How long is too long to stay in a relationship? Follow these 3 steps to determine the viability of your relationship by Dan Tamasulo, PhD | Dec 13, 2019 | Mental Health Topics, Relationships Personally, I’ve contributed to a daily blog called “Ask the Therapist” for nearly 10 years. Each month, around 2,500 questions are submitted by people all across the world. The problems submitted deal with a wide variety of issues, some extremely heartbreaking. I’ve had questions from a young woman in the…
How-to overcome trust issues in your relationship (Video) by Taylor Bennett | Nov 27, 2019 | Relationships Do you feel insecure when your partner looks at or talks with others? Are you convinced that they’re going to betray you? Are you just waiting to be let down? If you answered yes, you might have trust issues. Here are 4 tips to overcome these issues before they dismantle…
My parents don’t approve of my boyfriend, or want him around for Christmas by Anthony Centore, PhD | Nov 22, 2019 | Ask a Therapist, Mental Health Topics, Relationships My parents do not approve of my relationship. I am 23 years old and I have lived with my boyfriend (who I plan to marry) since February 2019. Since then, I am constantly getting told that this was a bad decision and I am constantly being asked by my parents…
Tips for befriending coworkers at a new job: Remember names, look for opportunities to connect, ask questions, and more by Taylor Bennett | Oct 18, 2019 | Mental Health Topics, Relationships, Work & Careers Everything that comes with a new job can be intimidating, as you are entering an unfamiliar place with unfamiliar people! Many of us struggle to get to know and befriend our new coworkers; the good news, though, is that we can implement a few tips to make the process easier….
I’m in my 40s. How can I make new friends? by Anthony Centore, PhD | Oct 14, 2019 | Ask a Therapist, Mental Health Topics, Relationships How can I make connections to make new friends? I do things like go to meetup group hikes, but I don’t know how to translate that into ongoing acquaintances, much less deepen it into friendships. I feel like people would be annoyed if I tried to insert myself into things….
Healthy relationships are the key to happiness: Quality matters more than quantity by Dan Tamasulo, PhD | Oct 7, 2019 | Mental Health Topics, Relationships For years, psychology has looked into the imperfections of the human race. Depression, anxiety and mental illness studies and management protocols have covered pages of journals. When working to discover causes and treatments of these mental illnesses, researchers persevered to find ways to ease suffering for all those who were…
Harmonious vs. obsessive passion: Harmonious passion supports a healthy relationship, while obsessive passion can destroy it by Dan Tamasulo, PhD | Oct 4, 2019 | Mental Health Topics, Relationships A study ran by a Canadian researcher found that passion can be divided into two types: harmonious and obsessive. Dr. Robert Vallerand states that harmonious passion is present when we partake in an activity that we adore and feel pleased both throughout the activity and once we complete it. When…
How-to up your dating game: 4 tips (Video) by Taylor Bennett | Oct 3, 2019 | Mental Health Topics, Relationships Dating can be intimidating. But if you follow a few rules, you can up your dating game and actually find romance. Here are four tips: One, plan fun dates. This first tip is simple: structure your dates around activities you actually enjoy. For example, instead of going to dinner and…
Am I ready to get married? 5 signs you’re ready for marriage, according to relationship specialists by Taylor Bennett | Sep 27, 2019 | Mental Health Topics, Relationships Marriage is a major commitment, and many of us wonder how we’ll ever know the time is right—a few signs can help us find clarity. First, true love, dedication, and effort are needed to make a relationship last; if these are apparent in your relationship, you are on the right…
How to communicate more effectively with your partner: 3 tips (Video) by Taylor Bennett | Sep 13, 2019 | Communication, Mental Health Topics, Relationships Imagine this: you get home from work, and your spouse looks up at you from the kitchen table, clearly concerned. You demand simultaneously, “Where are the kids?” You both thought it was the other person’s turn to pick the kids up from soccer practice, which has the potential to spark…
The positive regard we receive from dogs gives our mental health a generous boost by Taylor Bennett | Aug 29, 2019 | Mental Health Topics, Relationships The perfect relationship doesn’t exist, but we can get pretty close to it: the relationship we develop with our dog is mutually beneficial and rarely contains conflict. Dogs offer their owners unconditional love and positive regard; in other words, they love them and think highly of them no matter what. …
Our pets love us unconditionally: They bring us endless fun, joy, and comfort which all prove beneficial to our mental health by Taylor Bennett | Aug 27, 2019 | Mental Health Topics, Relationships Pets can bring an overwhelming amount of fun, joy, and love to our lives—additionally, they can help to soothe any feelings of loneliness. Dogs, cats, and other pets love their owners unconditionally and in showing this love are able to help us feel happy again. The positive impact doesn’t stop…