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Terence Lau

he/him

Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist (LMFT)

geometry-shapes iconSexual Abuse, Addiction, Trauma / PTSD, Grief, Depression, Anxiety
Online in California
25 years in practice
Ages served: 14-64

Accepted insurance

Terence accepts 23 insurers
Anthem
Blue Cross Blue Shield
Optum Serve
United Healthcare | Optum
United Healthcare | Optum - Employee Assistance Program (EAP)
Adventist Health Associates | Employee Health Plan
Adventist Health Associates | Non-Employee Health Plan
Alignment Health Plan
Anthem Blue Cross of California | Commercial
Anthem Blue Cross of California | Medicare Advantage
Blue Shield of California | BCBS
Blue Shield of California | Medicare Advantage
Compsych
JP Farley Corporation
Multi Plan PHCS
Quest Behavioral Health
SCAN Health Plan Medicare Advantage California
Sutter Senior Care
Tricare West
UMR
United Healthcare | Optum Medicare Advantage
Uprise EAP
Ventura County Health Care Plan
Veterans Affairs (VA) TriWest California
Western Health Advantage

Self pay

Self pay costs

Out-of-pocket session costs for clients who don’t have insurance or aren’t covered by their insurance for mental health services.

$200
first session
$170
subsequent sessions

About Terence

I am a therapist with over 20 years of experience supporting individuals navigating trauma, anxiety, depression, substance use, grief, life transitions, relationship challenges, and co-occurring mental health concerns. I work with adolescents and adults, and my experience spans private practice, addiction treatment, community mental health, and homeless services. I hold a master's degree in psychology with an emphasis in marriage and family therapy and am EMDR trained.

My approach is eclectic, trauma-informed, and tailored to each client's unique needs. Drawing from EMDR, DBT, mindfulness, and motivational interviewing, I help clients build insight, strengthen coping skills, process difficult experiences, and move toward lasting healing and growth.

Healing happens in a space where you feel safe, heard, and accepted exactly as you are. Whether you're facing a current challenge or carrying the weight of past experiences, you don't have to navigate it alone. When you're ready, I welcome the opportunity to support your journey.

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"As a therapist with lived experience, I bring an eclectic, trauma-informed, and compassionate-centered approach that honors each person's unique story, creating a supportive space for healing, growth, and exploration of identity in all of its forms. "

Get to know Terence

Why did you decide to become a counselor or psychiatric provider?

I became a therapist because I have always been drawn to helping others navigate life's challenges and discover their own resilience. Through both my professional and personal understanding of adversity. I have seen the transformative impact the compassionate support and meaningful connection can have on healing and growth. I am passionate about creating a safe, nonjudgmental space where people feel seen, heard, and empowered to make positive changes in their lives.

What types of clients do you work best with? 

I work best with adults who are navigating trauma, anxiety, depression, substance use and recovery, grief, life transitions, relationship challenges, and identity exploration. I enjoy supporting individuals who are seeking greater self-awareness, healing, and personal growth, and I strive to create an inclusive, affirming space where clients feel safe being their authentic selves.

What's one thing you wish all clients knew about therapy, mental health, or the healing process?

Healing is not a linear process, and meaningful change often happens through small, consistent steps rather than dramatic breakthroughs. Therapy is not about being "fixed" it's about developing a greater selfunderstanding, building resilience, and learning new ways to navigate life's challenges with compassion for yourself along the way.

What can clients expect in their first session with you and in the early stages of therapy?

In our first session, clients can expect a warm, supportive, and judgment-free space where we begin to know each other. We'll discuss what brings you to therapy, your current concerns, relevant history, and what you hope to gain from the process. In the early stages of therapy, we'll work together to identify goals, build trust, and develop a personalized approach that supports your unique needs, strengths, and path toward healing.

What personal experiences or values inform your practice as a therapist/provider? 

My practice is grounded in the values of compassion, authenticity, inclusivity, and respect for each person's unique lived experience. Having navigated my own life challenges, I understand the importance of feeling seen, supported, and understood. These experiences have strengthened my belief in resilience of the human spirit and inform my commitment to creating a safe, trauma-informed space where clients of all identities can explore, heal, and grown.

How do you tailor therapy to meet each client’s unique needs?

I tailer therapy by meeting each client where they are and collaborating on goals that reflect their unique needs, strengths, and lived experiences. I draw from an eclectic range of evidence-based approaches, including EMDR, DBT, mindfulness, and motivational interviewing, and adjust our work based on what feels most helpful and effective for you. Therapy is flexible and individualized, with the focus always on what supports your healing, growth, and overall well-being.

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Other areas of focus

SpecialitiesSexual Abuse, Addiction, Trauma / PTSD, Grief, Depression, Anxiety, Impulse Control Disorders, Suicidal Ideation, Teen Violence, Video Game Addiction, Weight Loss, Relationships, School Issues, Self Esteem, Self-Harming, Sexual Addiction, Sleep / Insomnia, Social Anxiety, Spirituality, Step-Family / Blended Family Issues, Stress / Mental Stress / Work Stress, Substance Use, Mood Disorders, Narcissistic Abuse Recovery, Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD), LGBTQIA+, Men’s Issues, Gambling, Gender Identity / Transgender, Infidelity, Internet Addiction, Divorce, Dual Diagnosis, Family Conflict, Career Counseling, Caregivers, Chronic Illness/Pain, Codependency, Coping Skills, Agoraphobia, Alcohol Use, Anger Management, Behavioral Issues, Bipolar Disorder, Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD)
ApproachesTrauma-Focused Cognitive Behavior Therapy (TF-CBT), Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT), Sandplay, Solution Focused Brief Therapy (SFBT), Strength-Based Therapy, Structural Family Therapy (SFT), Trauma-Focused, Narrative, Person-Centered Therapy, Play Therapy, Humanistic / Rogerian, Internal Family Systems (IFS), Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), Mindfulness-Based Therapy (MBCT), Motivational Interviewing, Family / Marital, Family Systems, Coaching, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Cognitive Processing Therapy (CPT), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Compassion Focused Therapy (CFT), Culturally Sensitive, Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), Discernment Counseling, Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), Attachment-Based, Behavioral Therapy

Education and training

Years in practice
25 years
Graduating institute
University of the West
Graduating degree
Master of Arts in Psychology Marriage and Family Counseling

Additional details

Languages spoken by this provider
English
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NPI number1336476050
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Licensed in
California
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License number163148

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