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Emily Kerschen

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What is your go-to approach for family therapy?

My go-to approach for helping people in family therapy is emotionally focused family therapy (EFFT). I prefer EFFT because it helps families develop a deeper understanding of each other's emotions, needs, and attachment styles. EFFT is a research-based approach that focuses on building a strong emotional connection between family members. It's based on the principles of adult attachment theory and emphasizes the importance of emotional regulation and empathy. In EFFT, I work with family members to identify and understand their emotional needs, and to develop effective communication strategies to meet those needs. This approach helps families create a safe and supportive environment where they can express themselves openly and honestly.One of the key benefits of EFFT is that it helps families develop a greater sense of empathy and understanding towards each other. By acknowledging and validating each other's emotions, family members can build stronger, more resilient relationships. EFFT is also highly effective in helping families navigate complex issues such as conflict, trauma, and attachment difficulties. By working together to develop a shared understanding of their emotions and needs, family members can find new ways to communicate and resolve conflicts. Some specific techniques I use in EFFT include:

  • Emotional labeling: This involves identifying and labeling the emotions that each family member is experiencing. This helps family members become more aware of their emotions and develop greater empathy for one another.
  • Emotional validation: This involves acknowledging and validating the emotions that each family member is experiencing. This helps family members feel heard and understood, and can help to reduce conflict and improve communication.
  • Attachment-focused exercises: These exercises are designed to help family members develop a deeper understanding of their attachment styles and needs. This can help them develop more effective communication strategies and improve their relationships.
Overall, EFFT is a powerful approach that can help families develop stronger, more resilient relationships by focusing on emotional connection and understanding.

What tools do you teach in family therapy?

Here are the tools I teach in family therapy:

  • Active listening: This involves fully focusing on the speaker, maintaining eye contact, and avoiding interrupting or judging. Active listening helps family members feel heard and understood, which can reduce conflict and improve communication.
  • Emotional labeling: This involves identifying and labeling the emotions that each family member is experiencing. Emotional labeling helps family members become more aware of their emotions and develop greater empathy for one another.
  • Emotional validation: This involves acknowledging and validating the emotions that each family member is experiencing. Emotional validation helps family members feel heard and understood, and can help to reduce conflict and improve communication.
  • Non-violent communication (NVC) skills: NVC is a communication model that emphasizes empathy, honesty, and understanding. I teach family members how to use NVC skills such as “I” statements, deep listening, and non-judgmental feedback to communicate effectively and resolve conflicts.
  • Problem-solving skills: This involves teaching family members how to identify problems, generate solutions, and evaluate the effectiveness of those solutions. Problem-solving skills can help family members develop a sense of autonomy and responsibility for solving problems.
  • Conflict resolution skills: This involves teaching family members how to resolve conflicts in a healthy and respectful manner. Conflict resolution skills include active listening, emotional validation, and non-violent communication.
  • Empathy-building exercises: These exercises are designed to help family members develop greater empathy for one another. Examples include role-playing, perspective-taking, and gratitude exercises.
  • Cognitive behavioral coping skills: This involves teaching family members how to identify and challenge negative thought patterns, and how to develop more positive coping skills. Cognitive behavioral coping skills can help family members manage stress and anxiety.
  • Mindfulness skills: This involves teaching family members how to be present in the moment, without judgment or distraction. Mindfulness skills can help family members develop greater self-awareness and emotional regulation.
  • Family meetings: Regular family meetings can help family members stay connected and communicate more effectively. I teach family members how to plan and facilitate productive family meetings.
  • These tools can help family members develop greater communication skills, empathy, and problem-solving skills, which can lead to improved relationships and a more positive home environment.

How do you know when a client is making meaningful progress in family therapy?

I know a client is making meaningful progress in family therapy when:

