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2,399 people sought couples therapy help at Cary in the last year

Discover how starting couples therapy can support your own journey toward a happier, more fulfilling life.

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Aetna, Blue Cross and Blue Shield of North Carolina | BCBS, Blue Cross Blue Shield | Anthem (Blue Card), +22 more
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Starting Couples therapy

What is Couples therapy?

Thriveworks Couples therapy helps couples work through their specific relationship issues. It is led by licensed professionals — often licensed marriage and family therapists (LMFTs) — who are experts in their field and best-equipped to help couples. Some examples of common focuses within couples therapy include:

  • Jealousy
  • Trust issues
  • Infidelity
  • Opposing values
  • Different visions for the future
  • Disagreements in parenting
  • Lack of trust
  • Financial distress
  • Sex issues

How does Couples therapy work?

Couples therapy works by helping couples identify and better navigate their unique challenges. Following an initial assessment of the couple in terms of strengths and needs, the therapist would then discuss their therapeutic goals and any possible approaches or ways of working together as therapist and couple.
Couples attend sessions together, whether they meet in person or by video. In addition to regular couples therapy sessions, each partner may also be asked to attend a few individual sessions to supplement their progress. This will allow their counselor to get to know each individual better, assess each of their personal needs, and develop the very best treatment plan moving forward.

Is Couples therapy conducted in person or online?

Couples therapy at Thriveworks is conducted both in person and via Online therapy. We encourage you to choose the option that works best for you and your partner.

How long does Couples therapy last?

On average, couples attend couples therapy for 12 weeks. However, couples therapy may last longer or shorter, dependent on the couples' needs, the challenges they'd like to work through, and the pace of their progress.

Need more help deciding?

VH1 has turned relationship counseling into a reality TV show in its hit, Couples Therapy. The show chronicles six couples each season. Dr. Jenn Mann and her team of therapists work through different exercises as each celebrity couple attempts to save their relationship. Some make it. Some do not. Although the drama of a reality TV show is not exactly what it is like to go through couples therapy, there are some similarities. All couples struggle. It’s a hard but true fact. Whether they have been together six months, six years, or six decades, it is normal and even healthy at times to have conflict with your partner. Another similarity: all couples need help. If it is ok to struggle, it is also ok to ask for help within a relationship.

“Nobody can predict the future. You just have to give your all to the relationship you’re in and do your best to take care of your partner, communicate and give them every last drop of love you have. I think one of the most important things in a relationship is caring for your significant other through good times and bad.”
—Nick Cannon

Sometimes, giving your all to a relationship means looking outside the relationship to a professional therapist. Couples counseling has been a place where many partners grow personally and their relationship grows as well. Other times, it becomes a place where partners can peaceably and amicably transition their relationship to a friendship.

The couples therapists and counselors at Thriveworks Counseling in Cary have provided a safe place for many couples to explore their relationship. Whatever the end result may be, each partner is usually strengthened and encouraged by their time in couples therapy.

Couples Therapy and Common Relationship Problems

All too often, when partners are struggling, they can feel isolated in their relationship and think, other couples do not struggle with this. The reality is that most couples face common issues. This means that there are also effective strategies for overcoming these issues. When both partners are committed to being healthy in themselves and when they are committed to the health of the relationship, couples can often weather these storms and even grow stronger in the process. A few examples of common relationship problems include…

  • Differing Goals – Partner are not always united on what the relationship should look like and where it should go. They may have differing ideas about where to live, how to interact with extended family, what to prioritize, and more. When partners pull toward opposite or even different targets, conflict can result.
  • Difficulty with Intimacy – Most people think of their sexual relationship when they think of intimacy, and for many couples, that is an important aspect to their relationship. However, intimacy can include so much more. Couples may have trouble connecting emotionally or socially or spiritually. Intimacy is about connection in all aspects of life.
  • Distrust – Trust between partners can easily be broken. Sometimes, the breach is big, like cheating. Sometimes, little things wear partners’ ability to rely upon one another. Trust can be restored with consistent behavior over time.
  • Communication Difficulties – Empathy, sharing, and vulnerability are all elements of good communication, but these can be challenging relational skills. Like many other skills, they can be learned. Couples can grow in their communication.
  • Disagreements about Family – It sounds cliché, but even stereotypes have an element of truth to them. Many couples have trouble interacting with each partner’s extended family, deciding about whether to marry or not, if and when to have children, and more.

Do you recognize anything on this list? If you and your partner are struggling, know that help is available. Couples counseling, or couples therapy, has helped many partners get back on a right track in their own lives and in their relationship.

Why Come to Couples Therapy?

Challenges are often opportunities for couples to grow and improve their relationship. These common difficulties also have common solutions. The process of growth and change is never easy, but it is almost always worth it. There is nothing wrong with asking for help and guidance during that process. A few things couples counseling can offer partners is…

  • Setting a reasonable timeline for change. Certain relational issues need urgent action. Any safety concerns need to be addressed immediately, but change can also take time. Skilled couples therapists can help partners know when to be patient and when to make an immediate change.
  • Providing neutral space for dialogue. In any conflict, the natural tendency is to escalate the problem. A simple disagreement can quickly become a personal attack, but skilled couples counselors can keep the tone neutral and the focus upon the problem itself.
  • Teaching skills for conflict resolution. A disagreement does not have to be a conflict. Partners can listen without judgment, respond with empathy, and advocate for their own needs in a healthy way. Couples counselors can often show them how.

Setting Up an Appointment at Thriveworks Counseling in Cary for Couples Therapy

Are you and your partner having a difficult time? It is understandable if you are. Think about setting up an appointment for couples counseling. The couples therapists at Thriveworks Cary are ready to help. When you contact our office, you and your partner may be meeting with one of our staff the following day. We accept many forms of insurance, and we offer evening and weekend appointments.

