starting therapy

If you’ve seen the season 3 finale of “Shrinking”, you probably have a lot of feelings to process. (Heads up: some spoilers for season 3 ahead!)  Despite being a show full of ethical violations in therapy, “Shrinking” has become one of the most honest portrayals of healing, community, and being…

We all know therapy can change lives. Perhaps couples therapy saved your sister’s marriage or a friend learned to manage their anxiety after working with a therapist. Yet when it’s your turn to book a session, you freeze, wondering if you can actually afford therapy. Realizing you have no idea…

Both Thriveworks and Grow Therapy connect you with a licensed therapist who takes your insurance. On the surface, they look nearly identical. But the way they’re built is fundamentally different, and that difference matters more than most comparison articles make clear. The main difference between Thriveworks and Grow Therapy is…

For years, the assumption has held: Older adults don’t go to therapy. They tough it out, keep it private, handle it themselves. But something in Thriveworks’ own data disrupted that narrative. From 2024 to 2025, the number of therapy sessions attended by adults 65 and older at Thriveworks grew by…

You’ve booked the session. Maybe you’ve even thought about what you want to say. But somewhere between deciding to go and actually sitting across from a therapist, you start to wonder: Is there anything I shouldn’t bring up? What if I say something that gives them the wrong idea? There’s…

You’ve probably heard of both. Maybe you’ve already looked them up, scanned a few reviews, and still aren’t sure which one is actually right for you. That’s because the answer genuinely depends on your situation—specifically, whether you have insurance you want to use, and whether in-person care matters to you….

If you’ve looked up both Thriveworks and LifeStance Health, you’ve probably noticed they look a lot alike. Both accept insurance, offer in-person and virtual sessions, let you choose your own provider, and cover therapy and psychiatry. The similarity is worth saying plainly: This is a closer call than most therapy…

Most therapy glossaries are organized alphabetically, which isn’t exactly helpful when you’re sitting in a waiting room wondering what “therapeutic alliance” means or Googling at 11 p.m. trying to understand why your last session felt so heavy. This one is organized differently: by where you are in the process. Whether…

You don’t need to be in crisis to benefit from therapy. Many people avoid seeking help because they feel their struggles aren’t “serious enough”. Maybe you haven’t experienced major trauma, or your life looks fine from the outside. “A lot of people think that in order for therapy to be…

You’ve decided you want to talk to a therapist, but now you’re staring at a dozen browser tabs wondering where to even start. It’s completely understandable. Finding the right therapist involves both practical considerations (like insurance coverage and logistics) and something harder to define: that sense of connection and safety…

You’re Googling “couples therapy vs marriage counseling” at 11 p.m. because you and your partner just had the same fight you’ve had five times this month, and you’re finally ready to get help. But now you’re stuck: Do you need couples therapy or marriage counseling? Does it even matter? Short…

Therapy is supposed to help you feel better, right? So why do some people walk out of sessions feeling more emotional, more exhausted, more weighed down than when they arrived? This is actually incredibly common. In my practice, I see it happen for a few very human reasons: Therapy exposes…