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Starting Emotional abuse counseling

What is emotional abuse counseling?

Emotional abuse counseling helps victims heal from abusive relationships. Examples of emotional abuse may include:

  • Blaming others for their own behavior.
  • Publicly mocking, humiliating, name-calling, embarrassing, criticizing.
  • Separating someone from their family and friends.
  • Withholding affection or love.
  • Downplaying another person’s experiences, perspectives, emotions, or thoughts.
  • Using or objectifying people.
  • Denying access to money, medical care, food, transportation, or other crucial resources.
  • Using guilt, threats, or intimidation.

How does emotional abuse counseling work?

Emotional abuse counseling with our Thriveworks therapists in Boston gives people the safe space they need to identify and understand the harm they’ve experienced and move forward. Through therapy, many victims have rebuilt their self-esteem and self-worth; recognized that they did not cause the abuse, but their perpetrator is responsible for the choice to harm; identified their wounds and found the treatment they need; healed from trauma; re-established their personal safety; grieved their losses; formed new, loving relationships; and learned to trust their experiences and emotions.

Is emotional abuse counseling conducted in person or online?

Emotional abuse counseling at Thriveworks is conducted both in person and online by video. We encourage you to choose the option that works best for you.

How long does emotional abuse counseling last?

Emotional abuse counseling with one of our Thriveworks therapists in Boston, MA can last for a few weeks, months, or longer, depending on the individual’s exact needs and preferences.

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Counseling for Emotional Abuse in Boston, MA—Counselors and Therapists

When someone is in an emotionally abusive relationship, they may feel…

  • Afraid of the other person.
  • Anxious about when the next outburst will occur.
  • That they cannot do anything right or good enough.
  • Unable to express their real thoughts and feelings.
  • A lost sense of self.
  • Helpless and/or depressed.
  • Responsible for how they are being treated.
  • Crazy.

Emotional abuse can happen in a marriage, between intimate partners, among friends, from parents to children, in a religious setting, at work, and more. If you or someone you love is in an emotionally abusive relationship, there are many resources available, and some of the best are psychological interventions. Thriveworks Boston offers counseling to help people recover from emotional abuse. Our therapists understand the challenges that people face as they come out of emotionally abusive relationships, and we prioritize their safety and healing. Reach out today for help.

Signs of Emotional Abuse

When people consistently engage in the following behavior toward others, then they may be emotionally abusive…

  1. Publicly humiliating, mocking, embarrassing, name-calling, or criticizing.
  2. Ignoring or belittling another’s opinions and emotions.
  3. Objectifying people.
  4. Using threats, intimidation, or guilt to get what they want.
  5. Displaying excessive jealousy or possessiveness.
  6. Gaslighting.
  7. Moodiness and bursts of anger.
  8. Harming, destroying, or disposing of another’s possessions without permission.
  9. Limiting another’s access to money, transportation, food, health care, or other vital resources.
  10. Falsely accusing.
  11. Withholding love to control another.
  12. Isolating another from other loved ones.
  13. Refusing to accept responsibility for their own actions.

The goal of any kind of abuse is almost always control, and with emotional abuse, feelings are the tools an abuser uses to gain that control over another. Manipulations like gaslighting erode a person’s sense of self so that the abuse can dominate the victim’s life. Healthy relationships promote freedom instead of control, and emotional abuse comes with a host of potential severe consequences for its victims. Anyone who has experience emotional abuse or seen a loved one suffer knows that the effects of emotional abuse are destructive. Victims often suffer with anxiety, fear, depression, hyper-vigilance, suicidal thoughts, psychosomatic pain, substance abuse, and more.

Healing from Emotional Abuse

The toll of emotional abuse is acute, but recovery is possible. Healing from any kind of abuse is a long-term process, and often, people need professional help. With a skilled therapist by their side, many people have recovered from abuse and learned…

  • They are not the problem.
  • The harm was real and deep.
  • Healing from trauma is difficult but possible.
  • How to prioritize their personal safety.
  • Grief is part of recovery.
  • It is possible to love again.
  • They have a voice and a unique self.

Scheduling Counseling for Emotional Abuse at Thriveworks Boston

If you have experienced emotional abuse from a partner, spouse, parent, friend, or anyone, know that you did not deserve this treatment. The abuse was not your fault, and you are worthy of kindness, respect, and love. Thriveworks Boston understands the destruction emotional abuse can cause, and we have walked with many people as they heal. We consider it an honor to help our clients regain their identity, dreams, and value.

