is so intuitive and knowledgeable. I give her the highest rating!!
Cary Jan 2021
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My family has had the pleasure of working with Nicole at this company. She is a great therapist and easy to talk to to. She was attentive to our needs and helped us to work through our issues during a very difficult time. Nicole is friendly and experienced in her treatment modalities. We would definitely continue to see her and recommend her to families that are experiencing hardships and need someone to provide support and assurance.
Read more My family has had the pleasure of working with Nicole at this company. She is a great therapist and easy to talk to to. She was attentive to our needs and helped us to work through our issues during a very difficult time. Nicole is friendly and experienced in her treatment modalities. We would definitely continue to see her and recommend her to families that are experiencing hardships and need someone to provide support and assurance.
Cary Nov 2020
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I highly recommend V. Nicole. She is so compassionate, easy to talk to, and has very practical information to provide about how to manage the stress of life. I highly recommend!
Read more I highly recommend V. Nicole. She is so compassionate, easy to talk to, and has very practical information to provide about how to manage the stress of life. I highly recommend!
Cary Nov 2020
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Where to find us

Getting here

Thriveworks Counseling & Psychiatry is located off of SW Maynard Rd, near the intersection of Maynard and Kildaire Farm Rd and just north of Big Lots. We're next to Pit Stop Express Lube & Inspection, Vapor Max, and Village Cleaners, and across the street from May Laundromat and La Michoacana Bakery. The closest bus stop is Kildaire Farm Rd at SE Maynard Rd.

Phone number

(919) 822-8286

Languages spoken by NC providers

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