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Logan Spicer

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What is your go-to approach for grief & loss counseling?

My go-to approach for helping people in grief & loss counseling is a person-centered and integrative approach that incorporates elements of narrative therapy and mindfulness-based interventions. I prefer this approach because it honors the unique experiences and needs of each individual while providing practical tools for coping with the grieving process. Person-centered therapy forms the foundation of my approach, as it emphasizes empathy, unconditional positive regard, and authenticity in the therapeutic relationship. By creating a safe and non-judgmental space, clients feel supported and validated as they explore their thoughts, feelings, and experiences related to their loss.Narrative therapy techniques are utilized to help clients construct and make sense of their personal narratives of loss. By externalizing the problem and separating the person from the problem, clients can gain a new perspective on their grief and begin to identify strengths and resources for coping and resilience. Mindfulness-based interventions are integrated to help clients cultivate present-moment awareness and self-compassion as they navigate the grieving process. Mindfulness practices such as meditation, deep breathing, and body scans can help clients manage overwhelming emotions, reduce rumination, and increase acceptance of their experience.Additionally, I draw upon a range of therapeutic modalities and techniques, including cognitive-behavioral strategies for managing grief-related thoughts and behaviors, expressive arts therapies for exploring emotions and memories, and existential approaches for addressing questions of meaning and purpose in the face of loss. By combining these approaches, I aim to provide comprehensive support to individuals experiencing grief and loss, empowering them to navigate their unique journey of healing and transformation.

What tools do you teach in grief & loss counseling?

In grief & loss counseling, I teach the following tools:

  • Emotional expression techniques: Clients learn various techniques for expressing and processing their emotions related to the loss, such as journaling, art therapy, or writing letters to the deceased. These activities provide a creative outlet for exploring and releasing pent-up feelings.
  • Mindfulness and relaxation exercises: Clients practice mindfulness techniques, such as meditation, deep breathing, or progressive muscle relaxation, to cultivate present-moment awareness and reduce stress and anxiety associated with grief. These exercises promote relaxation and emotional regulation.
  • Cognitive restructuring: Clients learn to identify and challenge unhelpful thoughts and beliefs about their loss, such as feelings of guilt or self-blame. By reframing their thinking, clients can develop more adaptive coping strategies and reduce distressing thoughts.
  • Grief education: Clients receive psychoeducation about the grieving process, including common reactions to loss, the stages of grief, and normalizing experiences of grief. Understanding that grief is a natural and individualized process can help clients feel validated and less alone in their journey.
  • Coping skills development: Clients learn practical coping skills for managing grief-related stressors and triggers, such as establishing self-care routines, setting boundaries, and seeking social support. These skills empower clients to navigate the challenges of grief more effectively.
  • Narrative therapy techniques: Clients explore and reconstruct their personal narratives of loss, using techniques such as externalization, re-authoring, and witnessing. By reframing their stories, clients can find new meaning and hope in their experiences of loss.
  • Memory preservation activities: Clients engage in activities to honor and preserve the memory of their loved one, such as creating memory books, compiling photo albums, or participating in memorial rituals. These activities provide opportunities for reflection and connection with the deceased.
  • Supportive resources: Clients are connected with community resources, support groups, or online forums where they can connect with others who have experienced similar losses. These resources offer validation, encouragement, and solidarity in the grieving process.
By teaching these tools in grief & loss counseling, clients are equipped with a range of strategies for coping with their grief, finding meaning in their experiences, and ultimately moving toward healing and adaptation.

How do you know when a client is making meaningful progress in grief & loss counseling?

I know a client is making meaningful progress in grief & loss counseling when several key indicators are observed. Firstly, there is a noticeable reduction in the intensity and frequency of their grief symptoms, such as overwhelming sadness, intrusive thoughts, or difficulty functioning in daily life. Clients may report feeling more capable of managing their emotions and coping with the challenges of grief.Additionally, clients demonstrate increased resilience and adaptive coping strategies in response to their loss. They may show greater flexibility in their thinking and behavior, finding new ways to navigate the challenges and changes that come with grief. Clients may also express a greater sense of acceptance and integration of their loss into their lives, recognizing that while the pain of grief may never fully go away, they can still find meaning and joy in life.Furthermore, there is evidence of growth and transformation in clients' personal narratives of loss. They may begin to reframe their experiences in more positive or empowering ways, finding new insights, strengths, and sources of resilience in their journey of grief. Clients may also demonstrate increased engagement in activities that bring them comfort, pleasure, and connection with others, signaling a renewed sense of purpose and vitality in their lives.Moreover, clients show greater openness and willingness to explore their grief experiences in therapy, sharing their thoughts, feelings, and memories with increased vulnerability and authenticity. They may express a deeper sense of trust and connection with their therapist, feeling supported and understood as they navigate their grief journey.Ultimately, meaningful progress in grief & loss counseling is characterized by a combination of symptom reduction, increased resilience and adaptive coping, growth and transformation in personal narratives of loss, and greater openness and engagement in the therapeutic process. These indicators suggest that clients are moving towards healing, integration, and a renewed sense of meaning and purpose in their lives despite the pain of their loss.