If you schedule counseling at Thriveworks Boston, we want you to feel valued from the first time you dial our office. A person will answer your call and help you schedule an appointment. We accept many forms of insurance, and our counselors offer evening and weekend appointments. Many first-time clients meet with their therapists within the week of their call. We are here for support, guidance, and encouragement. Call today.

Pricing & insurance

Our therapists accept most major insurances. We accept 585+ insurance plans, and offer self-pay options, too.
Learn more about pricing for therapy and counseling services at Thriveworks.

Our Boston therapists and counselors accept 23 insurance plans

  • Aetna

  • Blue Cross Blue Shield of Massachusetts | BCBS Medicare Advantage (HMO | PPO)

  • Blue Cross Blue Shield | Anthem (Blue Card)

  • Blue Cross and Blue Shield of Massachusetts | BCBS

  • Carelon

  • Carelon | Medicare Advantage

  • Cigna | Evernorth

  • Compsych

  • Fallon Health | Medicare Advantage

  • Firefly Health Plan | Cigna PPO Network

  • First Health Network

  • Harvard Pilgrim

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Hear from our clients

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I love when I called I got a quick response and was set up with someone that fit what I needed the services for I was matched
Martha Apr 2025
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I've had the privilege of working with Kirsten Lowell at ThriveWorks, and I can truly say she is a one-of-a-kind therapist. As someone working in a demanding healthcare role, self-care isn't optional—it's essential. And for me, that means therapy.. . Kirsten has been an incredible guide on my mental health journey. Her unique ability to balance professionalism with genuine, heartfelt care is unmatched. She listens with empathy, speaks with insight, and creates a space that feels safe, supportive, and empowering. Her openness and authenticity have allowed me to be vulnerable, while her wisdom has helped me navigate life's complexities with more clarity and confidence.. . I've recommended many friends and colleagues to ThriveWorks because of Kirsten, and I proudly call her my 'talk doctor'—because with Kirsten, it's not just therapy, it's transformation. If you're looking for someone who truly sees you, supports you, and helps you grow, Kirsten Lowell is it!
Read more I've had the privilege of working with Kirsten Lowell at ThriveWorks, and I can truly say she is a one-of-a-kind therapist. As someone working in a demanding healthcare role, self-care isn't optional—it's essential. And for me, that means therapy.. . Kirsten has been an incredible guide on my mental health journey. Her unique ability to balance professionalism with genuine, heartfelt care is unmatched. She listens with empathy, speaks with insight, and creates a space that feels safe, supportive, and empowering. Her openness and authenticity have allowed me to be vulnerable, while her wisdom has helped me navigate life's complexities with more clarity and confidence.. . I've recommended many friends and colleagues to ThriveWorks because of Kirsten, and I proudly call her my 'talk doctor'—because with Kirsten, it's not just therapy, it's transformation. If you're looking for someone who truly sees you, supports you, and helps you grow, Kirsten Lowell is it!
Kara Apr 2025
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Kirsten personalizes my therapeutic experience to maximize growth and confidence.
Amanda Apr 2025
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I really enjoy working with Katie, she helps me work through the grief of losing my brother last year, and everything going on in the world this year.
Angela Apr 2025
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amanda kanter has been the best person to work with for the past few years!
Alyssa Apr 2025
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Helen Phoenix is exceptional!
Kristina Apr 2025
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I love my therapist. The thriveworks process made it so easy to switch to find my right fit and it was so easy/helpful.
Caitlin Apr 2025
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My therapist has taken the time to understand me. I am able to speak about myself openly without fear of judgement or not being heard. She also helps me discover my own values naturally and recognize the progress I've made despite any frustrations I experience along the way.
Read more My therapist has taken the time to understand me. I am able to speak about myself openly without fear of judgement or not being heard. She also helps me discover my own values naturally and recognize the progress I've made despite any frustrations I experience along the way.
Michael Apr 2025
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Where to find us

Getting here

Thriveworks Counseling & Psychiatry Boston is located at the corner of Emerson Place and Blossom Street, inside the Emerson Place Apartments building. We are located on the opposite side of Route 3 from the Charles River and Lederman Park. Across the street, on the opposite side of Blossom Street, you will find the Mass General Hospital complex.

Phone number

(617) 397-3951

Languages spoken by MA providers

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