geometry-shapes iconSexual Abuse, Eating Disorder, Anxiety, Depression, Domestic Violence, Narcissistic Abuse Recovery, Personality Disorders
In Person & Online in Toms River, NJ
16 years in practice
Ages served: 11-65+
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Accepted insurance & self-pay

Melanie accepts 19 insurers
Aetna
Blue Cross Blue Shield
Optum Serve
United Healthcare | Optum
United Healthcare | Optum - Employee Assistance Program (EAP)
Clover Health Medicare Advantage
Compsych
First Health Network
Horizon Blue Cross and Blue Shield of New Jersey | BCBS - HMO
Horizon Blue Cross and Blue Shield of New Jersey | BCBS - PPO
Horizon Blue Cross and Blue Shield of New Jersey | BCBS Medicare Advantage (HMO | PPO)
JP Farley Corporation
Multi Plan PHCS
Oscar Health
Oxford Health Plans
Quest Behavioral Health
Tricare East | Out of Network Provider
UMR
United Healthcare | Optum Medicare Advantage
Uprise EAP
SELF-PAY COSTS
Out-of-pocket session costs for clients who don’t have insurance or aren’t covered by their insurance for mental health services.
$200
first session
$170
subsequent sessions
About Provider

About Melanie

I am an LCSW, LCADC, CCS, and SAP with a Bachelor's degree in Psychology and a minor in Substance Abuse Counseling from Ramapo College of NJ (2012), and a Master's degree in Social Work with a concentration in Substance Abuse Counseling from Rutgers University. I have extensive experience across inpatient, IOP, and PHP levels of care, working with individuals ages 10 through adulthood, and progressed from therapist to Clinical Director. I specialize in the treatment of anxiety, depression, adjustment disorders, mood disorders, and personality disorders, and am committed to providing compassionate, client-centered care.

I utilize a range of evidence-based modalities, primarily Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), and Motivational Interviewing. Through compassion, empathy, and collaborative effort, I support individuals in their healing process and am honored to walk alongside them on their journey toward lasting wellness.

Taking the first step toward support can feel overwhelming, but you don’t have to do it alone. I strive to create a warm, safe, and supportive space where you feel heard and valued. Healing is possible, and together we can work toward meaningful growth and lasting change at a pace that feels right for you.

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"My own experiences with trauma allow me to offer deeper empathy and understanding, and because I know the courage it takes to seek help, I strive to create a safe, nonjudgmental space where every client feels heard, valued, and appreciated."

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Get to know Melanie

Why did you decide to become a counselor or psychiatric provider?

I chose a career in counseling because of my own firsthand experiences with life’s challenges, which gave me a deep appreciation for the support and guidance I once received. Those experiences continue to inspire my passion for giving back and helping others navigate their own journeys. It is truly meaningful to me to offer the same compassion, understanding, and encouragement that helped me, and to support others in finding hope, healing, and strength.

What types of clients do you work best with? 

I work effectively with a diverse range of clients, and I am particularly skilled at building trust, rapport, and motivation with those who may initially be hesitant or treatment-resistant. Through patience, empathy, and individualized approaches, I help clients feel understood and empowered to engage in their own healing and growth.

What's one thing you wish all clients knew about therapy, mental health, or the healing process?

I wish all clients understood that healing is not a linear process—it can be messy and unpredictable at times. Setbacks are a normal part of the journey and are not failures; they are opportunities to learn, reflect, and grow. Embracing these moments with patience and self-compassion helps foster lasting progress and resilience. 

What can clients expect in their first session with you and in the early stages of therapy? 

During our first session, my focus is on getting to know each other and beginning to build a foundation of trust and a strong therapeutic relationship. I practice a person-centered approach, supporting clients in discovering their own answers while providing a nonjudgmental, accepting space where everyone is welcomed and valued.

What personal experiences or values inform your practice as a therapist/provider?

I know firsthand what it feels like to be misunderstood, and my goal is to help others avoid that same pain. My work is guided by integrity, honesty, and a strong commitment to ethical practice, ensuring that every client feels respected, heard, and supported throughout their journey. 

How do you tailor therapy to meet each client’s unique needs?

I tailor therapy to meet each client’s unique needs by carefully listening to their experiences, goals, and challenges, and then collaboratively developing strategies that fit their individual circumstances. I draw from a variety of evidence-based approaches, adjusting techniques and pace to match each client’s preferences, readiness, and personal strengths, ensuring that the care I provide is both effective and meaningful.

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Other areas of focus

SpecialitiesSexual Abuse, Eating Disorder, Anxiety, Depression, Domestic Violence, Narcissistic Abuse Recovery, Personality Disorders, Domestic Abuse, LGBTQIA+, Behavioral Issues, Coping Skills, Self Esteem, Women’s Issues, Addiction, Bipolar Disorder, Life Transition, Relationships, Trauma / PTSD, Self-Harming, Antisocial Personality, Body Dysmorphia, Body Image Issues, Codependency, Dual Diagnosis, Emotional Disturbance, Impulse Control Disorders, Internet Addiction, Marital & Premarital, Mood Disorders, Neurodiversity, Panic Attack, Peer Relationships, Psychosis, Seniors & Geriatric, Sexual Addiction, Social Anxiety, Suicidal Ideation, Stress / Mental Stress / Work Stress, Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD), Career Counseling, Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD), Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD), Testing & Evaluation, Spirituality, Substance Use, Family Conflict, School Issues, Divorce
ApproachesInternal Family Systems (IFS), Motivational Interviewing, Positive Psychology, Reality Therapy, Any / Eclectic, Family / Marital, Psychotherapy, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), Person-Centered Therapy, Solution Focused Brief Therapy (SFBT), Structural Family Therapy (SFT), Trauma-Focused, Music Therapy, Psychological Testing and Evaluation
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Education and training

Years in practice
16 years
Graduating institute
Rutgers University- New Brunswick
Graduating degree
Master of Social Work
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Additional details

Languages spoken by this provider
English
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NPI number1629773916
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State of practiceNJ
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License number44SC06189900
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Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW)she/her