My Son married 8 years ago at age 24 his wife has only lived with him 25 percent of the time. He was State side the years of their marriage. She lives in Arizina he’s in Purto Rico so my Grand Daughter will be 5 actually. When I call she does not return my calls. My Son really does not know what to say. I was visiting due to my Grandmoms passing. But could not see my Gramd Daughter.
Distance makes relationships more difficult. It sounds like you are experiencing grief and loss, which may be complicated with not being able to have a relationship with your granddaughter. You may benefit from counseling so you can talk about what you are feeling and thinking. It is important to take care of yourself so if and when you are able to talk with your granddaughter you will be able to regulate your emotions so you can focus on your granddaughters’ needs.