Disorders, Mental Health Topics Rare mental disorders that could inspire blockbuster Halloween movies by Wistar Murray on Oct 25, 2021 First, let’s clear up one thing: There’s nothing inherently spooky or dangerous about mental health conditions like dissociative identity disorder (split personality) and schizophrenia. But that hasn’t stopped filmmakers from exploiting these conditions again and again in their horror movies. Cinematic depictions of people with mental health disorders can range…
Feelings & Emotions, Mental Health Topics Damaged beyond repair? The shame that keeps us up at night by Shannon Kersey, LPA on Oct 22, 2021 Shame: There is something wrong with me as a person. Guilt: I’m a person who may have done something wrong. What is the thing that causes you to lay awake at night; the thing that causes you shame? I promise that you’re not damaged beyond repair. You’re not unlovable. You’re…
Mental Health Topics, Power & Control, Work & Careers Dealing with workplace manipulation: Identify the signs, spot dark personality traits, and communicate more effectively by Jason Crosby on Oct 21, 2021 It’s like a bad nightmare: Imagine having a supervisor that’s hellbent on making your life miserable, playing with your emotions and your sanity. Perhaps this is already a tempting fantasy to believe on our worst workdays, when we’re rushing to meet deadlines or sitting through tedious meetings. Despite the frustration…
Depression, Mental Health Topics, Postpartum & Pregnancy Strategies for coping with infertility and infertility depression by Wistar Murray on Oct 19, 2021 Even scientific literature has described infertility as “the most upsetting experience” of a person’s life. This seems to be more true for women than men, since their minds and bodies usually bear the greater burden of infertility treatment. It’s pretty clear how culture, biology, and identity can all align to…
Alcohol & Drugs, College, Mental Health Topics Safe drinking tips for college students: Preserve your physical and mental health while under the influence by Jason Crosby on Oct 19, 2021 For many undergraduate college students (as well as those who’ve since graduated), drinking alcohol seems synonymous with the university experience. It can be a way to celebrate getting through final exams or winning a home football game. Most notoriously, a drink in hand can also loosen our social inhibitions, to…
Infidelity, Mental Health Topics, Money & Financial Issues, Relationships What is financial infidelity? Strategies for talking about your spending habits with your spouse or partner by Jason Crosby on Oct 12, 2021 What if our partner’s financial status had been remarkably different, right from the beginning of our relationship. Would that have changed our decision about dating them? What if they’d been even poorer—or what if they’d been richer? As shallow as it sounds, money does make the world go round; and…
Mental Health Topics, Money & Financial Issues, Psychology How to live like you just won the lottery: Hacking the psychology of wealth by Wistar Murray on Oct 11, 2021 What’s the next best thing to being a multi-millionaire? Feeling like a multi-millionaire. We’ve all fantasized about that moment when we scratch our lotto ticket and see the winning numbers. What do we do first with all our bags of money? The exercise reminds me of the “miracle question” that…
Mental Health Topics, Narcissism Signs of an introverted narcissist: How to spot their subtle tactics of manipulation by Jason Crosby on Oct 8, 2021 Perhaps it’s something about the magnetic allure of narcissistic personalities — or maybe it’s our own dark, inner desires to focus intensely on ourselves that spark interest in narcissism. Whatever the case, we know a lot about the extroverted, grandiose persona typically associated with narcissists — but introverts can be…
Mental Health Topics, Relationships An extra scoop of ice cream saves my marriage: The little stuff that will make or break us by Shannon Kersey, LPA on Oct 6, 2021 When I first met my now-husband’s friends, we all went out to dinner. When we were eating dessert, one of the wives said, “I have known several girlfriends through the years, and he never shares his dessert with anyone. He must really like you!” I laughed, thinking she was kidding….
Beginning Therapy, Mental Health Topics, Self-Care Let’s hear it for the forest state of mind: Nature therapy and forest medicine by Wistar Murray on Oct 5, 2021 You’ve probably heard about forest medicine, how spending time in the woods can lower your stress levels, improve your mood, bolster your immune system, and perhaps literally recharge your body (when you’re barefoot). It all seems so obvious, considering that homo sapiens evolved in tandem with their ecosystem. But if…
Beginning Therapy, Mental Health Topics, PTSD How can therapy help people overcome PTSD? by Stanley Clark on Oct 4, 2021 People who have gone through traumatic events may experience some mental and emotional disturbances. They may not be able to perceive things positively and live life as they did before. There might be flashbacks, anxieties, and fears that may continue to affect their ability to function daily, which are common…
Mental Health Topics, Relationships Advice for dating a roommate: Cohabitant hookups and the proximity principle by Wistar Murray on Oct 1, 2021 Dear Unlicensed Psychoblogger, My roommate is extremely attractive and I’m starting to feel an emotional connection. Would it be a humongous mistake to hook up? Sincerely, Writer’s Imaginary Friend (WIF) Dear WIF, This is a tricky question. Fortunately, I’m abundantly qualified to answer it because I’m currently raising a kindergartner…