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Sharan Gill
Sharan Gill
Psychiatric Mental Health Nurse Practitioner (PMHNP)

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Sharan Gill

Sharan Gill

PMHNP
Adventist Health Associates | Employee Health Plan, Adventist Health Associates | Non-Employee Health Plan, Aetna, Alignment Health Plan, Anthem Blue Cross of California | Commercial, Anthem Blue Cross of California | Medicare Advantage, Carelon, Cigna | Evernorth, Compsych, Firefly Health Plan | Cigna PPO Network, First Health Network, JP Farley Corporation, Multi Plan PHCS, SCAN Health Plan Medicare Advantage California, Scripps Health Plan, Sharp Health Plan, Sutter Senior Care, Tricare West, UMR, United Healthcare | Optum, United Healthcare | Optum Medicare Advantage, Uprise EAP, Ventura County Health Care Plan, Western Health Advantage, Blue Cross Blue Shield | Anthem (Blue Card), Quest Behavioral Health
LGBTQIA+, Women’s Issues, Bipolar Disorder, Anxiety, Depression, Trauma / PTSD, Dual Diagnosis, Emotional Disturbance, Mood Disorders, Performance Anxiety, Psychosis, Social Anxiety, Stress / Mental Stress / Work Stress, Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD), Grief, Pregnancy, Prenatal, Postpartum
Serves ages 65+, 18-64

About

Through both personal and professional experience, I’ve seen how trauma and loss can reshape us and how, with compassionate care and evidence-based support, it’s possible to rebuild strength, balance, and a renewed sense of self. I aim to make mental health treatment feel like a conversation, not a clinical checklist.

I’m a board-certified Psychiatric Mental Health Nurse Practitioner with 6 years of experience supporting individuals on their journey toward emotional well-being and stability. I’m passionate about helping clients navigate challenges such as depression, anxiety, mood instability, trauma, and relationship stressors. My goal is to create a safe, collaborative space where healing and self-discovery can take place. I believe in meeting clients where they are and working together to help them regain a sense of balance and control in their daily lives.

I earned my Master’s in Nursing from Western University of Health Sciences. My approach blends evidence-based psychiatric care with empathy and empowerment, focusing on each person’s unique story. I integrate medication management, education, and lifestyle strategies to support both symptom relief and long-term growth.

Taking the first step toward care is a powerful act of courage. My goal is to make you feel understood, valued, and supported as we work toward greater peace and stability. I’m here to listen without judgment and help you uncover your strength, purpose, and clarity. When you’re ready, I invite you to begin your journey toward healing with me.

Education and training

Years in practice
6 years
Graduating Institute
Western University of Health Sciences
Graduating Degree
Master of Science in Nursing - PMHNP
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Heidi Mendez
Heidi Mendez She/Her
Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist (LMFT)

I have successfully worked with individuals and groups by drawing on my bilingual and bicultural background....

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Heidi Mendez

Heidi Mendez

LMFT
Adventist Health Associates | Employee Health Plan, Adventist Health Associates | Non-Employee Health Plan, Aetna, Alignment Health Plan, Anthem Blue Cross of California | Commercial, Anthem Blue Cross of California | Medicare Advantage, Blue Shield of California | BCBS, Blue Shield of California | Medicare Advantage, Carelon, Cigna | Evernorth, Compsych, Firefly Health Plan | Cigna PPO Network, First Health Network, Health Net | Commercial, JP Farley Corporation, Multi Plan PHCS, SCAN Health Plan Medicare Advantage California, Scripps Health Plan, Sharp Health Plan, Sutter Health Plan, Sutter Senior Care, Tricare West, UMR, United Healthcare | Optum, United Healthcare | Optum Medicare Advantage, Uprise EAP, Ventura County Health Care Plan, Western Health Advantage, Blue Cross Blue Shield | Anthem (Blue Card), Cigna | Evernorth - Employee Assistance Program (EAP), Medica, Poppins Health, Quest Behavioral Health , United Healthcare | Optum - Employee Assistance Program (EAP)
Behavioral Issues, Coping Skills, Infidelity, Self Esteem, ADHD, Bipolar Disorder, Sleep / Insomnia, Life Transition, Anxiety, Depression, Trauma / PTSD, Stress / Mental Stress / Work Stress, Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD), Grief
Serves ages 65+, 18-64

About

I have successfully worked with individuals and groups by drawing on my bilingual and bicultural background.