  • They demonstrate increased empathy and understanding towards each other: Family members are able to recognize and acknowledge each other's feelings, needs, and perspectives, leading to a more positive and supportive relationship.
  • They exhibit improved communication skills: Family members are able to express themselves effectively, listen actively, and respond constructively, leading to more effective conflict resolution and problem-solving.
  • They show increased collaboration and teamwork: Family members are able to work together more effectively, share responsibilities, and support each other's goals and values.
  • They report reduced conflict and increased harmony: Family members are able to manage conflicts more effectively, and there is an increase in positive interactions and affection towards each other.
  • They demonstrate increased self-awareness and emotional regulation: Family members are better able to recognize and manage their emotions, leading to a more stable and calm home environment.
  • They develop a stronger sense of attachment and connection: Family members are able to develop a deeper sense of attachment and connection with each other, leading to a greater sense of belonging and security.
  • They report increased problem-solving skills and independence: Family members are able to take on more responsibility for solving problems, making decisions, and taking care of themselves, leading to increased autonomy and self-efficacy.
  • They exhibit a greater sense of hope and optimism: Family members are more optimistic about their future, have a greater sense of hope, and are more positive about their relationships with each other.
In family therapy, progress is often measured by the changes in the family's dynamics, communication patterns, and overall relationships. As family members work through their issues and develop new skills, they may start to exhibit these changes in their behavior and interactions with each other. Progress can also be measured by the family members' self-reported improvements in their relationships, stress levels, and overall well-being.As a therapist, I work closely with the family to identify specific goals and outcomes that are important to them, and we regularly assess progress toward those goals. This helps us stay focused on what's working well and what areas need further attention. Overall, meaningful progress in family therapy is marked by significant changes in the family's relationships, communication patterns, and overall well-being.

What can clients do in their personal time to supplement family therapy?

Clients can supplement their time in family therapy with:

  • Homework assignments: Complete exercises, journaling, or other activities that are assigned by the therapist to practice new skills, work on specific issues, or build on progress made during sessions.
  • Practicing new skills: Regularly practice new skills or strategies learned in therapy, such as active listening, conflict resolution, or problem-solving, in their daily interactions with family members.
  • Reading and learning: Read books, articles, or online resources related to family therapy topics, such as communication, relationships, or parenting, to gain a better understanding of their issues and develop new insights.
  • Journaling and reflection: Regularly reflect on their thoughts, feelings, and experiences by writing in a journal, which can help them process emotions, gain clarity, and develop greater self-awareness.
  • Self-care and relaxation techniques: Engage in activities that promote relaxation and stress reduction, such as meditation, deep breathing, or yoga, to help manage emotions and improve overall well-being.
  • Communicating with family members: Make an effort to communicate regularly with family members outside of sessions, practicing new skills and strategies learned in therapy.
  • Setting goals and planning: Take time to reflect on their goals and priorities, making plans and setting achievable steps towards achieving them.
  • Seeking additional resources: Explore online resources, support groups, or community services that may be helpful in addressing specific issues or concerns.
  • Scheduling regular check-ins: Schedule regular check-ins with the therapist or other family members to maintain progress and address any new issues that may arise.
It's essential for clients to understand that family therapy is not a one-time fix, but rather a process that requires consistent effort and practice. Supplementing therapy sessions with personal activities can help reinforce progress and promote ongoing growth. Clients should also remember that personal time is not a replacement for therapy sessions but a way to augment their work in therapy. It's crucial to maintain regular sessions with the therapist to ensure ongoing support and guidance. By supplementing their therapy sessions with these activities, clients can make significant progress toward their goals and develop a stronger sense of well-being within their families.

What should someone do to prepare for starting family therapy?

To prepare for their first family therapy session, an individual can:

  • Schedule the session: Ensure that all family members agree to attend the session and schedule it at a convenient time for everyone.
  • Gather relevant information: Collect any relevant documents, such as medical records, school reports, or court documents, that may be helpful in understanding the family's situation.
  • Prepare a list of concerns: Write down the specific issues, concerns, and goals that each family member wants to address in therapy.
  • Identify the family's goals: Determine what each family member hopes to achieve through therapy, such as improved communication, reduced conflict, or better parenting skills.
  • Communicate with other family members: Discuss the importance of therapy with other family members and encourage them to come prepared to share their thoughts and feelings.
  • Set realistic expectations: Understand that therapy is a process that takes time and effort, and be prepared to make progress gradually.
  • Be honest and open: Come prepared to share your thoughts, feelings, and experiences openly and honestly with the therapist.
  • Respect the therapist's role: Understand that the therapist is a neutral third party who will guide the session and help facilitate communication.
It's essential to approach the first session with an open mind and a willingness to work together as a family. This can be a challenging but ultimately rewarding experience. Before the session, consider sharing any relevant information with the therapist in advance, such as a list of concerns or goals. This can help the therapist prepare for the session and make the most of the time.

Starting Family therapy

What is family therapy?

Family therapy helps families resolve conflicts and strengthen their relationships. It is led by qualified mental health professionals like psychologists, licensed professional counselors (LPCs), and licensed clinical social workers (LCSWs) who have extensive training in family dynamics and group communication.

How does family therapy work?