Let’s work together for a better relationship. Call us today.

Pricing & insurance

Our therapists accept most major insurances. We cover 180 million Americans – and offer self-pay options, too.
Learn more about pricing for therapy and counseling services at Thriveworks.

Our Cary therapists and counselors accept 25 insurance plans

  • Aetna

  • Blue Cross and Blue Shield of North Carolina | BCBS

  • Blue Cross Blue Shield | Anthem (Blue Card)

  • Carelon

  • Caresource

  • Carolina Behavioral Health Alliance (CBHA)

  • Cigna | Evernorth

  • Cigna | Evernorth EAP

  • Cigna | Evernorth Medicare Advantage

  • Compsych

  • First Health Network

  • Humana Exchange

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Self-pay costs at Cary
Talk therapy

Talk therapy

Includes individual, couples, child/ teen, & family therapy

First session

$1

Ongoing sessions

$1

Talk therapy

Psychiatry

Includes reducing symptoms with medication & management

First session

$1

Ongoing sessions

$1

Hear from our clients

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I highly recommend Dr. Deborah Bell if you need an empathetic and experienced therapist for trauma and/or bereavement issues.
Read more I highly recommend Dr. Deborah Bell if you need an empathetic and experienced therapist for trauma and/or bereavement issues.
Jeanne Jan 2024
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My husband and I saw Dr. Bell for marital counseling. She helped us work through things that I thought were impossible! Her style and methods of communicating helped us to examine ourselves and reestablish our relationship. Truly a God-send!
Read more My husband and I saw Dr. Bell for marital counseling. She helped us work through things that I thought were impossible! Her style and methods of communicating helped us to examine ourselves and reestablish our relationship. Truly a God-send!
Cary Mar 2022
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I have worked with Brittney Peiffer and cannot recommend her enough! She is attentive and and knowledgable, and genuinely cares for people and their well-being. She is able to provide guidance without judgement - and she has a special talent for building rapport with her clients. I would recommend Brittney to family and friends without hesitation.  She is an incredible asset to the Thriveworks Team!
Read more I have worked with Brittney Peiffer and cannot recommend her enough! She is attentive and and knowledgable, and genuinely cares for people and their well-being. She is able to provide guidance without judgement - and she has a special talent for building rapport with her clients. I would recommend Brittney to family and friends without hesitation.  She is an incredible asset to the Thriveworks Team!
Cary Mar 2021
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Nicole Kilpatrick is a veryy warm straight fowarded person who has a heart to help others. She is very passionate about the services she provides. She is warm, friendly, private and loyalty is outstanding. She is a giver in many ways and it comes from her heart.
Read more Nicole Kilpatrick is a veryy warm straight fowarded person who has a heart to help others. She is very passionate about the services she provides. She is warm, friendly, private and loyalty is outstanding. She is a giver in many ways and it comes from her heart.
Cary Jan 2021
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Nicole Kilpatrick is amazing! She actually listens to what you say and helps YOU figure out what steps need to be taken. A good counselor does not judge or makes you feel less than....this is Nicole
Read more Nicole Kilpatrick is amazing! She actually listens to what you say and helps YOU figure out what steps need to be taken. A good counselor does not judge or makes you feel less than....this is Nicole
Cary Jan 2021
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Nicole Kilpatrick is a phenomenal therapist that is all about making sure her clients needs are met. She is very personable, professional and just a great listener. She wants to know you as a "whole" person and challenges you to be your best person. She is all about staying motivated while moving through the healing process. Anyone can benefit from her expertise and her stellar tips and strategies!!! She is so intuitive and knowledgeable. I give her the highest rating!!
Read more Nicole Kilpatrick is a phenomenal therapist that is all about making sure her clients needs are met. She is very personable, professional and just a great listener. She wants to know you as a "whole" person and challenges you to be your best person. She is all about staying motivated while moving through the healing process. Anyone can benefit from her expertise and her stellar tips and strategies!!! She is so intuitive and knowledgeable. I give her the highest rating!!
Cary Jan 2021
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My family has had the pleasure of working with Nicole at this company. She is a great therapist and easy to talk to to. She was attentive to our needs and helped us to work through our issues during a very difficult time. Nicole is friendly and experienced in her treatment modalities. We would definitely continue to see her and recommend her to families that are experiencing hardships and need someone to provide support and assurance.
Read more My family has had the pleasure of working with Nicole at this company. She is a great therapist and easy to talk to to. She was attentive to our needs and helped us to work through our issues during a very difficult time. Nicole is friendly and experienced in her treatment modalities. We would definitely continue to see her and recommend her to families that are experiencing hardships and need someone to provide support and assurance.
Cary Nov 2020
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I highly recommend V. Nicole. She is so compassionate, easy to talk to, and has very practical information to provide about how to manage the stress of life. I highly recommend!
Read more I highly recommend V. Nicole. She is so compassionate, easy to talk to, and has very practical information to provide about how to manage the stress of life. I highly recommend!
Cary Nov 2020
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Where to find us

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Getting here

Thriveworks Counseling & Psychiatry is located off of SW Maynard Rd, near the intersection of Maynard and Kildaire Farm Rd and just north of Big Lots. We're next to Pit Stop Express Lube & Inspection, Vapor Max, and Village Cleaners, and across the street from May Laundromat and La Michoacana Bakery. The closest bus stop is Kildaire Farm Rd at SE Maynard Rd.

Phone number

(919) 822-8286

Languages spoken by NC providers

  • ASL
  • English
  • Spanish
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