Long Beach Couples Counseling

Couples Counseling in Long Beach, CA—Establishing a Happy Relationship

Princess movies and fairytales make love look easy. In Hollywood and Disneyworld, everyone has a happy ending to their relationship. However, real life is very different. Real-world relationships take commitment and work. Becoming and being a couple is never as easy as finding the right frog to kiss. All couples experience ups and downs, and it is normal for relationships to lose their equilibrium at times. Unfortunately, there are no fairy God-mothers who can come to the rescue when this happens, but more and more, partners are going to couples therapy. Skilled counselors can often help couples reestablish equilibrium in their relationship.

There is no magic formula for having a great relationship, but skilled couples counselors frequently help partners work through common problems and find their happiness.

“I have my own high standards for what I want in a partner and how I want to be treated. I bring a lot to the table. I’m not talking about material things but what I have to offer as a person – love and loyalty and all the things that make a good relationship.” —Jennifer Lopez

The therapists and counselors at Thriveworks Long Beach offer couples counseling because we understand what a healthy relationship looks like and how to get there. When both partners are open and willing to change, many couples can improve their relationship.

Happy, Healthy Couples

Unrealistic pictures of happy couples are not just for princess movies and fairytales. Countless movies and TV shows depict romantic but impossible ideals for relationships. Many partners are committed to be a happy, healthy couple, but what does that mean? Here are a few characteristics of good relationships.

1. They are fully known to each other.
Happy couples do not withhold information. There are no secrets, and no one hides in a healthy relationship. Instead, each partner sees the other for who they are. They confide in each other, and share their secrets. Being open and vulnerable with each other bonds the couple together and builds intimacy.

2. They celebrate their differences.
No two partners have the same interests, talents, personalities, and experiences. Healthy couples acknowledge and even welcome these differences. Even partners who are relatively similar will experiences differences, but for most couples, differences can be a major issue because opposite attract. Healthy couples see their distinctions as a strength.

3. They are respectful, even when they are annoyed or when they disagree.
Everyone has annoying habits. Maybe one partner chews his dinner too loudly. Maybe she snores too loudly. Healthy couples to not let these little annoyances trip up their relationship. The same holds true for disagreements. Even when partners are at odds with each other, healthy couples maintain respect.

4. They have each other’s back.
Healthy couples support each other. Whether they are in public or private, they have each other’s best interest at the forefront. They know each other’s goals and dreams, and they help each other reach those milestones. Healthy couples refuse to hold each other back or put each other down.

5. They serve each other.
A healthy partnership inevitably involves sacrifice, and happy couples make that sacrifice willingly. They rarely speak of dividing the labor 50-50, but instead, committed partners are willing to do what is needed to help the other out, giving 100 percent. Healthy couples serve, often without complaining and without being asked.

6. They prioritize time together.
This may seem obvious, but healthy, happy couples fight for time together. Great relationships are not a fluke—they take work and time. Partners may even have to block out time on the calendar, but they are wiling to go to any lengths to be together. They often say, “no” to activities that would harm their relationship.

7. They keep their individuality within the relationship.
Being a couple does not mean that each partner’s unique interests, personality, and needs are erased. Healthy partners give each other space when needed. Partners are often refreshed when they to take time for themselves, maintain outside relationships, and tend to their own needs.

Couples Counseling at Thriveworks Long Beach

If you and your partner are considering reaching out for help, know that couples counseling has helped many people improve their relationship. There are many potential benefits of couples therapy. These are just two of the ways the therapists at Thriveworks Long Beach work on behalf of their clients for a healthier, happier relationship:

  • De-escalate tension. Tension can easily rise during conflict, and before they know it, partners are going after each other instead of the problem. Experienced couples counselors can often keep the tone neutral and the couple focused upon solving the issue.
  • Set a schedule for change. Certain adjustments may help couples more than others. Some changes need to take place now. Others should wait. Skilled couples therapists can help partners know how to prioritize those changes.

If going to couples counseling sounds like a good step forward for you and your partner, know that the therapists and counselors at Thriveworks Long Beach are ready to meet with you. When you contact our office, our scheduling specialists will answer your call and make your appointment. We offer evening and weekend sessions, and new clients often have their first appointment the day following their first call. We also work with many insurance companies and take many forms of insurance.

Being a happier, healthier couple is possible. We have helped many partners find the right path for their relationship. Call Thriveworks Long Beach today.

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