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Our therapists offer Borderline Personality Disorder Counseling in Alexandria, VA

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155 licensed therapists & providers in Virginia—13 in Alexandria. Available as soon as today, in person and online

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Our providers work with individuals, couples, families, & teens for anxiety, depression, grief, & more

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We accept UnitedHealthcare, Cigna, BCBS Plans, Humana, Aetna, & many more. Self-pay options available, no membership fees

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94% of patients feel truly understood by their provider. 3 out of 4 see improvement in depression & anxiety symptoms within 3 months

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5,994 people sought borderline personality disorder counseling help in Virginia in the last year

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Borderline personality disorder counseling FAQs

What is borderline personality disorder counseling?

Borderline personality disorder counseling in Alexandria, VA is the main form of treatment for borderline personality disorder. It teaches individuals skills that enable them to better manage and cope with their symptoms.

How does borderline personality disorder counseling work?

Borderline personality disorder counseling at Thriveworks is personalized to each individual. Depending on your unique needs, it can help you learn to manage uncomfortable feelings, reduce impulsivity, and improve relationships (which might otherwise be negatively affected by your condition).

Is borderline personality disorder counseling conducted in person or online?

Borderline personality disorder counseling with our Thriveworks Alexandria therapists can be conducted both in person and online by video. We encourage you to choose the option that works best for you.

How long does borderline personality disorder counseling last?

The length of borderline personality disorder counseling sessions will vary from one person to the next, dependent on their specific needs. However, most treatments for borderline personality disorder last for 1-3 years.

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Borderline Personality Disorder Treatment in Alexandria, VA (Franconia)—Counselors and Therapists

Thriveworks Alexandria, VA (Franconia) has worked with many clients who are struggling with BPD, and we have helped them manage their symptoms and thrive.

Borderline Personality Disorder—Signs and Symptoms

The Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, Fifth Edition (DSM-5) groups ten mental illnesses under the category of personality disorder. Each of these ten can produce maladaptive behaviors in people—that is, the disorders’ signs and symptoms are behaviors, feelings, and attitudes that make life harder. Each personality disorder has a unique characteristic, and BPD’s is volatility. People with Borderline Personality Disorder often experience unstable emotions, identities, and relationships.

Common symptoms include:

  • A history of broken relationships that often begin with idealization of the other person and end with a vilification of them.
  • A deep fear of separation or abandonment, and the ability to take extremes to avoid them.
  • An ability to alter one’s identity, values, and goal easily.
  • A severe sensitivity to receiving any kind of rejection or criticism (even healthy kinds, like constructive criticism).
  • Impulsive and risky behaviors that are potentially dangerous and harmful: gambling, unsafe sex, daredevil driving, self-sabotage, binge eating, spending sprees, drug use, and more.
  • An attempted or the threat of attempting suicide or self-harm (especially as a response to fear, criticism, or rejection).
  • Vacillating between extreme feelings: anxiety and euphoria, irritability and happiness, et cetera.
  • Belligerence, outbursts of anger, bitterness, sarcasm, and more.
  • An on-going feeling of emptiness.

BPD Risk Factors and Development

Just over 1 percent of the US population is affected by Borderline Personality Disorder. It is not completely clear what causes BPD, but mental health professionals have identified certain environmental, genetic, physical, and social factors that can raise an individual’s risk. These include…

  • Loss of a caregiver as a child.
  • A history of childhood trauma (particularly emotional, sexual, or physical abuse by a caregiver).
  • A genetic history of mental illness, in particular BPD.
  • A reduced hippocampus size (region of the brain that manages emotion and stress responses).

Treatment Options for BPD

There are many different ways to treat Borderline Personality Disorder. Skilled therapists can often help people find the right option for them, but often, that treatment plan include a type of therapy called dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT). This therapy was developed specifically to treat BPD, and it has proven so effective, that it is often used to treat other disorders as well. It’s healing techniques focus upon skills such as…

  • Emotional regulation – helps individuals respond to difficult feelings by processing them in a healthy way so that the emotions do not overwhelming them or dictate them.
  • Distress tolerance – emphasizes how life is full of ups and downs, successes and setbacks, highs and lows. Distress tolerance teaches people how to handle the more difficult parts of life with resiliency.
  • Mindfulness – seeks to increase self-awareness. Sometimes, people do not know what their body is sensing or what they are thinking or how they are feeling. Mindfulness is the art of paying attention to those things without judgment and without fear.
  • Interpersonal effectiveness – relationships are important for all of life, and interpersonal effectiveness skills help people cultivate successful relationships in a wide variety of contexts—at home, at the office, in the community, and more.

Appointments at Thriveworks Alexandria (Franconia) for Borderline Personality Disorder

When you contact our office, a real person (one of our scheduling specialists) will answer and help you make an appointment. New clients often meet with their counselor the week following their first call.
Weekend and evening sessions are offered, and we accept many different insurance plans. Call today.

Pricing & insurance

Our therapists accept most major insurance and we offer self-pay options too.
Learn more about pricing for therapy and counseling at Thriveworks.

Our therapists and counselors in Alexandria accept 32 insurance plans

  • Adventist Health Associates | Employee Health Plan

  • Adventist Health Associates | Non-Employee Health Plan

  • Aetna

  • Anthem Blue Cross and Blue Shield Virginia Medicare Advantage

  • Anthem Blue Cross and Blue Shield Virginia | BCBS HMO

  • Anthem Blue Cross and Blue Shield Virginia | BCBS PPO

  • Anthem Blue Cross and Blue Shield Virginia | Exchange

  • CareFirst Blue Cross and Blue Shield of Virginia | BCBS HMO

  • CareFirst Blue Cross and Blue Shield of Virginia | BCBS PPO

  • Carelon

  • Cigna | Evernorth

  • Compsych

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I first discovered thriveworks almost 2 years ago now and my therapist has helped me grow and unpack issues so well. I’ve been able to heal and create new ways to cope with their help and I feel very certain in saying that discovering thriveworks and my therapist has drastically improved not only my mental health, but my overall wellbeing.
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Lydia is very attentive and concerned for my well being. She listens to what I have to say and takes that into account as she manages my health. We carefully review my medications and she regularly orders bloodwork to ensure my levels are ok. Other doctors have used the results of her testing and commended her diligence to monitor my health. I’m greatful to have been her patient for many years now.
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Juan Aug 2026Thriveworks.com verified review
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Lydia is a very good listener and very well educated on all the pharmaceuticals I take daily. Comfortable and easy to talk with
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I appreciate his realness and upfrontness and his empathy towards his clients. I think he's great
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She took time to listen to me and help me with my concerns
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Krista made me feel very comfortable
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I've been using Thriveworks' services on and off for about 10 years, and every provider has been attentive, knowledgeable, and supportive. Thriveworks makes everything easy, from scheduling to payment, and seems invested in the customer experience in general.
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Where to find us

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Address

6076 Franconia Rd Suite D
Alexandria, VA 22310

Getting here

Thriveworks Counseling & Psychiatry Alexandria is located near Franconia Rd and Beulah St, off I-95. It is close to the Franconia Museum and right by the Manchester Lakes Park.

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Phone number

(703) 454-8246
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Languages spoken by VA providers

  • Portuguese
  • English
  • Korean
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Hours

Thursday 8:00am - 9:30pm
Friday 8:00am - 9:30pm
Saturday 8:00am - 9:30pm
Sunday 8:00am - 9:30pm
Monday 8:00am - 9:30pm
Tuesday 8:00am - 9:30pm
Wednesday 8:00am - 9:30pm

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