What can clients do in their personal time to supplement grief & loss counseling?

Clients can supplement their time in grief & loss counseling with various activities and practices to support their healing process outside of therapy sessions. Firstly, engaging in self-care activities, such as exercise, mindfulness practices, and relaxation techniques, can help clients manage stress, reduce anxiety, and promote emotional well-being. These activities provide opportunities for self-nurturing and self-compassion during times of grief.Additionally, clients may find solace in creative expression, such as journaling, art therapy, or music therapy. These outlets offer a means of processing and expressing complex emotions related to grief, providing a sense of release and catharsis. Seeking support from family, friends, or support groups can also be beneficial. Connecting with others who have experienced similar losses can provide validation, understanding, and a sense of solidarity in the grieving process. Sharing memories, stories, and emotions with loved ones can foster connection and support, easing the burden of grief.Engaging in meaningful rituals or practices to honor the memory of the deceased can also be comforting. This may include visiting a memorial site, celebrating special anniversaries or holidays in remembrance, or creating a memorial tribute in their honor. These rituals offer opportunities for reflection, connection, and continued bonds with the deceased. Furthermore, practicing self-compassion and patience with oneself is essential. Grief is a natural and individualized process that takes time to navigate. Allowing oneself to experience the full range of emotions associated with grief, without judgment or self-criticism, is an important aspect of healing.Finally, seeking professional support from other sources, such as grief support groups, bereavement counselors, or spiritual advisors, can provide additional resources and guidance in the grief journey. These supports offer specialized expertise and a safe space to explore and process grief in a supportive community setting. By actively engaging in these supplemental activities and practices outside of grief & loss counseling sessions, clients can enhance their coping skills, promote emotional healing, and foster resilience as they navigate the complexities of grief.

What should someone do to prepare for starting grief & loss counseling?

To prepare for their first grief & loss counseling session, an individual can take several steps to ensure a productive and supportive experience. Firstly, it may be helpful for the individual to take some time to reflect on their experiences of grief and loss, including the circumstances of the loss, their emotional reactions, and any challenges or concerns they may be facing. Writing down their thoughts, feelings, and memories related to the loss can provide a helpful starting point for discussion in therapy.Additionally, the individual may want to consider setting specific goals or intentions for their counseling journey. These goals may include processing emotions, gaining insights into their grief experience, developing coping strategies, or finding ways to honor and remember their loved one. Having clarity about what they hope to achieve from counseling can help guide the therapeutic process and ensure that sessions are focused and meaningful.Furthermore, it may be beneficial for the individual to familiarize themselves with the counseling process and what to expect during sessions. This can include learning about different therapeutic approaches to grief counseling, understanding the role of the therapist, and becoming familiar with common therapeutic techniques and interventions used in grief counseling.Lastly, the individual may want to create a supportive and comfortable environment for their counseling sessions. This may involve finding a quiet and private space where they can engage in therapy without distractions or interruptions, as well as ensuring that they have access to any materials or resources they may need, such as tissues, water, or a journal.By proactively preparing for their first grief & loss counseling session in this way, individuals can set a positive foundation for their therapeutic journey and maximize the potential for healing, growth, and transformation in their grief process.

Starting Grief & loss counseling

What type of counseling is needed when a person cannot get over the grief of losing a loved one?

Grief and loss counseling helps people grieve difficult losses including the death of a loved one, the loss of a job, or the end of a relationship. It helps people navigate their grief process and eventually accept, understand, and move forward from their loss. Thriveworks grief therapists in Chicago, IL have specific experience, training, and skills that enable them to best support grieving individuals.

How does grief and loss counseling work?

Grief and loss counseling isn’t one-size-fits-all, but it involves sharing about your loss and then working with your counselor to acknowledge and accept your new reality in its wake. Your provider at Thriveworks in Chicago, IL will design your treatment plan around your unique needs and goals for therapy, applying the counseling techniques that best support them.

Signs I should seek grief counseling

If you have recently experienced an event like the death of a loved one, a breakup or divorce, the loss of a job, or another major life change, then you may want to seek grief and loss counseling. Grief can be caused by many experiences and events, so if you feel that you are having trouble moving on from a certain event or find that it is still impacting your life and functioning, grief and loss counseling can help you process it more effectively so that you can move on and once again find fulfillment and satisfaction in your life.

What counseling theory is best for grief?

There are many counseling theories for treating grief, one of the most frequently used being the dual process model of grief which helps people acknowledge who or what they’ve lost through rumination while also adjusting to the new roles and identities that this loss has now placed on them. There are also many commonly used therapy approaches used in grief and loss counseling, including Cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), Acceptance and commitment therapy (ACT), and traumatic grief therapy.

Is grief counseling conducted in person or online?

Grief & loss counseling at Thriveworks is conducted both in person and online by video. We encourage you to choose the option that works best for you.

How long does grief counseling last?

For many, grief and loss counseling lasts for about 6 months. For others, it may last shorter or longer, depending on the severity of their loss and their grief.

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Thriveworks Counseling & Psychiatry Chicago is at the corner of West Chicago Avenue and North Halsted. We are near City Church Chicago, and Jerk Jamaican Barbecue.

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