I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist with 6 years of experience helping individuals, couples, and families navigate life’s challenges. My background includes providing support in outpatient settings and community-based programs, where I have guided clients through struggles with relationships, life transitions, and emotional well-being. I take a collaborative, compassionate approach, working alongside clients to help them feel empowered and supported in their journey toward healing.

I earned my Master’s in Counseling, Marriage, Family, and Child Therapy from the University of Phoenix. I integrate family systems and client-centered approaches to create a safe, balanced space for healing. My goal is to support clients in strengthening relationships, improving communication, and building resilience.

Starting therapy can feel overwhelming, but you don’t have to face it alone. I strive to create an environment where you feel safe, respected, and heard. Whether you’re seeking support for yourself, your relationship, or your family, I welcome you to reach out. Together, we can work toward the growth and balance you’re looking for.

Education and training

Years in practice
6 years
Graduating Institute
University of Phoenix
Graduating Degree
Master of Science in Counseling, Marriage, Family, and Child Therapy
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Monica Basquez
Monica Basquez She/Her
Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist (LMFT)

As one who experienced difficulty with managing my mental health, I have an authentic understanding of how we are impacted by life...

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Monica Basquez

Monica Basquez

LMFT
Adventist Health Associates | Employee Health Plan, Adventist Health Associates | Non-Employee Health Plan, Aetna, Alignment Health Plan, Anthem Blue Cross of California | Commercial, Anthem Blue Cross of California | Medicare Advantage, Carelon, Cigna | Evernorth, Compsych, Firefly Health Plan | Cigna PPO Network, First Health Network, Humana Medicare Advantage, Imperial Health Holdings Medical Group CA, Imperial Health Plan of California, JP Farley Corporation, Medicare CA, Multi Plan PHCS, SCAN Health Plan Medicare Advantage California, Scripps Health Plan, Sharp Health Plan, Sutter Health Plan, Sutter Senior Care, Tricare West, UMR, United Healthcare | Optum, United Healthcare | Optum Medicare Advantage, Uprise EAP, Ventura County Health Care Plan, Western Health Advantage, Aetna Medicare Advantage, Blue Cross Blue Shield | Anthem (Blue Card), Cigna | Evernorth - Employee Assistance Program (EAP), Poppins Health, Quest Behavioral Health , United Healthcare | Optum - Employee Assistance Program (EAP)
Military / Veteran, LGBTQIA+, Coping Skills, Addiction, Life Transition, Anxiety, Depression, Trauma / PTSD, Stress / Mental Stress / Work Stress, Anger Management, School Issues, Grief
Serves ages 18-64

About

As one who experienced difficulty with managing my mental health, I have an authentic understanding of how we are impacted by life circumstances and how learning new skills can empower us.

Do you feel pulled in a million directions, unable to fit it all in? Are you struggling to keep up with your relationships, work and health? Is it hard to be kind to yourself? I help high performers manage anxiety and avoid burnout. Together, we can identify what's not working and get you back to balance. 

We'll use a whole self approach, addressing the needs of your mind, body and spirit. I also integrate mindfulness and somatic movement to help you develop a stronger relationship with yourself. Whether you're dealing with overwhelm, relationship issues or cycles of anxiety and depression, I'm here to help. 

Seeking therapy can feel scary but you're making the right choice. You deserve a safe space to heal and grow. In our sessions together, I'll meet you with compassion and evidence-based techniques so you can overcome the hangups and habits holding you back.Let's work together!

Education and training

Years in practice
9 years
Graduating Institute
California Baptist University
Graduating Degree
Master of Science in Clinical Psychology
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Rebecca Stoffel
Rebecca Stoffel She/Her
Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW)

Throughout my own journey, I have learned how powerful having a strong support is in developing the skills needed to commit to our...

