Coping with the loss of a friendship: How these connections evolve in adulthood and a counselor’s advice on allowing yourself to grieve by Jason Crosby | Aug 18, 2021 | Grief & Loss, Mental Health Topics, Relationships My dad is a psychologist—growing up, I remember him helping all types of people, from inmates prepping for parole to other children and teens who were having behavioral issues. As someone from a poor family and a rough area of Chicago, his life lessons were always insightful, if a little…
Bridesmaids, bachelorette parties, and healthy friendship boundaries: How to stay sane while maintaining wedding protocols by Wistar Murray | Aug 6, 2021 | Mental Health Topics, Relationships Weddings came back with a vengeance this summer, and let’s be honest: It had been kind of nice to see people elope for a while. So cheap. So quiet. So little pressure on friends and family. You could just send a gift instead of making small talk with strangers and…
Broken up by Heidi Faust, LCSW | Apr 13, 2021 | Ask a Therapist, Mental Health Topics, Relationships Q: MY EX BROKE UP WITH ME ALMOST 2 MONTHS AGO NOW. IT DIDNT END BAD WE JUST REALIZED WE WERE MORE FRIENDS THAN IN A RELATIONSHIP. HE SAID HE WASNT IN LOVE WITH ME ANYMORE SO WHY DO I STILL WANT SOMEONE THAT DOESNT WANT ME. WHY DO I…
Tough losses can lead to the dismantling of a relationship—here’s some advice for grieving together and making sure that doesn’t happen by Taylor Bennett | Oct 19, 2020 | Grief & Loss, Mental Health Topics, Relationships They say that when you grieve, you deny the reality of the situation. This isn’t happening, this can’t be happening. You also feel extremely angry. You direct this anger at your loved ones, maybe even the person you’ve lost. How could you do this to me? How could you leave…
The Gottman method: How does it work? How can it benefit my relationship? by Helen Massy | Oct 9, 2020 | Beginning Therapy, Mental Health Topics, Relationships Every relationship runs into conflict: Sometimes we’re able to work through these conflicts quickly and effectively, but in some instances, we struggle to find that common ground. When conflicts are left unresolved, this can prove extremely stressful and have many negative effects on the relationship. External influences can also have…
Wife appreciation: 5 easy ways to spoil your spouse and show them how much you care by Madison Bambini | Sep 18, 2020 | Mental Health Topics, Relationships When we find that special someone in life, it’s like fireworks go off and our missing puzzle piece falls into place. When you’re in the honeymoon phase of your marriage, you feel like you’re on cloud nine and shower each other with love and affection. However, it’s easy to lose…
Divorce burnout: Effects on divorcees and their future relationships by Venchele Saint Dic | Aug 27, 2020 | Mental Health Topics, Relationships, Stress The sorrow felt when reading about the number of divorces leaves you with nothing short of blaring emotions. Divorce leaves you drained in an uphill battle without end with dried air in your lungs. During the pandemic, it has been difficult for singles to engage in face-to-face interactions. Social engagement…
10 reasons why you need divorce mediation before signing by Kristie Wright | Aug 21, 2020 | Mental Health Topics, Relationships Divorce is not a one-size-fits-all process, and there are different ways to approach it. Couples need to consider their well-being when ending a marriage, and how best to handle the legal implications. Mediation offers numerous advantages when looking to keep things amicable and move forward swiftly. Complete the legal side…
The Gottman Method improves marital stability: Here’s how it can help you and your spouse keep your marriage alive by Madison Bambini | Aug 13, 2020 | Beginning Therapy, Mental Health Topics, Relationships Let’s face it: relationships are hard sometimes. Once the honeymoon phase passes, everyday things like chores around the house, how late you get home from work, and whose turn it is to walk the dog become bigger feats than they need to be. The spark that brought you together is…
How do you support a friend who has been discriminated against? (Video) by Taylor Bennett | Jul 20, 2020 | Mental Health Topics, Race & Identity, Relationships Hello. My name is Yvette Lopez and I’m a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with Thriveworks. The question has been asked, “How do you support a friend who has been discriminated against?” The number one thing that your friend will probably be looking for is for you to listen, provide that…
What should I do if I think a loved one is prejudiced? (Video) by Taylor Bennett | Jul 6, 2020 | Mental Health Topics, Race & Identity, Relationships Hello. I am Hélène Diop with Thriveworks, Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor. So today I will attempt to answer the following question: “What should I do if a loved one is prejudiced?” So first, I will say, reevaluate “What does it mean to be prejudiced?” Also, making sure that you don’t…
Online Counseling Question: How do I stop being jealous and insecure in my relationship? (Video) by Taylor Bennett | May 4, 2020 | Feelings & Emotions, Mental Health Topics, Relationships Click here to schedule online counseling at Thriveworks. Hi, my name is Dr. Sheila Campbell and I’m a Licensed Professional Counselor with Thriveworks in Decatur, Georgia. Thank you for this opportunity to answer a question posed by a community member. The question that I’m answering today is, “How do I…