A Canadian couple almost broke the Internet this past week when they decided to share an unusually happy occasion. Shannon and Chris Neuman decided to take a selfie outside the courthouse after they signed the official paperwork for divorce. Both individuals are smiling and have a positive outlook on their disintegrated marriage. With over 37,000 shares and hundreds of likes and a trend following, what does this mean for divorce’s incredibly negative stereotype?
Can divorce be a happy occasion? Or is it best to stick with the more traditional “a divorce is a death to be grieved” philosophy? Whatever camp you find yourself on the topic, it’s let’s agree to consider the following when couples are considering separating for good.
Coping Mechanisms Vary
No matter how delighted people seem when their marriage has ended (and some might be truly ecstatic) everyone deals with new life changes differently. Some people lash out. Others close themselves off. Others go wild. Some travel the world and write a memoir called Eat Pray Love. Coping mechanisms vary. Getting a divorce is a major life change. Every person will handle this change in their own way and go through a various set of emotions. The divorce selfie couple showed that it might be possible to have a calm, clean break. Their example is enviable for those currently going through the divorce process.
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