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Rebecca Stoffel

Rebecca Stoffel

LCSW
Adventist Health Associates | Employee Health Plan, Adventist Health Associates | Non-Employee Health Plan, Aetna, Alignment Health Plan, Anthem Blue Cross of California | Commercial, Anthem Blue Cross of California | Medicare Advantage, Blue Shield of California | BCBS, Blue Shield of California | Medicare Advantage, Carelon, Cigna | Evernorth, Compsych, Firefly Health Plan | Cigna PPO Network, First Health Network, Health Net | Commercial, JP Farley Corporation, Molina Healthcare Exchange, Molina Healthcare Medicare Advantage, Multi Plan PHCS, SCAN Health Plan Medicare Advantage California, Scripps Health Plan, Sharp Health Plan, Sutter Health Plan, Sutter Senior Care, Tricare West, UMR, United Healthcare | Optum, United Healthcare | Optum Medicare Advantage, Uprise EAP, Ventura County Health Care Plan, Western Health Advantage, Blue Cross Blue Shield | Anthem (Blue Card), Cigna | Evernorth - Employee Assistance Program (EAP), Quest Behavioral Health , United Healthcare | Optum - Employee Assistance Program (EAP)
Domestic Abuse, Behavioral Issues, Coping Skills, Infidelity, Self Esteem, Women’s Issues, ADHD, Sexual Abuse, Bipolar Disorder, Life Transition, Anxiety, Depression, Trauma / PTSD, Codependency, Domestic Violence, Emotional Disturbance, Mood Disorders, Narcissistic Abuse Recovery, Panic Attack, Peer Relationships, Performance Anxiety, Social Anxiety, Step-Family / Blended Family Issues, Stress / Mental Stress / Work Stress, Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD), Family Conflict, School Issues, Divorce, Grief
Serves ages 18-64, 14-17

About

Throughout my own journey, I have learned how powerful having a strong support is in developing the skills needed to commit to our values and goals, have love and compassion for ourselves and experiences, and build strong self-worth and self-efficacy to guide us through life. I strive to be that strong support for others and foster lasting change for personal development. My approach is grounded in empathy, collaboration, and understanding how experiences shape who we are.

My name is Rebecca and I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker. I have ten years of experience working with children and adults through crisis residential, outpatient case management, in-home services, and therapy. I support individuals with anxiety, depression, emotional dysregulation, stress responses, or childhood traumas to process difficult events or emotions while identifying and aligning with personal values to work towards individual goals. I believe you are the expert of your own experience and having a safe person to witness and explore your experience is highly validating, fostering deeper connection with self and others.

I partner with individuals through Acceptance Commitment Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, and Dialectical Behavioral Therapy to support emotional flexibility and process traumatic events or chronic stressors.  My approach is grounded in empathy and collaboration while using trauma-informed and communication to reinforce a safe therapeutic alliance.

I commend you on taking this next step- while it might be overwhelming, you deserve to take the time and space to invest in your healing with support that feels safe, compassionate, and attuned to you. When you’re ready, I invite you to schedule an appointment and I’d be honored to support you.

Education and training

Years in practice
9 years
Graduating Institute
Northern Arizona University
Graduating Degree
Master of Social Work
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Grief & loss counseling FAQs

What type of counseling is needed when a person cannot get over the grief of losing a loved one?

Grief and loss counseling helps people grieve difficult losses including the death of a loved one, the loss of a job, or the end of a relationship. It helps people navigate their grief process and eventually accept, understand, and move forward from their loss. Thriveworks grief therapists in San Diego, CA have specific experience, training, and skills that enable them to best support grieving individuals.

How does grief and loss counseling work?

Grief and loss counseling isn’t one-size-fits-all, but it involves sharing about your loss and then working with your counselor to acknowledge and accept your new reality in its wake. Your provider at Thriveworks in San Diego, CA will design your treatment plan around your unique needs and goals for therapy, applying the counseling techniques that best support them.

Signs I should seek grief counseling

If you have recently experienced an event like the death of a loved one, a breakup or divorce, the loss of a job, or another major life change, then you may want to seek grief and loss counseling. Grief can be caused by many experiences and events, so if you feel that you are having trouble moving on from a certain event or find that it is still impacting your life and functioning, grief and loss counseling can help you process it more effectively so that you can move on and once again find fulfillment and satisfaction in your life.

What counseling theory is best for grief?

There are many counseling theories for treating grief, one of the most frequently used being the dual process model of grief which helps people acknowledge who or what they’ve lost through rumination while also adjusting to the new roles and identities that this loss has now placed on them. There are also many commonly used therapy approaches used in grief and loss counseling, including Cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), Acceptance and commitment therapy (ACT), and traumatic grief therapy.