Thriveworks family therapists in Richmond, VA usually begin by asking what everyone’s goals are for family counseling. Family members may need help with very specific issues or with general relationship functioning. But there are three main purposes in family counseling: to educate, to counsel, and to strengthen. Thriveworks also offers online family therapy and in-person services, so you may all meet in an office together or join a video call from your home depending on everyone’s location and availability.

What is the most effective family therapy?

The most effective form of Family therapy will often depend on the family itself, as there are many types of family therapy for therapists to use as they see fit in order to best meet the needs of their clients. However, one of the most commonly used types of family therapy is structural family therapy (SFT). SFT focuses specifically on family dynamics and interactions, looking at how they shape the relationships and structure present in the family. It can be effectively used to treat a variety of concerns.

How do I know if my family needs therapy?

This answer often looks different to each family that starts family therapy. However, some signs that your family might need to consider family counseling include frequent fights or misunderstandings, constant tension, experiencing loss, behavioral issues, marital issues, divorce, and blended family issues, among others.

What is included in family therapy?

In family therapy, therapists will often start by asking questions and assessing individual and family dynamics. From there, they may employ therapeutic techniques such as structured family therapy, CBT, strategic family therapy, and more depending on the present concerns and conflicts. From there, a therapist will work to open lines of communication between family members and facilitate emotional healing and growth.

What is the success rate of family therapy?

Family therapy can be incredibly successful, with some studies reporting a success rate of almost 90% for improving participants’ emotional and mental health, and around 66% for improving their physical health.

Is family therapy conducted in person or online?

Thriveworks therapists in Richmond, VA offer both online family therapy and in-person family therapy. We encourage you to choose the option that works best for you.

How long does family therapy last?

Family therapy is usually short term and solution-focused, with most families accomplishing their goals in 12 sessions or fewer. However, it can also last for longer if the probles at hand are more complex — and that’s okay, too.

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Family Therapy in Richmond, VA (Shockoe Bottom)—Family Therapists and Counselors

We may love our family members, but that doesn’t mean these relationships are a piece of cake. Sometimes, we run into conflicts with family and struggle to maintain healthy relationships. This is perfectly normal, but sometimes resolving conflicts requires a little professional help. Fortunately, the family therapists and psychologists at Thriveworks Richmond, VA (Shockoe Bottom), specialize in helping families work through challenges and restore health and happiness in their relationships.

If your family could potentially benefit from working with a family therapist or psychologist, reach out to Thriveworks Richmond, VA (Shockoe Bottom) today. We partner with the best of the best: mental health professionals who have worked hard to gain skills, knowledge, and experience helping to restore and repair families. These family therapists are happy to offer you the guidance and support you need. Give us a call at (804) 980-7242 to schedule an appointment when you are ready.

What Exactly Is Family Therapy?

Family therapy is a type of therapy specifically designed to help families address a wide range of issues that they may experience. A family therapist’s ultimate goal is to improve familial relationships and the overall health of a family. Common problems that arise among family members include those that stem from major life transitions and the development of mental illnesses. In some cases, family therapy is supplementary, and in other cases it is the primary form of treatment.

Many types of families can benefit from family therapy, especially if they are in the middle of a stressful or taxing situation. Here are some common stressors and source of conflict that cause families to begin therapy:

  • Mental health issues like depression or addiction
  • The death of a loved one
  • A divorce or separation
  • Behavioral problems in children
  • Financial strain

The family therapists at Thriveworks Richmond, VA (Shockoe Bottom) would love to work with you and help to repair your relationships.

Are Family Therapists Qualified to Help?

Family therapy is led by licensed therapists: licensed marriage and family therapists (LMFTs) to be exact! These professionals have unique skills, training, and experience helping families. Other professionals—for example, social workers and psychologists—also utilize family therapy techniques if they have completed family therapy training.

This form of therapy is often short-term. Typically, families go for an average of 9 sessions. That said, sometimes families go for longer, as it depends on their needs and goals for therapy. In addition, every session can vary in terms of what you work on as well as who attends. Don’t worry, your Thriveworks Richmond, VA (Shockoe Bottom) family therapist will walk you through the process.

Schedule Family Therapy at Thriveworks Richmond, VA (Shockoe Bottom)

Is there a conflict that is a major stressor for your family? Are your closest relationships at risk? Consider working with a family therapist at Thriveworks Richmond, VA (Shockoe Bottom). One of our family experts will use their skills, knowledge, training, and experience to help you and your family members work through the conflict at hand.

