geometry-shapes iconDomestic Abuse, Behavioral Issues, Coping Skills, Infidelity, Men’s Issues, Life Transition, Anxiety, Depression, Self-Harming, Adoption
Online in New Jersey
25 years in practice
Ages served: 18-65+
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Accepted insurance & self-pay

William accepts 31 insurers
Aetna
Aetna Medicare Advantage
Cigna | Evernorth
Cigna | Evernorth - Employee Assistance Program (EAP)
Cigna | Open Access Plus New Jersey
AmeriHealth Administrators
AmeriHealth Medicare Advantage
AmeriHealth New Jersey
Carelon
Clover Health Medicare Advantage
Compsych
Firefly Health Plan | Cigna PPO Network
First Health Network
HealthSpring | Medicare Advantage
Horizon Blue Cross and Blue Shield of New Jersey | BCBS - HMO
Horizon Blue Cross and Blue Shield of New Jersey | BCBS - PPO
Horizon Blue Cross and Blue Shield of New Jersey | BCBS Medicare Advantage (HMO | PPO)
Humana Medicare Advantage
Independence Blue Cross | BCBS
JP Farley Corporation
Medicare NJ
Multi Plan PHCS
Optum Serve
Oxford Health Plans
Quest Behavioral Health
Railroad Medicare
UMR
United Healthcare | Optum
United Healthcare | Optum - Employee Assistance Program (EAP)
United Healthcare | Optum Medicare Advantage
Uprise EAP
SELF-PAY COSTS
Out-of-pocket session costs for clients who don’t have insurance or aren’t covered by their insurance for mental health services.
$200
first session
$170
subsequent sessions
About Provider

About William

Bill DeFilippo is a Licensed Professional Counselor with more than 20 years of experience providing mental health services to adults, children, families, and couples. He is an advocate for strengthening one's ability to understand and improve oneself in an often complex world. He prides himself on the ability to quickly develop rapport with clients as they journey together toward achieving greater life balance. Bill's specialties include—but are not limited to—life stress, anxiety, depression, grief, family discord, and relationship dysfunction.


Bill completed his master's in counseling at Montclair State University in 2000. Bill uses many treatment modalities (family systems theory, structural family therapy, cognitive behavioral therapy, psychoanalysis, behavior modification) but lands on the one that is uniquely suited for you during your presentation.


Life can be tough, and the decision to enter counseling can be even tougher. But whatever brings you to Bill, understand that he will be committed to your journey toward improved well-being and help provide you with the tools you need to get back at it independently. His services are just a click away!

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"I believe that connecting with my clients is better done through shared lived experiences rather than solely education and training."

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Get to know William

Why did you decide to become a counselor or psychiatric provider?


I have had a helping profession personality ever since I can remember. I was unique in being able to feel other people's pain and struggles. In life, there was really only one career path for me and that was as counselor.


What types of clients do you work with best?


I work best with clients who take an active role in their therapy. Those who put the work in between sessions. Those who are open to new strategies and solutions, and those who can take risks with honesty. I am equally proficient with children, adults, couples and family units; and have contributed to successes of clients with issues ranging from everyday life stressors to those with severe and persistent mental illnesses.


What type of clients are you most excited to work with?


Generally speaking, it is adolescents who feel like their problems are insurmountable at the beginning of therapy but who quickly realize that they have the skills to put their biggest challenges in the rearview mirror, and then go on to have a productive adulthood.


What's one thing you wish all clients knew?


That each moment of each day is a new opportunity to make a change, even if previous efforts have failed.


Why did you choose to practice at Thriveworks?


Thriveworks offers the ability to be flexible and reach as many new members as possible.


What inspires you?


I have all the trinkets that inspire me in my home office, and they say much about me. I have sports memorabilia (represents winning, losing and teamwork), small gifts through the years from my daughter (which represents whom is most important), items that speak to my faith (which represent a source of strength when I feel drained), an old record player with my favorite albums (which represents the soundtrack of my life), photos of loved ones (which represent the support I received for all these years of struggle), and a small cactus (that I keep alive with the least amount of water possible)!


What can clients expect in their first session with you?


Clients can expect a warm, non-judgmental greeting, void of awkwardness. Full effort to gain rapport, build trust and an agreement of our counseling contract. They can expect that I will want to know about what brings them to me- but not only that. I want to know about who they are in their best times as well as their worst of times.


What do you want to accomplish with an individual in their first session?


I want to know what brings them to me, to know what type of investment they are willing to make in therapy, and how often they would like to be seen and what shape that would take. I would go over the assessment, its results, and begin to formulate a plan to get them through therapy as efficiently as possible.


What should clients know about you before scheduling a first session?


That my time is as important to me as their time. Beginning and ending on time is important to me so that I can give everyone the same attention.


What do you do for fun/on your time off?


I start each day bright and early at the gym for 90 minutes. I value a balanced life of physical/mental/social and emotional well-being. I enjoy live shows (theatre, concerts and ballgames), I like to travel (cruises to beaches are my favorite), and binge watching "whodunits" on TV


What's one thing about you that defines you (non-professional)?


I am a go-to person for anyone needing support and understanding.


Can you tell us about a success you had with a client?


I am particularly pleased with my work with a male client who initially entered therapy with his then girlfriend seeking couples counseling. His presentation initially tested my professional patience because his bravado and misogyny held center stage and he showed no ability to integrate feedback. I stuck with him and he began a transformation in individual counseling that I have rarely seen in my career. I used a combination of reality therapy, reflective listening, mirroring and psychoanalysis to help break down what was clearly an outward facade of an existence to the point where today he operates under the moral fiber that lived beneath for many decades.

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Other areas of focus

SpecialitiesDomestic Abuse, Behavioral Issues, Coping Skills, Infidelity, Men’s Issues, Life Transition, Anxiety, Depression, Self-Harming, Adoption, Body Image Issues, Caregivers, Domestic Violence, Emotional Disturbance, First Responders, Gambling, Hoarding, Internet Addiction, Marital & Premarital, Mood Disorders, Obesity, Open Relationships / Non-Monogamy, Panic Attack, Peer Relationships, Performance Anxiety, Sexual Addiction, Social Anxiety, Sports Performance, Suicidal Ideation, Thinking Disorders, Weight Loss, Gender Identity / Transgender, Stress / Mental Stress / Work Stress, Anger Management, Career Counseling, Spirituality, Family Conflict, Parenting, Divorce, Grief, LGBTQIA+, Self Esteem, Sex Therapy, Women’s Issues, Sexual Abuse, Relationships, Trauma / PTSD
ApproachesChristian Counseling, Humanistic / Rogerian, Gestalt, Internal Family Systems (IFS), Reality Therapy, Relational, Existential Therapy, Family Systems, Any / Eclectic, Family / Marital, Psychotherapy, Trauma-Focused Cognitive Behavior Therapy (TF-CBT), Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Compassion Focused Therapy (CFT), Gottman Method, Person-Centered Therapy, Solution Focused Brief Therapy (SFBT), Trauma-Focused, Strength-Based Therapy, Culturally Sensitive, Faith-Based Counseling, Psychoanalytic
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Education and training

Years in practice
25 years
Graduating institute
Montclair State University
Graduating degree
Master of Arts in Counseling
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Additional details

Languages spoken by this provider
English
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NPI number1699373860
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State of practiceNJ
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License number37PC00352400
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