How to forgive yourself: 7 tips on how to deal with guilt and let go by Anthony Centore, PhD | Sep 19, 2024 | Feelings & Emotions, Mental Health Topics, Self-Improvement “Forgive yourself. Let it go. Forget about it. Move on.” They’re easy phrases to say, but so much harder to actually do. We all mess up sometimes, whether it’s lashing out at a friend, engaging in self-destructive behavior, or cutting corners at work. Those mistakes often come with overwhelming feelings…
Why are men less likely to talk about their feelings? by Sarah Barness | Sep 17, 2024 | Feelings & Emotions, Men's Issues, Mental Health Topics There is a common misconception that men don’t have feelings—or, at least, not to the same degree as women. In reality, we all experience a wide range of feelings. We feel happy, sad, angry, frustrated, heartbroken, scared, betrayed, and the list goes on. However, men are often less likely to…
Retroactive jealousy in relationships: What it is, plus causes and treatments by Alexandra Cromer, LPC | Aug 30, 2024 | Feelings & Emotions, Mental Health Topics, Relationships We all get jealous occasionally—but retroactive jealousy can make someone start obsessing over their partner’s romantic past. Retroactive jealousy, also known as Rebecca syndrome, can be so intense that it can derail a person’s relationship, mental health, and ability to trust others. Although this type of relationship anxiety can warp…
11 Tips to Stop Missing Someone by Jason Crosby | Aug 21, 2024 | Feelings & Emotions, Grief & Loss, Mental Health Topics When our loved ones are away, there can be times when we miss them so much it hurts. We reminisce about having them near and recall the times we shared. But in some situations, the relationship just… ends. Whether it’s due to death, a breakup or divorce, military service, or…
Why do I hate my parents and what should I do about it? by Taylor Bennett | Aug 7, 2024 | Family, Feelings & Emotions, Mental Health Topics Many people have close relationships with their parents — in fact, some consider their mother or father their best friend. But that isn’t always the case. There’s a less fortunate narrative: Some people hate their parents. They don’t just lack that connection or disagree with their parents from time to…
Unraveling cognitive distortions: A guide to clearer thinking by Theresa Lupcho, LPC | Jun 17, 2024 | Feelings & Emotions, Mental Health Topics Cognitive distortions are inaccurate thoughts that we believe to be rational but only serve to perpetuate negative thought patterns and behaviors—ones that often make us feel bad about ourselves. Because cognitive distortions are the backbone of negative thinking and emotions, cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) focuses on helping patients change these…
Understanding and overcoming inferiority complex issues by Alexandra Cromer, LPC | Apr 23, 2024 | Coping Skills, Feelings & Emotions, Mental Health Topics, Personality An inferiority complex refers to someone’s unrealistic perceptions of their inadequacy. While it can be a symptom of certain mental health conditions, inferiority complexes aren’t recognized in the DSM-5 but are still a mental health concern for many everyday people. Learn the truth about inferiority complexes below, including the signs,…
Delusions of grandeur: A look at the nature of false beliefs and grandiosity by Evan Csir, LPC | Apr 6, 2024 | Feelings & Emotions, Mental Health Topics, Personality While high self-esteem and soaring self-confidence are usually considered admirable traits, when delusions of grandeur set in, it’s often a cause for concern. Though delusions of grandeur may sometimes be a symptom of a mental health condition, these elevated self-perceptions can be visible even without a pre-existing condition. Take a…
What are abandonment issues? Causes, symptoms, and how to overcome them by Alexandra Cromer, LPC | Feb 21, 2024 | Feelings & Emotions, Mental Health Topics, Relationships Few other psychological conditions affect an individual’s ability to function quite like abandonment issues. Often formed in response to a traumatic or neglectful childhood experience, abandonment issues can wreak havoc on the emotional and external lives of both children and adults who struggle to see their own value and to…
Self-loathing: Why does it develop, and how do we heal? by Laura Harris, LCMHC | Feb 2, 2024 | Feelings & Emotions, Mental Health Topics Loving yourself is an important, and sometimes incredibly difficult, part of life. It often takes constant effort to stay positive and confident about who we are, and sometimes, the doubt and uncertainty win. Self-loathing is an intense and deeply-rooted feeling that builds over time, and can be caused by negative…
What is a guilt complex? by Laura Harris, LCMHC | Jan 25, 2024 | Feelings & Emotions, Mental Health Topics Guilt can be a tool for growth, but it can also be erosive and paralyzing when it’s felt too much. Sometimes, people can experience guilt for situations or events that aren’t their fault, or even have nothing to do with them. In some cases, this can be due to something…
I hate people: Is that normal? Causes, treatments, and shifting our perspectives by Laura Harris, LCMHC | Dec 22, 2023 | Feelings & Emotions, Mental Health Topics, Relationships Is it normal to harbor such intense animosity towards others? It is—occasionally. Hate, with its corrosive nature, defies normalcy in its consuming grip, demanding a toll on both mind and body. This sentiment, characterized by intense malevolent feelings, often stems from perceived threats, chronic disappointment, or deep offense. However, navigating…