For some reason there is this horrible misconception in society today that going to couples counseling means that the end of one’s marriage looms large. But realistically, we all know this is no truer about a marriage than it is to say that just because a person visits an accountant they are on the verge of bankruptcy.
We all know that this simply isn’t true in life. While, indeed, many couples do seek couples counseling to help them overcome problems, many also seek counseling so that they can move their good marriage or romantic partnership into a great one. So they can be better equipped to address latent problems that may be festering, or even perhaps to maintain an already healthy relationship. Frankly, both reasons should be applauded.
If you are in the Detroit area and you think you and your partner could benefit from couples therapy, consider reaching out to Thriveworks Birmingham, MI.
Thriveworks Birmingham Couples Counseling Will Help You Confront the Problem
At Thriveworks Birmingham in Oakland County, MI, our couples counselors and psychologists can help you and your spouse cut straight to the source of whatever the problem may be, not just treat the symptoms. Whether that problem or hindrance in your marriage is seemingly talking past each other, maybe looking for things to fight about, a breached trust, competing careers, or perhaps insecurity about the past or future — a Thriveworks couples counselor near Detroit can help.
The fact of the matter is you’re not alone in struggling with addressing these problems in your marriage. Indeed, these are among the most common reasons for strife and divorce in modern marriages. But as much as these are truly common problems, for no couple is immune from difficulty — they are all solvable problems.
Perhaps you and your partner are plagued by some other problem. It may be something as simple as needing help developing a parenting strategy, or it may be something unspeakable. The point is, that no matter the problem you may have or the depth of despair you feel, you can overcome it; and a Thriveworks Birmingham counselor can help you do it.
It’s not that your problem isn’t serious; it’s that with the help of a couples counselor, whatever you are struggling with can be overcome. Simply put, you’re not alone in whatever you are struggling with, so you shouldn’t have identify and overcome them by yourself either.
If we honestly assess our relationships, there isn’t one among us who wouldn’t realize that there is room for improvement, growth, and development. Now, of course it’s a lot easier to stay right where we are in our comfortable patterns of bad habits and act like our relationships aren’t being stifled or hindered — to just sweep the problem under the rug. You and your spouse might even have some unspoken agreement to not mention whatever the problem is. But if we are honest with ourselves, we all know that that isn’t right, and that we aren’t happy with the status quo.
The truth is it takes courage to admit that relationships aren’t easy. And even more to actually act on that admission. But oh, how sweet the reward of simple, open communication. The path to growth is never easy — and it may be full of apparently daunting obstacles. But just like everything else in life, our relationship problems can be easily overcome if we rely on a trustworthy guide.
We Can Guide You to a Fulfilling Relationship
This is exactly what we offer here at Thriveworks. All of our Thriveworks Birmingham couples counselors or licensed professionals ready to guide you around and through the obstacles that might stand in your way to a more fulfilling relationship. They can help you grow; help you better understand your partner; help you thrive together in a professional, non-confrontational environment with expert counsel.
Marital problems can all be overcome with good communication, and a capable guide. Our couples counselors are ready to help and guide you through whatever marital problem you might be sweeping under the rug. We know those obstacles might seem daunting, but our counselors are ready to help you through them.
Helping a relationship flourish may look different for everyone, but a Thriveworks counselor in the Detroit area can help you overcome it — whether it looks like one of the following or something completely different:
- Learn to identify and understand the source of your relationship problems
- To teach you how to listen, communicate, and respect each other’s feelings
- To help you honestly express yourself in an environment of trust
- Developing new methods of communication between you and your spouse
- Addressing deep-seeded psychological issues or addictions that may be damaging your relationship
You can overcome it and grow from it.
We Are Eager to Help
Now, that might sound overwhelming, to be sure. But here at Thriveworks Birmingham couples counseling, we understand that you might feel intimidated or discouraged by your significant other. It may seem as if all hope is lost, or that change is impossible. Or perhaps you’ve tried just talking with your spouse or partner about your concerns and feelings, and nothing has changed. You might even feel most alone in your relationship. That can all end now. We have counselors standing by to help you that will meet with you within 24 hours. Our philosophy is if you’re ready to make your relationship better, we’re ready to help you.
At Thriveworks, we understand the trials and despair that can come with a relationship. And that’s what makes us different. We won’t simply ask, “How do you feel about that?” Our counselors are active — passive listeners — will help you develop a strategy and participate in your victories! Every marriage and romantic partnership is unique and consequently every marital problem is equally unique, and we will help you craft a healthy, individual solution to help you find the joy and contentment you are looking for. At Thriveworks, we focus on what works for you — what helps you overcome what is difficult for you so you can have a fulfilling future.
Growth is Easier Than You Think
Going to a couples counselor or psychologist doesn’t mean the end of your marriage is impending. Rather, it can signify a new beginning, the strength to overcome — to thrive.
Help is just a phone call or email away — we have appointments available immediately. Your struggle can end today. Let us help you create the healthy, respectful, loving, and flourishing relationship that you both need and want. Let us help you create the happiness you and your spouse long for — the happiness you deserve.
The way we see it, if you are ready to move forward, we are ready to be your guide. Now is the time.
We now accept all major insurance plans. If you are in the Detroit area and you’re searching for couples therapy, consider reaching out. Call us today to schedule an appointment at 248-686-3347.