Is grief counseling conducted in person or online?

Grief & loss counseling at Thriveworks is conducted both in person and online by video. We encourage you to choose the option that works best for you.

How long does grief counseling last?

For many, grief and loss counseling lasts for about 6 months. For others, it may last shorter or longer, depending on the severity of their loss and their grief.

Need more help deciding?

Have you experienced the impact of a significant change or loss in your own life? That’s where the grief counseling experts at Thriveworks San Diego, CA can assist you. We offer comprehensive, personalized grief counseling on an individualized basis, addressing your needs, wants, and goals. Learn more below and reach out to schedule your first session.

Do I Need Grief Therapy? 

In most instances, the decision to seek out grief counseling (or grief therapy, as it’s referred to interchangeably) is yours. But there are some key indicators that you might benefit more from talking to someone include: 

  • Sadness that doesn’t seem to fade 
  • Anger about your loss and what could have been done to prevent it
  • Regret toward past feelings or actions 
  • Guilt in regards to your inability to prevent the event(s)
  • Confusion about how to move forward after experiencing the loss
  • Yearning for the individual or “thing” you have lost

These emotions are normal to experience during the grieving and bereavement process. But if these feelings prevent you from being able to function during your daily life, it’s highly likely that grief counseling could offer a helping hand. 

How Does Grief Therapy Work? 

Yes, grief therapy can help you work through one of the most difficult times in your life. By talking with a therapist in grief counseling sessions, you’ll begin to sort through the emotional weight, the shock, and the emptiness left in the wake of a significant loss. 

Grief therapy works to help you: 

  • Accept loss: Sometimes, the hardest part of your loss is accepting the permanence that this person, job, object, or relationship is gone permanently. Your grief counselor can help you completely understand this process.
  • Cope more healthily: Though we might try our hardest, sometimes vices take hold when we’re grieving. It’s not uncommon to cope with alcohol, drugs, risky sex, or self-harming behaviors while grieving—but a therapist can help you learn to meditate, journal, organize your day, and even run your household more effectively. 
  • Process difficult emotions: Some people experience difficult emotions immediately—others experience their whirlwind of emotions much later. One goal of grief counseling is to express and explore whatever emotions you are feeling at the moment.
  • Move forward with your lives: When you lose a loved one, your whole life changes. A grief counselor can help you adjust to life without this person, in a way that will still allow you to live a happy, successful life.

Schedule Grief Counseling in San Diego, CA

Without the right support and coping skills, the grieving process can feel like a never-ending nightmare. There’s no need to endure that and suffer alone.  

At Thriveworks San Diego, our therapists are here to help. If you think you could benefit from partnering with them, schedule a grief counseling session online, or give our office a call to get started. When you schedule with Thriveworks, you get access to industry-leading perks, such as: 

  • We make therapy and psychiatry affordable—we’re in network with insurance
  • Compassionate care from experts in the mental health field
  • Schedule your session easily over the phone with our support team
  • Meet with a therapist in person at our San Diego, CA office today—or online, with virtual video therapy options 
  • Get high-quality therapy and psychiatry from expert mental health professionals 

You may not be able to change the past—but you can prepare for a better future by booking a session with one of our grief therapists. We look forward to hearing from you at Thriveworks San Diego, CA. 

Pricing & insurance

Our therapists accept most major insurance and we offer self-pay options too.
Learn more about pricing for therapy and counseling at Thriveworks.

Our therapists and counselors in San Diego accept 38 insurance plans

  • Adventist Health Associates | Employee Health Plan

  • Adventist Health Associates | Non-Employee Health Plan

  • Aetna

  • Alignment Health Plan

  • Anthem Blue Cross of California | Commercial

  • Anthem Blue Cross of California | Medicare Advantage

  • Blue Shield of California | BCBS

  • Blue Shield of California | Medicare Advantage

  • Carelon

  • Cigna | Evernorth

  • Compsych

  • Firefly Health Plan | Cigna PPO Network

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2525 Camino del Rio S Suite 301
San Diego, CA 92108-3717

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Thriveworks Counseling & Psychiatry San Diego is located near Camino del Rio S and Texas St, off I-8. It is right by the San Diego River and a short distance from the University Heights.

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