Not quite a year ago I found texts between my husband and a woman sales rep that had very obviously crossed the professional line but I don’t know how far. (She got transfered) Since then I’ve noticed little, sometimes ridiculous things that typically could be written off with a simple answer, but I’m met with either an I don’t know, complete silence, or he walks away. He knows it makes me think the worst but he does it anyway. I’m I making to much of this???? Am I overreacting?? Part of me wants somebody to say yes.
Hi Melinda, it’s understandable that things have felt different between you and your husband since this line was crossed a year ago. I wasn’t sure if/how you two were able to talk about this experience together and what effects it had.
There is certainly a road that needs to be paved to re-establish trust, and emotional/physical intimacy.
Have you spoken to a trusted friend about these thoughts you’ve been having, or perhaps a spiritual guide, or maybe a therapist?