To set up a family therapy appointment, give Thriveworks Richmond, VA (Shockoe Bottom) a call at (804) 980-7242. A scheduling specialist will assist you with the easy process, which will involve introducing you to our premium benefits. These benefits include extended hours, including evening and weekend sessions, as well as a flexible 23.5 hour cancellation policy. Additionally, we accept most major insurance plans.

We look forward to the opportunity to help you and your family build better relationships. Reach out to us when you’re ready to schedule a family therapy appointment or to hear more about our services.

Pricing & insurance

Our therapists accept most major insurances. We accept 585+ insurance plans, and offer self-pay options, too.
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Our Richmond therapists and counselors accept 30 insurance plans

  • Aetna

  • Anthem Blue Cross and Blue Shield Virginia Medicare Advantage

  • Anthem Blue Cross and Blue Shield Virginia | BCBS HMO

  • Anthem Blue Cross and Blue Shield Virginia | BCBS PPO

  • Anthem Blue Cross and Blue Shield Virginia | Exchange

  • Blue Cross Blue Shield | Anthem (Blue Card)

  • CareFirst Blue Cross and Blue Shield of Virginia | BCBS PPO

  • Carelon

  • Cigna | Evernorth

  • Cigna | Evernorth EAP

  • Cigna | Evernorth Medicare Advantage

  • Compsych

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Self-pay costs at Richmond
Talk therapy

Talk therapy

Includes individual, couples, child/ teen, & family therapy

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$1

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$1

Talk therapy

Psychiatry

Includes reducing symptoms with medication & management

First session

$1

Ongoing sessions

$1

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I had reached out to several therapists to find one that would fit. My therapist Noel, reached out and explained on what methods she uses to help with certain issues. She is a great fit for me and I am looking forward with working with her.
Read more I had reached out to several therapists to find one that would fit. My therapist Noel, reached out and explained on what methods she uses to help with certain issues. She is a great fit for me and I am looking forward with working with her.
Lynn Feb 2024
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She is absolutely the best and she makes my life so much better thank you very much!
Robert Jan 2024
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Ms Gooden is an excellent clinician, always very helpful and punctual. The office staff are always helpful and professional. I will recommend them to my family and friends
Read more Ms Gooden is an excellent clinician, always very helpful and punctual. The office staff are always helpful and professional. I will recommend them to my family and friends
Maria Jan 2024
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My husband and I are very pleased with our therapist, and she's not only Christian, but she is also knowledgeable, honest, direct, and committed to assist us in any way she possible can. She's introduced us to written and verbal exercises that have helped us better understand each other and ourselves. I whole Heartly recommend her and Thrivesworks.
Read more My husband and I are very pleased with our therapist, and she's not only Christian, but she is also knowledgeable, honest, direct, and committed to assist us in any way she possible can. She's introduced us to written and verbal exercises that have helped us better understand each other and ourselves. I whole Heartly recommend her and Thrivesworks.
Maria Dec 2023
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Natalie is an incredibly compassionate therapist who really takes the time and effort to help you towards healing and recovery. The help and guidance that she has provided for me has changed my life. She is truly great at what she does.
Read more Natalie is an incredibly compassionate therapist who really takes the time and effort to help you towards healing and recovery. The help and guidance that she has provided for me has changed my life. She is truly great at what she does.
Richmond Feb 2022
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Natalie makes me feel comfortable and is easy to talk to. She has helped me work through multiple triggers and highly recommend her if you need a trustworthy therapist.
Read more Natalie makes me feel comfortable and is easy to talk to. She has helped me work through multiple triggers and highly recommend her if you need a trustworthy therapist.
Richmond Feb 2022
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Ms. Shamika Pender has a great love for people and is full of knowledge and wisdom. She has assisted me on many occasions with locating resources for church and family members in need. She is a strong advocate for the community.
Read more Ms. Shamika Pender has a great love for people and is full of knowledge and wisdom. She has assisted me on many occasions with locating resources for church and family members in need. She is a strong advocate for the community.
Richmond Sep 2021
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Shamika Pender is an experienced Clinician who administers services with empathy and professionalism. There is no doubt that she will be an incredible asset to your agency.
Read more Shamika Pender is an experienced Clinician who administers services with empathy and professionalism. There is no doubt that she will be an incredible asset to your agency.
Richmond Sep 2021
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Thriveworks Counseling & Psychiatry Richmond is conveniently located in Shockoe Bottom at the intersection of N. 19th St. and E. Franklin. We share a building with The Superior Production Exchange and Uni Shippers. Across from us, on the other side of E. Franklin is Shockoe Center.

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